How to Use Escorts: IV
In a previous post on this subject, I had talked about using online resources to optimize your experience with escorts. I will answer the other half of the question today: agency or independent contractor?
Before I say anything more, remember this:
If you are a newbie, your best experience will probably with a well-researched escort from an established, but not too expensive agency.
Now there are some caveats about using agencies:
1. Never use an agency that boasts of an elite client base. They are just lazy, snobby ripoffs.
2. Never use agencies that require you to pay in advance.
3. Stop patronizing any agency that sides with a gal you had to send back. Trust me, that happens.
4. Anything above 300$/hr and without MSOG is not worth it, no exceptions!
If you perform enough background research and use common sense, you will have a very pleasurable experience with an agency escort. It also helps that many agencies have lots of new faces, and the owners appreciate good repeat customers.
The quality of independent contractors can vary greatly, however as long as you perform a skeptical review check and take common sense precautions- you will be fine. Indeed the true gems in the escort business are often independent contractors.
As many of you know, escorts can be either incalls or outcalls. While each type has its pros and cons, which I discuss in a future article- outcalls are often the safer option. Also note that established agencies do not send any man/ driver along with your outcall to your door, and that is one of the sure signs of a scam or shakedown. The usual pattern involves somebody or a cab to drop her off, a quick phone call that she has reached, and one after the hour (or more) is over when someone or a cab to pick her up. That is it! Anything more than that is a bad sign, and feel free to bailout of such a scenario.
Any man who accompanies escorts to your door, hangs around in your house, property, floor of hotel is a sign of a scam or amateurs. At most, the guy can sit in the lobby/ bar of the hotel. Also be very suspicious of more than one guy accompanying the escort.
I have more suggestions for things to watch out for when using incalls, in my next post in this series. After that I will talk about massage parlours etc..
And one more thing:
If an escort is significantly different from her online description (official or reviews), send her away. You should not have to pay 200-300$ for an inferior lay, that is what committed men do.. Every wonder why the same word is used for a man in a relationship and one in a mental asylum?
I think is no need to worry about this kind of problems because most of High Class Escort agencies don’t want to lose their client doing things taht they could damage theyr reputation.
And yes is ethical to use an escort service because most of the business mans don t have time to invest into an real relationship and this is the easyest way to do it.
What does payment in advance mean? Does it mean pay before they even send the girl? Or does it mean pay the girl the moment she shows up?
hello mr. crapacoli ana-linguist,
did you ever have a few drinks, y’know for the vasofacilatory effects and then find out she was really a he? did that turn out to be one of your better experiences?
Rock On !
Stoner With a Boner
I am a licensed masseuse in Manhattan and have an ivy undergrad degree , and am working on an ivy masters. while I am not an escort I am a licensed masseuse with great hands and offer a topless massage.
I do not allow touching and most of the the time the client is on their stomach and can’t see me anyway.
I used to model for a top modeling agency and am better looking then 99% of the population without one ounce of make-up.
I have amazing hands and am a class act. I charge 250 /hr and am booked whenever I choose to be and am offered tips and get gifts form my regulars who truly enjoy my company.
You get what you pay for.
I am so over sleazy men hunting for cheap sleaze. I do not pretend to be sexually attracted to my clients and it is truly just business.
Whoever wrote this had never been with a godess! Cheap bastard. I would never have sex with a mna for money but If I did hew would be buying me a condo and a new jag!
Do nto listen to this fool. go for the gusto. Do nto be a fool. I agree if a girl does nto look liek the photo you saw send her away….but do expect a breath taking stunner to show up for
200 or 300…GET REAL. I have had a few of my clients( no sex or anything…not so much as kiss….) give me a couple thousand dollars for dinner dates that lasted 2 or 3 hours.
My clients look to spend money on real top shelf quality. Save up if you have to but if you are going to book a girl for a massage or an escort experience at least let your jaw drop when you open your door and she crosses your thresh-hold…NUFF SAID!
Meh. I dunno, I’ve spoken to a lot of women, and even the seemingly good one’s seem very self-seeking to me (even if they don’t know it themselves). I’d say the chances of finding an actually good (not selfish) girl that would genuinely care about you, and not what you give her, are pretty slim – especially in today’s age where people are so spoiled with instant gratification of all kinds. Given that, I see two paths – shun women all-together and learn to live happily as a celibate (become a monk or something), or do what this guy is doing, don’t get married, and pay for sex. I personally would think the former would be more fulfilling and sensible since it truly free’s you from any kind of dependence on women whatever, besides the fact that one had to birth you to bring you into the God-forsaken world. I’m honestly near the point where I no longer even desire sex because, well, I’m so disgusted with most of the women I meet. (Foreign women from Eastern Europe, India, and Asia have been better/nicer, though). I’m practically celibate already.
That’s probably one of the saddest things I’ve ever heard…I’m sorry you’re so jaded, but there are nice women out there who don’t give two shits about money. I’m an escort and I do it because I love sex, the money’s just a bonus. But I’ve dated men like you. In fact one man in particular who I fell in love with couldn’t fall in love with me because he couldn’t trust such a thing [or such a woman] existed, someone who didn’t care about his wallet. It’s really a shame…and he broke my heart.
@Sandi:
You’re an escort … don’t you need more customers?
In fact one man in particular who I fell in love with couldn’t fall in love with me because he couldn’t trust such a thing [or such a woman] existed, someone who didn’t care about his wallet. It’s really a shame…and he broke my heart.
Women complain about the men that don’t commit …
because they ignore or drive away the men that WILL commit.
They think marriage is for losers,
because the man that marries them …
marries them after the women can no longer attract the “badboys”, as her looks, health and mental strength have faded.
who cares if you look good, you sound like u got a terrible personality anyway. I’d never touch you if I had a choice.
and before you go boasting about about being in an ivy league college and shit, u should realize that its not that big of an accomplishment. I know people that have paid their way into those schools. Most of them will probably end up working for someone else anyway…like you HA
Thank you thank you thank you, some one with sense. I AM a working girl, but not your typical. I live a very normal lifestyle outside of work and I have sound morals. This man is narrow minded and I doubt he will ever be able to find happiness with a woman longer than an hour in his life because the
Respect is non existent. Women love a man who adores women in every way. Not one who sees the female as a come sponge.
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I feel sorry for your “clients”.
You can’t generalize a whole fucking gender.
So sorry…to your ego…but you’re wrong…
I never said he wouldn’t commit either. In fact he did. But he wouldn’t let himself feel anything. And to me that was the level of commitment I needed. Most marriages are a matter of control. One person needing to claim another. Not about real love. Marriage is great if you can find the right person who values a real relationship. And real love. But most can never get over their own egos and let them self be vulnerable with someone. But hey, that’s half of why I got into this business to begin with. It’s easier to be an escort than be in a relationship. Now I don’t have to feel anything either.
So you drove away a guy who would commit, because he didn’t “feel” enough for you?
Committing to you is not enough, he has to “feel” in a way you feel is valid?
As you say
You can’t generalize a whole fucking gender.
So sorry…to your ego…but you’re wrong…
right back ‘atcha…
No. I pushed a guy away because he wanted to control me. He didn’t love me, but still felt entitled to me…And without love/compassion commitment isn’t enough for me, then it’s just a form of manipulation.
If commitment is manipulation …
then you should be glad no other man has made you want to be married to him.
I’m not sure what you mean by compassion in commitment.
Let the person you are married to sleep around, ’cause that’s what people open about their relationships do?
If you want that right … would you grant that to him too?
Seems like men are only walking ATM machines to you. I guess there is an upside to being broke, I won’t be contributing in the transfer of wealth to women at whatever your hourly rate is…