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Why I Still Prefer Escorts

My experiences in the last two weeks were a good reminder about the flaky nature of ‘unpaid’ women. While I had a great six weeks from late March to Early May (3 ‘unpaid’ gals + an interesting experience), women flake.

While I was with 2 of the three ‘unpaid’ gals for only a couple of times, the ‘third’ (thick gal) was developing into a good booty call situation. But ‘unpaid’ women flake and often demand what they do not deserve. I did not see the point of continuing with ‘thick’ gal about 2-3 weeks ago. Since then, I have obtained many e-mails & phone numbers but no hits.

Luckily, I have escorts to fall back on. They are less complicated, extremely reliable and great to fuck. It certainly helps that they are better looking and often very skilled. Ya, I had a couple more in the last two weeks (one new and one repeat). It was not cheap, and I could have purchased a good netbook with that money, but I already have one.

I am happy and reasonably satisfied, and that is all that matters.

It is nice to get laid with willing and skilled hot chicks whether you’re on a winning streak or not. It is almost like a possessing a minor superpower that makes living a bit less unpleasant.

Here are some of my previous posts on using escorts..

How to use find them and use their services.

How to Use Escorts- I

How to Use Escorts- II

How to Use Escorts- III

How to Use Escorts: IV

How I started using escorts.

Why I Started Using Escorts

Why Escorts are a better deal that ‘real’ women.

Escorts are a better deal than ‘real’ women- I

Escorts are a better deal than ‘real’ women- II

Escorts are a better deal than ‘real’ women- III

Categories: Escorts
  1. Black Rebel
    May 31, 2010 at 10:00 pm

    I would give pros the advantage on three fronts;

    1) Skill, especially with the blowjobs. Lots of girls say they give the best blowjobs. Most do them passably, few do them really well.

    2) Less Investment. Parting with your cash may sting initially, but spending 3 weeks gaming a broad and getting nowhere is much worse.

    3) As the old saying goes, ‘You don’t pay an escort for sex; you pay for her to leave afterwards.’
    —–

    It is sad but true… escorts are a better deal than average women.

  2. June 1, 2010 at 8:20 pm

    a minor superpower. hilarious. great analogy
    —–
    Isn’t it? :D

  3. Zaza
    June 4, 2010 at 12:09 am

    What is your opinion on the STD risk of escorts? This is the main obstacle stopping me from considering escorts.
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    The STD risk from professional escorts is much lower than picking up women in bars, or even in relationships. They are very particular about condom use and getting frequently tested. With semi-pros, it is still quite safe.. better than casual hookups.

    The real problems usually occur with gals you “help” as they are just like a real GF, but more promiscuous. It is easy to let your guard down. Having said that, if you use condoms for all penetrative sex- it is very safe.

    BJs without condoms are low risk as long as gal is not a busy or poor escort.

    Herpes and HPV are unaviodable, and your best bet is to avoid gals with active lesions. That is why I will not have sex with unshaved or trimmed gals. A bald pussy makes it very hard to hide active lesions, which are often the most infective stages of herpes and HPV.

    • Zaza
      June 4, 2010 at 5:03 am

      Thanks for replying. But I am not so sure. I read some research that stated that in my country 13 percent of street and window prostitutes, 39.1 percent of prostitutes in clubs and brothels, and 52.7 percent of escorts have had unprotected sex. Also, another research article stated that 12 percent of prostitutes are HIV positive, which is WAY more than women in relationships. I have also yet to see any proof that escorts get tested that often; even the more expensive escort sites I’ve visited don’t mention anything about testing.
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      It depends on your definition of unprotected sex. Giving a BJ without a condom can be construed as unprotected sex, even though it is a very low risk activity.

      I am mostly concerned about herpes and HPV. BJ without condoms are totally unsafe and it is impossible to judge a girl’s health accuratly without a blood test: even hygenic / rich looking girls can be infected. Yeah I know a lot of non-escort girls are carrier, but the percentages are much lower if you avoid the black and lower-class and slutty communities.

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      Most women (over 60%) nowadays are infected with HSV or HPV. Just because they never develop the disease does not imply that they are not carriers.

      I am meticulous and have a very low sex drive, so if the risk is high I will forgo escorts and prefer porn and waiting for an LTR.
      —-
      That is your choice.

      For this reason, I am considering buying “latex boxer shorts” to protect the skin regions, like one of the following:

      http://www.thelatexstore.com/proddetail.php?prod=MB611&cat=21&nav=

      http://latexboxers.com/product.html

      I just discovered these, and I have no experience with them, but it seems they might be a perfect (?) solution to herpes and HPV and am surprised that I have not heard more about latex shorts instead of condoms. (Additionaly shorts prevent the condom from sliding off.)
      ——
      Once again that is your choice.

      • Zaza
        June 5, 2010 at 7:45 am

        Thanks again for replying. Sorry to nitpick but it is important to me to get all the facts and think this over before I decide to go the escort route.

        “Most women (over 60%) nowadays are infected with HSV or HPV. Just because they never develop the disease does not imply that they are not carriers.”

        I do not know where you got your numbers. This article:

        http://www.reuters.com/article/idUSN0923528620100309

        states that “21 percent of women were infected with genital herpes, compared to only 11.5 percent of men, while 39 percent of blacks were infected compared to about 12 percent for whites, the CDC said.” (One can also find lower stats for HPV prevalence.)

        Avoiding certain subsegments of the population such as black women and poor women (and of course, prostitutes would almost certainly be infected!) reduces the risk to an almost negligable amount. I am not talking about the average sororitute: I tend to be attracted to high-class educated nerdy girls anyway, who I am sure have an even less rate of infection.

        As for unprotected oral sex, if the escort has a lesion or sore in her mouth it is well possible to get HIV among other things. Yes, the risk is very low, but with the 12 percent HIV prevalence amoung hookers is just Russian Roulette!

        My question is: have you ever had a blood test for any of these STDs?

  4. June 6, 2010 at 7:47 pm

    Zaza :
    Thanks again for replying. Sorry to nitpick but it is important to me to get all the facts and think this over before I decide to go the escort route.
    “Most women (over 60%) nowadays are infected with HSV or HPV. Just because they never develop the disease does not imply that they are not carriers.”
    I do not know where you got your numbers. This article:
    http://www.reuters.com/article/idUSN0923528620100309
    states that “21 percent of women were infected with genital herpes, compared to only 11.5 percent of men, while 39 percent of blacks were infected compared to about 12 percent for whites, the CDC said.” (One can also find lower stats for HPV prevalence.)
    Avoiding certain subsegments of the population such as black women and poor women (and of course, prostitutes would almost certainly be infected!) reduces the risk to an almost negligable amount. I am not talking about the average sororitute: I tend to be attracted to high-class educated nerdy girls anyway, who I am sure have an even less rate of infection.
    As for unprotected oral sex, if the escort has a lesion or sore in her mouth it is well possible to get HIV among other things. Yes, the risk is very low, but with the 12 percent HIV prevalence amoung hookers is just Russian Roulette!
    My question is: have you ever had a blood test for any of these STDs?

    I’ve done several blood test targetted for STDs for the past 7 years (once a year at the beginnning) I’ve made use of escorts. I’ve received in a lot of BBBJs (no condom blowjobs) and have cum inside women’s mouths and have even had them swallow it. Not once was I ever infected with STDs because of that. The only time I had an infection was possibly due to unprotected sex at the end of 2007, although it could have been anything, even the escort being sick. I also had pink-eye at exactly the same time, and I suspect me touching my eyes to my dick (and having the girl also have pink eye) may have been the real culprit. Even so, that was highly curable (discomfort for about a week). I’ve tested myself even after that incident – no incurable, intractable diseases.

    The only way to not get STDs is to not get sex or not get kissed.

    • February 1, 2013 at 6:19 pm

      “The only way to not get STDs is to not get sex or not get kissed.”

      There is another way. Never sleep with a woman who has slept with other men.

      • February 2, 2013 at 6:45 am

        Such a woman could have got an STD from their mother (at birth). Ha!

  5. Ric O Shea
    September 5, 2010 at 3:40 am

    I think escorts are a better alternative to a one night stand, but they don’t compare to been in a relationship with somebody. If all you want is no strings attached sex, escorts are a better because there is no emotional baggage or courtship involved.

    It’s hypocritical of women who say its immoral to pay for sex, yet its ok to buy them drinks, meals, gifts etc, to get them into bed. There is such a stigma attached to paying for sex with cash, yet it’s perfectly acceptable for women to use sex as a batering tool. Now im not saying all women do this, and sex is not always transactional but when it is it’s usually the man that ends up paying for it.

    As long as prostitution is done in a legal and consensual way, there is almost more honesty in it than in picking up a girl in a club, where you are just buying her drinks and giving false impressions in order to get something physical.

    Some would say you’d have to be desperate to pay for sex, but men will sometimes do desperate things to have sex anyway – like boink a fat girl just for the sake of getting his hole.

  6. russell
    December 10, 2011 at 10:45 am

    Don’t listen to these idiots saying “oh I think its better than a gf or one nightstand”. Hell no its not because these bitches not saying all, but the majority are very uneducated about health. They do not care about you all they care is about $. If she did have herpes or HIV, do you really think shes going to tell you or stop what she is doing? The answer is NO, its just bad business. I may not know much, but I do know that there are some fucked up people out there and going to random girls to fuck is just putting your self at high risk. But what do I know. Don’t listen to me. I was too like you people here trying to justify being with a escort and I did indeed have caught herpes. Just make sure you are in your right mind and really think about it. IF you already have it then hell just fuck them with out protection, feels better anyway right?

    • Th
      July 26, 2012 at 2:31 pm

      Let’s set the story straight…. High end escorts keep a very limited client base. Do they care about their clients ? Yes! Repeat clientele and referrals are the best way to get business. Most get tested every 6 months and keep an email list just in case something were to come back positive. Also, most of a high end’s escort base are MDs. Yes, gentlemen, MDs! If an escort passes something on to a client, it could mean death for the girl. Clients will come back with recourse… If she is smart, she will have her tests readily available ! Are escorts educated? Well again the ones I know have advanced degrees… it’s bad for business to not care about your client base!

  7. December 11, 2011 at 10:19 am

    hahahahahaha,

    it’s pretty cool that you managed to piss off the white knight/white power douchebags at inmalafide…

    for that, I give you credit diablo:

    Here is my writeup on you:

    time to psychoanalyze durty diablo—-

    hahahahahahahahahaha, this’ll be interesting…..

    why does he go to prostitutes? maybe cause he has mommy issues and nobody loves him. The simple answer would be to get a dog, but as I am not for animal abuse, I hope he doesn’t as he seems mean. He may be lonely, but he has all of us mocking him and responding to his posts to take care of that. He secretly craves attention. If it was only sex, he could probably find other ways or even if prostitutes was his only option, he wouldn’t have to brag about it. No, he brags for other reasons…

    One might think he is doing this for validation. He is hoping others will approve of his actions. This does not seem to be the case–see the derisive comments and how he always comes back for more. Perhaps he is doing this for empathy and he wants to give other men who face involuntary celibacy options on how to deal with their situation. I think not, see above why he shouldn’t have a dog–he seems mean. He would gleefully laugh at other males misfortune.

    Interestingly enough, Brett Stevens has an article discussing Feelings and saying they are unimportant. Well, feelings dominate the world of hideous Diablo. He often talks in what is in my estimation an covetous voice about sociopaths. He only wishes he could be calm, collected and heartless as they are. He is petty, envious and irascible-still this is not the core driving emotion. Our “beloved” blogger is driven by resentment.

    Yes, resentment. Money is of little consequence to vindictive Diablo, he has whatever overpaying techie type job smelly guys with poor social skills and overpriced degrees get these days. He gladly parts with his cash to gain access to vaginas and whatever other orifices he may partake in. Perhaps he found being rejected by girls a soul crushing experience. Perhaps it was a blow to his fragile ego and tattered self-esteem. Perhaps many of us could empathize, but he chooses to alienate potential allies. He parts with money to hook up with women to avoid being made fun of to his face. Even though they surely make fun of him after he pays, he cares little. But it is resentment that brings him back again and again. Since he is paying these women often large sums, he is actually on the losing side of this interaction. He is really quite powerless in many ways. Haha, impotent is a word that might come to mind but he buys pills to take care of that-yes I did read his posts about boner pills and how to get a prescription…

    Quoted from the Great Wiki:

    “Robert C. Solomon, a professor of continental philosophy at the University of Texas at Austin, places resentment on the same line-continuum with contempt and anger. According to him, the differences between the three emotions are as follows: resentment is directed towards higher-status individuals, anger is directed towards equal-status individuals and contempt is directed towards lower-status individuals.”

    Now, look at the responses to his posts. The word pathetic comes up allot. This would suggest his low status despite high education. He is worthy of contempt. Why is this so? He keeps on blabbering about the same slights weather real or imagined. He is such a hostile, despicable character as to prevent us from feeling sympathy for his misfortune and lousy lot in life. He reminds us of part of ourselves that isn’t so kind. It is the part that see’s a car wreck and instead of looking out and thinking “I hope he is alright”–it brings out something a little darker. It brings out that part of us that says, “Poor bastard, better him than me.”

    Now of the more perceptive among us, you may see the negative feedback loop we are in. Diablo craves our attention. We get to look upon his wretchedness and feel better about ourselves if even only fleetingly. Diablo feels worse, thus buying more sex in an attempt to feel better. Then he writes more and we respond more. The ethical thing to do would be to ignore his rantings and ravings. Surely we are not ethical folks in these parts-we enable Diablo in his downward spiral and damnit, it is fun!

    • ParappaTheRapper
      February 10, 2014 at 10:31 am

      Perhaps he just wants a hot girl to empty his plums without any of the hassle! No dates, no mind games, just sex, blowjobs or whatever HE is in the mood for! Nothing wrong with whores they have a place in life just like a girlfriend. Both parties know what they want and both people leave happy, sorry but its a winner!

      • February 10, 2014 at 12:00 pm

        A fabulous win/win scenario. Better than gaming women, turning them bitter and waiting for the leftovers!

    • December 11, 2011 at 9:41 pm

      your sister with one of the fat white power guys from inmalafide…

  8. Handlewithcare
    January 16, 2012 at 2:51 am

    Many guys who use Escorts are business men who have no time for girlfriends or wives or any of the BS that comes along with it.

    THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS FREE SEX. You’re always paying for it… If you’re married and get divorced (which you probably will) and she walks away with half your money… boy did you PAY FOR IT..

    On the other hand you could be RENTING girls that look like bikini models. Ya you’ll be paying at least $1,500 for a full night or a good $300 for an hour or two with the high end model escorts but you’ll be saving so much in the long run…

    Marriage is for straight up idiots.

    I could fly to Hungary where Escorting is 100% legal and stay for a few days in a 4-5 star Hotel suite with some of the hottest looking girls you’ve ever seen. A nice little vacation………….

  9. Julianna
    March 15, 2012 at 1:38 am

    Maybe all these guys wouldn’t see escorts so much if you stuck up wives at home gave it up once in a while, and actually got into it…instead of just laying there pretending its a chore. I am an upscale companion, but at the end of the day, yes I am an escort. I don’t see anything wrong with what I do. I help marriages stay together. Would you rather your husband fell in love with another woman he was having an affair with, or just paid me to satisfy his needs and come home happy to you?
    People wake up and smell the roses. If you think we are meant to be monogomous you’re llieing to yourself. Back in the day people had their “Queen” and their mistresses. It was totally normal. Speaking as someone who was married for a long time before entering the business…the sex just gets plain boring. Threesomes, role play and all kinds of other things help, but at the end of the day a well to do older gentleman would much rather just pay me and have the night of his life, then deal with the naggy wife. Wives open up…it’s just sex. Maybe you should go out and have your own fun and have a life…I did and my husband can’t get enough of me. Why should we live our lives with limitations and guilt…we only live once…live it to the fullest. Sex is a beautiful thing, and what better then get paid 500/hr to do it. All you hypocrits can knock down my comment, but I’ll be seeing your husbands later….PSYCHE

    • Kian
      August 17, 2014 at 12:21 am

      Your an amazing woman.

  10. JamesFun
    April 23, 2012 at 8:30 am

    Was wondering if anyone who does regularly get escorts recommends signing up for a site such as, Date-Check. Does becoming a member to a site like that help when getting high-end escorts in the United States or not? On some escort sites they mention they require Date-Check for verification and then on some other provider sites in the U.S. recently I haven’t been seeing middle-range escorts ask for it. My concern is that LE or employers could find out who is on those verification sites, although just because someone was on it wouldn’t legally prove anything. Do most escorts in the U.S. require customers to also be on a verification site or not? If most escorts do, then do you consider those sites to be legally safe and what are good legally safer ways to sign up for it? Or in the U.S. is it better for the escort and you to keep as much as possible under the radar? Also, does anyone have any suggestions as to what they say and don’t say to be legally safer when meeting with an escort? Such as, I know to never say the words involving “money/s*x” or “money for any s*xual act” at all. Has anyone ever had an escort take the “donation or gift” and just leave without providing any services? Should the man initiate getting intimately closer to show he’s not LE or should he wait for the escort to begin anything intimate? Is it good for legal protection from possible LE in the U.S. if the man says something to the female escort something such as, about “our relationship” or “her being a therapist or her giving a massage or counseling or for instruction or as a companion, etc” for being the “legal real reason that me as a man and her as a woman with our mutual free wills are now together in this private room” (because the man is not paying the escort “money for s*x” and these other statements prove that)? Or is it legally better to keep almost everything non-verbal and basically do not say much to the escort (until you both know each other much more as our private relationship grows over further meetings) to begin with on a first meet except for Hi, she finds a donation, see how close she wants to get, and thank her for her companionship? Anyone in the U.S. (non-LE, and pro-escorts) with experience with escorts have any constructive suggestions? Thanks.

  11. BrianBlack
    July 25, 2012 at 7:51 am

    Was reading today that the U.N. is saying to decriminalize prostitution/”consensual sex work” worldwide. The funny thing about this is how societies can just make-up laws and build a whole legal system around these made-up laws (to fine “criminals” fees and bail-money that then pays for their salaries, and to put men in jail for their ” sexual crimes”) and most of the people in those societies are brainwashed into believing those are the “laws of the land and the people who “break those laws can be locked up in jail.” Then, at the drop of a top-hat those “in charge of the laws/legal system” can change any made-up law into some other made-up law. When men are “busted for prostitution” maybe now they can take their “legal case” to the U.N..
    BTW, I would be in favor of “decriminalizing prostitution/consensual sexual interactions worldwide.”

  12. September 15, 2013 at 5:34 pm

    I’ve started in this lifestyle and not only must I say that this blog is so on point, but I also prefer escorts over women in the original dating scene. Too many damned hula-hoops to jump through, to say the very least!

  13. December 10, 2013 at 8:26 pm

    I like that they are skilled and professional. No Drama! Great time spent

  14. ClaudeCleburne
    March 7, 2014 at 3:06 am

    I’ll just say this:

    I’ve never, ever caught an std due to p4p.

    Young males: Recognize that you’ve brainwashed regarding stds. Yes they exist, but they not huge issue for truly, purely straight men.

    The reason you are self-conscious is due to a massive psychological cockblock.

    Leftist homosexuals want you to fear HIV so you’ll give a damn. After all, if you realize that straight male non- African HIV is a myth, you’ll be less inclined to support the HIV industry.

    Rightist religious psychos also want you scared to death of enjoying a pleasant we’d life. They align with the lefty with the left sex haters on that tip.

    Apologies to AD got hogging a lot of space: you guys just need to stop and think for a bit about the brainwashing. It is extremely unlikely for you to get an std from an escort in a western country. They are safer than your average bar skank.

  15. ClaudeCleburne
    March 7, 2014 at 3:07 am

    Sorry for the auto- correct induced typos in my above comment. “Sex life” not “We’d” life.

  16. eugene
    March 14, 2014 at 2:54 pm

    An escort once told me, “you don’t pay me to come to you, you pay me to leave”. Her point was that it’s not hard to get a ‘real’ woman to fuck. The hard part is getting them to leave you alone afterwards. So what you’re paying an escort to do is leave and be done with it after you fuck her.

  17. Dave
    April 10, 2014 at 8:00 am

    Happy endings at Asian massage spas are also a good alternative

    • June 18, 2014 at 7:12 am

      In America, Asian massage spas are heavily targeted and are almost as risky as streetwalkers. I choose to stay away from them, even though I love Asian chicks.

  18. Elena
    June 17, 2014 at 5:32 pm

    If you’re hideous of course you can’t have a good relationship. There’s a time in your life where you started hating(or disliking) women because you couldn’t get them obviously because of your looks &/or attitude. I, however am not saying that you are hideous but you may be often giving out a vibe that is undesirable.

    Why do you think that I would care about your opinion? or any other woman for that matter.

    Sex is not the only thing a man can get from a woman. My husband is an accountant (also my accountant) and I run a training Agency for inspiring models. We are two very successful individuals who’ve been married for 10 years and we are now both 27 years old with two kids and a 7 bedroom home … And believe me… We have sex every single day … Sometimes four times a day. We can never get enough of each other whether it is physical intimacy or normal “chilling out” together during the day & that my friend, is what you call love between two beautiful successful people.

    Not everybody can be so lucky so you shouldn’t blame one group for your misfortunes…

    As for the escorts topic “you gotta do what you gotta do” no matter what the gender. All individuals deserve respect and consideration should be taken for each individual and they should not be judged according to their lifestyle choices.

    • P Ray
      June 18, 2014 at 5:07 am

      If you’re hideous of course you can’t have a good relationship. There’s a time in your life where you started hating(or disliking) women because you couldn’t get them obviously because of your looks &/or attitude. I, however am not saying that you are hideous but you may be often giving out a vibe that is undesirable.
      If women’s intuition was so good, why are they getting raped all the time, so much so there is an international concern about it?
      Why are so many women getting married to men they will later divorce?
      How come they’re so strong and independent, but want government to pay for them, or a man to buy a house with?
      Plenty of men with unpleasant attitudes succeed with women, because they have what women want.
      Maybe, not interacting positively with those greedy and grasping women (whose circle of friends is usually no better) is the best way to keep what you have.

      • Elena
        June 19, 2014 at 10:35 am

        Actually sir,
        I work for what I achieve and will never take something ‘less i have earned it. I bought my home myself, the one which my husband, my children and I both live in. We do not believe in divorce. As a matter of fact I’m an Indian woman and my husband is québécois (a white man a.k.a) Something most people would frown upon.

        I was 18 when I started my business so I FUNDED my husband’s education and life. In other words I have nothing to take from him just to give and nothing do I want in return. I have no intention to bash anyone… My only point is every individual is different and true love is possible. Not every woman is out there to take advantage of men. I feel that both genders should be equal and share equal. Divorce is 50/100 but marriage and love is 100/100( id take that over anything any day)

        Sadly rape happens (mostly in third world countries where even the law is involved due to corruption) everyday everywhere. #1 reason: media! Sexualization of everything! Young girls wearing inappropriate cloths! No modesty! Parents that do not teach respect to their daughters! Bad values! Parents that teach their sons patriarchal values so they believe they own women! These are the reasons for rape.

        Maybe just maybe I was raised differently and I see things differently. But ones success really depends on ones efforts fails and trials and in marriage, you don’t give up…. You fix and fix until you’ve got it right. You don’t marry to compromise! You marry because you 100% know you will get through EVERYTHING with the person you’ve wedded!

      • P Ray
        June 19, 2014 at 11:41 am

        Maybe just maybe I was raised differently and I see things differently. But ones success really depends on ones efforts fails and trials and in marriage, you don’t give up…. You fix and fix until you’ve got it right. You don’t marry to compromise! You marry because you 100% know you will get through EVERYTHING with the person you’ve wedded!
        Admirable. The problem with that thinking though,
        is that fewer and fewer people are getting married.
        I suspect women having more sex partners than most men (it is eminently provable that women can solicit sex far easier than men IF they want to do that),
        means that they are not likely to stick through the difficult times of a (married) relationship,
        since they have had plenty of experience with moving on and heartbreak.
        heritage.org/home/research/reports/2003/06/harmful-effects-of-early-sexual-activity-and-multiple-sexual-partners-among-women-a-book-of-charts
        Early initiation of sexual activity and higher numbers of non-marital sex partners are linked in turn to a wide variety of negative life outcomes, including increased rates of infection with sexually transmitted diseases, increased rates of out-of-wedlock pregnancy and birth, increased single parenthood, decreased marital stability, increased maternal and child poverty, increased abortion, increased depression, and decreased happiness.

        This report examines the linkages between early initiation of sexual activity, number of nonmarital sex partners, and human well-being. In general, the earlier a woman begins sexual activity, the greater the number of non-marital sex partners she is likely to have over the course of her life.
        TL, DR: hoes gonna hoe, regular men can’t long stay involved with a hoe.

    • EvilOne
      June 19, 2014 at 9:56 am

      “is what you call love between two beautiful successful people”.

      I intend, very very deliberately – to hate you for this and ignore you for this, and make your life as difficult as possible. :)

      Thats just life toots.

  19. June 19, 2014 at 9:07 pm

    I feel that both genders should be equal and share equal. Divorce is 50/100 but marriage and love is 100/100( id take that over anything any day)

    I’m smart enough to not fall for those stupid fairy tales. As far as ‘equality’ goes, there’s no such thing when it comes to the sexes, because men and women are biologically wired differently. Love is a losing game, as Amy Winehouse said. There are lots of people who wasted their youth, lost their minds, their fortunes and even their lives on the count of love.

    Sadly rape happens (mostly in third world countries where even the law is involved due to corruption) everyday everywhere. #1 reason: media! Sexualization of everything! Young girls wearing inappropriate cloths! No modesty! Parents that do not teach respect to their daughters! Bad values! Parents that teach their sons patriarchal values so they believe they own women! These are the reasons for rape.

    I started not to comment on that blanket statement horseshit, but rape happens more in the U.S. (and possibly Africa) than any other country, including the U.K. where people are MORE open about sex than they are in the U.S. So, to blame media and women wearing sexually provocative clothing is ridiculous and it also gives rapists free passes to lack self-control (even though these are reasons why some men rape). There are various reasons why men rape and one is because a rapist has various issues and failures with women, which includes sexual frustration. Funny how the U.S. frowns upon prostitution and bachelorhood, but the U.S. has possibly the highest rates of rape and sexual abuse right next to Africa. I never condone rape and any man who rapes a woman should have his heart and nuts cut out of his body. But again, this is a blanket statement. And to blame patriarchy in general is also erratic. Rape occurs in matriarchal societies where fathers are not present and where women teach their daughters to disrespect boys and men as well.

    Maybe just maybe I was raised differently and I see things differently. But ones success really depends on ones efforts fails and trials and in marriage, you don’t give up…. You fix and fix until you’ve got it right. You don’t marry to compromise! You marry because you 100% know you will get through EVERYTHING with the person you’ve wedded!

    Again, I don’t fall for those Disney Myths. No thank you!

  1. February 1, 2013 at 6:34 pm

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