Altruism, Adversarialism and Women: 05

Men face a peculiar dilemma: How do you get what you want from an entitled sociopath without being trapped by their machinations? The first step is to define what you want, and it appears that men want women primarily for sex.

Men do not see women as trustworthy confidants, soulmates or friends. Ever wonder why most married men would rather work than spend time around their wives? The cooking and cleaning skills of women are both poorly developed and redundant in our age. Kids might seem like a good idea if you like paying child support, and not seeing your kids.

To put it bluntly, men put up with all this bullshit for fucking women. But is it worth it or is there a better way?

Let me explain:

One day the Buddha met an ascetic who sat by the bank of a river. This ascetic had practised austerities for 25 years. The Buddha asked him what he had received for all his labour. The ascetic proudly replied that, finally, he could cross the river by walking on water. The Buddha pointed out that this gain was insignificant for all the years of labour, since he could cross the river using a ferry for one penny!

Consider the river to be a metaphor for what you really want from women. You could cross the river by spending time and effort on leaning how to walk on water, or you pay a modest fee for a ferry service.

What is your choice?

I can buy better than average experiences with better than average looking escorts for 200-300$ (or less in other countries). Such experiences can be obtained without the drama, bullshit and mindgames that plague ordinary interactions between men and women.

The best part is that such transactions do not come with alimony, child support, renovating houses, meeting relatives you hate, trying to be civil, going to places and occasions you hate, cutting of people you know, managing screaming and sick kids or being so dependent on a job that you would physically prostitute yourself to keep it.

Sure game helps, but after you have done it with 50-100 different women who are on that best behavior for an hour, does it really matter it they wanted it or you paid for it?

My contention is that men will want to have good quality sex even after they are old, and because of advances in medicine will be able to. So what do you want to do? Chase older hags (any woman above 30) or have a 20-something blow you well and pretend to like it? Can game help a 60 year old man nail an attractive 20 something?

Now ask yourself another question? Can most 30 year old men nail a 7 or better 20-something, and make her blow you for half an hour at a time and place of your convenience? Maybe you can spend a few hours a week exercising, practicing game, learning new moves or whatever. Or you could just pay her once and be done with it. Women will never love you for what you are, but how you make them feel. Does it matter if the sex was due to ‘tight game’ or 2-3 100 dollar bills?

Sure, there is an added element of thrill in seducing women, just like hunting your own food is exciting. So how many of you hunt all the meat you eat? Custom building cars is a great and satisfying hobby, but how many of you build the cars you drive to work and leisure?

I am not criticizing game, merely pointing out that its cheaper to buy what YOU want. After all, happiness is about how YOU feel. Why should YOU accept an inferior deal when you could get a better one by paying for it? Why should YOU care about what your “friends” or women might think about paying for sex? What have these people done for YOU? Have your “friends” helped you score hot chicks? Have the women who disapprove of YOU buying sex ever given YOU any for free, and was it good?

Fuck the scruples and opinions of others! Do what makes YOU happy. It is YOUR life, not theirs. You cannot handle sociopaths unless you look out for YOUR own interests. Live life on YOUR terms, and remember that that YOU live only once.

More in the next part: Altruism, Adversarialism and Women: 06