Things I Learned at Starbucks: 2
The second part of this series, continues from my first post in this seemingly popular series.
These are actual conversations I have overheard over the previous six months. No exaggeration, no confabulation-
Case I: A pair of friends- One girl is a thick brunette, the other is obese. Thick girl is always telling obese girl about the latest episode in her dramatic life. Girls love drama, don’t they? Anyway thick gal has cheated on a few of her boyfriends, but rationalizes it by telling obese girl that her other friends are worse, and I do not doubt that. I should add that thick gal cheated on more than one boyfriend with one guy. She seemed to return to him whenever she took a break from the steady guys. Even she has cheated on her boyfriends, because she was too drunk and could not resist that guy.
Case II: A pair of friends, one average built blonde with a 1 year old kid with super obese and ugly girlfriend. Super obese girl with acne pitted face tells blonde gal with kids about her cheating with other guys
She is currently seeing a guy, but does not want to move in with him because she is afraid of getting emotionally hurt. Does not trust men, and wants to be self sufficient. Has a schedule for getting things done. Obese gal is no slouch either, and she is OBSESE. Blond gal sympathizes by telling about how she cheated on guy who is supposedly rugrats father when they were having difficulties.
Case III: Boy and gal on coffee date. Guy is trying to impress gal? Tells her about how his brother who is newly married caught his wife cheating and is still trying to ‘work’ out things with her, and is ashamed toi tell that to his parents. Really liked the part about the guy (named peter) trying to run away from the scene. It seems he was a casual acquaintance of the wife, and she repeatedly professed that they were merely acquaintances.
Gal counters by saying that her dad probably cheated a lot but was discrete. Mentions her numerous overseas backpacking trips and fun times she had. Nothing explicit, but I can guess what happened after drunken concerts and games.
Note that Case I, II and III are from the last 3 weeks.
Case IV: More disturbing.. a group of three mothers with kids under 3 reminiscing about their single life, except that they were attached. this one started with gossip about the sexual adventures of their acquaintances and then veered into their sexual life , specifically how one kept on cheating throughout the early stages of her marriage (around the time elder rugrat girl was born), though she maintained that it was his kid. Note that like super obese girl in Case II, she maintained that hubby (long time boyfriend) was clueless.
Other women said that she did cheat, but stopped after marriage (as if she won’t start again, if she has really stopped). Third woman claimed faithfulness but said she understood why women cheated, and that often men were boring and that women required to follow their dreams and feel good about themselves.
Case V and VI: Woman on date telling guy how so many of her exes were useless drunks who did little. Claimed she had bad taste in men.. on a date.
The other gal was telling her date about her affair with a guy she met a year ago.. and how it is now over.
So this is what passes for normal nowadays..
More next time.
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it is common, but not normal.
by the way, enjoyed reading this write-up here:
http://www.singularity2050.com/2010/01/the-misandry-bubble.html
It would be interesting to hear the conversations that go on in foreign hangouts. Women in the Anglosphere are particularly bad. By nature, all women are garbage, but those raised in good environments give a much a different impression than American jizz buckets.
yes I can confirm this seems more an American thing. Over here, it is more discreet, however you might here those stories as well occasionally.
but — you seem to let them get away with it. not sure who’s fault it is.
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The anglosphere pedestals its women and therefore gets what it deserves.
what is the reason you think? Stronger Calvinism?
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Hard to say.. but why not. Calvinism is behind many other social ills in the anglosphere.
Hoes will be hoes.
Case closed!
Ok wow interesting blog, I never really thought about listening to others conversations then writting about them. Is it a hobby or a proffession?
As an aspie, I can’t help but notice how so much of the neurotypical (NT) world revolves around the deception of the self and of others.
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Same here..
Unsure if you’ve read my blog topics about what I’ve discovered on FaceBook, but I’ve discovered worse on Facebook (social media) and overhearing conversations among the black women in my family. I keep coming back to this one, like most of your other topics, though. Your words should be tattooed on men who love tattoos to be used as scripture.
http://homeiswherethehateis.wordpress.com/2013/11/15/what-ive-discovered-on-facebook-i/
http://homeiswherethehateis.wordpress.com/2013/11/18/what-ive-discovered-on-facebook-ii/
What this truly proves is that humans aren’t meant to be monogamous. It’s a useless and enslaving social conditioning that was meant to keep certain people subordinate and under control.
On another spectrum, even though matrimony was used to keep female sexuality in check, matrimony (i.e. slavery) has always benefited women and everyone else at the expense of men. Men and women marry for different reasons. For women, it’s about security, finances and running the show on someone else’s dime. Call it “Man Provides, Woman Rides”. Then, there’s the issue of matriarchal women encouraging it and even using children as bargaining chips.
Why would someone marry when they’re going to cheat their asses off? Because women want to have their cake and eat it too. Plus, they get thrills from being duplicitous and mercenary – running the show underhandedly. Same reasons why women fuck the bad ones and marry the good ones – the “good man” is a sucker waiting to happen, thanks to his income, intense gullibility, blandness and sexual vulnerability.
Man, I could go on. The things I’ve discovered on Facebook and social media are a lot worse, but even in sports bars and a Burger King 7 years ago, I’ve overheard some very disturbing shit. Including a grandmother telling her granddaughter to abort her great-grandchild, saying “You don’t wanna have a baby by a n”gga that black!”