Random Thoughts: 8

Of late I have started reading posts by some PUAs that game gives false hope to many men. Some ex-PUA posts go on to suggest that most “normal” women are not affected by game. Others imply that most men cannot really learn game, and being “alpha” is genetic etc.

I am fairly objective as far as game is concerned in that buying sex is my choice. I have no interest in impressing some stupid cunt in order to gave sex with her. Having said that, being an asshole is the easiest way to get laid, even if you are of the obnoxious type. Virtually any method beats the conventional socially approved way of dating women.

Pedestalling woman to get sex (or treating her nicely) is worser than any other way to get sex, because no woman will ever truly reciprocate your feelings. Even if she does not cheat on or divorce you, she still sees you as a tool that she can manipulate to get what she wants. Your wishes, safety, health or happiness are meaningless to her.

The reason why game works has little to do with routines, looks or body language. It works because it encourages men to hit on as many women as they can (numbers) and not suffer from “oneitis”. Even if every routine in game is worthless, increasing your approaches and treating women with a degree of contempt and disposability will guarantee you a higher probability of “free” sex than not doing so. It certainly helps if your actions fit a woman’s preconception of what is desirable.

The real impact of game, in my opinion, is removing any doubt from the mind of most men that women are made of sugar and spice. Destroying the favorable socially reinforced perception about women will be the biggest contribution of game, as they can get away with a lot of BS and abuse because many men believe that women are better human beings than them. In the past, most men realized that it was not true only after they had already been sucked into the whole legally enforced relationship scam. By spreading the word before most men make that mistake, game changes the probability of various outcomes.

I would distill game to a few concepts-

1. Approach a lot of women.
2. Approach with genuine confidence.
3. Never trust a woman.
4. Be amoral and opportunistic.
5. Never depend on one woman.


6. Treat women as they already treat men.
7. Do not apologize to a woman.

What do you think?

  1. Willy Wonka
    March 17, 2010 at 6:10 pm

    I agree for the most part.

  2. March 17, 2010 at 7:03 pm

    Game has the additional benefit of motivating some guys who would otherwise never hit on girls, game or not. Thus, the AD&D-like formulae of the Mystery Method can appeal to a guy like myself-four-years-ago who “speak that language”. Tell such a guy the truth– that he just needs to hit on a ton of girls and face rejection and harden up– and he’ll never leave the house. If nothing else, game is a useful placebo.

  3. March 17, 2010 at 10:23 pm

    read some tolle bro.

  4. March 18, 2010 at 1:44 am

    I think you undervalue how well good game models those traits which are attractive to women. The fact that most PUA materials are shit, and most aspiring PUAs haven’t mastered the arts in no way undermines the power of tight game. It’s more than just numbers and attitude.

    Game is really about attitude and presentation, not routines. I am not saying that routines are useless, indeed they are good for gaining self-confidence.

  5. Days of Broken Arrows
    March 18, 2010 at 3:23 am

    I agree with your general concept. But some of the techniques do work. I’ve been experimenting with this on a married woman I know who seems up for an affair. Since I don’t care, I can experiment.

    It is more about attitudes than techniques.

    Anyway, she bought me a chocolate easter bunny. When I was a smart ass about it, she was e-mailing back and being flirty. But the next week when I said “Really, thanks, etc.” she got cold. So then I started in with being a smart ass again, and she got hot again.

    It would makes no difference if you are in a relationship with her.

    My feeling is that as we get older, we lose the natural narcissism we had as teens and that’s what women like, their protests to the contrary. We learn to be fair nd respectful and listen to our heads, not our bser instincts. See you back on Facebook.

    Only women past 60 years old can be fair and respectful.

  6. SO many uncertainties
    March 18, 2010 at 7:45 pm

    After I read your essays, I start feeling like Anakin Skywalker turning to the dark side.

    you or me?

  7. SO many uncertainties
    March 19, 2010 at 8:02 am

    me. Your closer to emperor Palpetine.

    I am flattered.

  8. anon
    March 19, 2010 at 2:52 pm

    This is fitting to describe you 🙂

  9. virginat50
    March 20, 2010 at 3:36 pm

    Only women past 60 years old can be fair and respectful.

    I know many women over the age of 65, and I am surprised at what decent people they are, especially compared to their younger counterparts. I don’t know if it’s because they belong to the pre-feminist generation or if it’s because they must be decent to get any attention.

    Both! They grew up in a generation where they could not be total cunts.

  10. Tom
    July 30, 2010 at 5:01 am

    I concur with you.

  11. August 27, 2010 at 12:35 pm

    “The reason why game works has little to do with routines, looks or body language. It works because it encourages men to hit on as many women as they can (numbers) and not suffer from “oneitis”.”

    Hogwash! Balderdash! Poppycock!
    If all I did was approach with what I used to know, I’d start every convo with, “So, what’s your name? Where are you from? Come here often?” And be rejected so much that I’d lose all self-esteem and retreat to a WOW lifestyle.

    It’s about knowing what to say and what to do. EVERYTHING to do with body language. Meek bodylanguage gets the bitch shield. Alpha doesn’t. (more or less)

    Do you realize in the comments you actually contradicted yourself?
    “Game is really about attitude and presentation, not routines. I am not saying that routines are useless, indeed they are good for gaining self-confidence.”

    The “Come here often?” line is a routine. Game is about EFFECTIVE routines.

    • The Plague Doctor
      August 27, 2010 at 1:54 pm

  12. September 21, 2014 at 4:46 pm

    8. Send Mixed Messages

    -I’ll explain how: Guys on FaceBook run asshole game all the time. They also send mixed messages. I know guys who post “beautiful” and “meaningful” status updates on their FB pages because that’s what chicks want to hear. Those status updates will get 20-50 likes all from women. But when these same guys deal with a chick on a personal level or even in an inbox conversation, he will show his true colors and be an asshole to her at times. It’s like leading a double life and I’ve seen it work too many times. As long as the asshole part is not being overdone, it can work.

    I do agree that the upside/essentials of game is playing a numbers game, letting her know you can do better and not overvaluing her. The body language and wardrobe type should be done for the sake of yourself anyway, like staying in shape and having a disposable income.

    But wholeheartedly, I agree. This is great material!

  13. Chrysalis
    September 4, 2015 at 1:30 am

    No. 6 “treat women like they treat men” is the big one, other ones are selfexplanatory once you set down that road. Women do all of it covertly, so men arent even aware of it, they get away with it all the time and they get to play poor me Card, all of which men cannot do. To play that game we need to get really inventive, and that is what Game is.

  14. P Ray
    September 4, 2015 at 6:39 am

    8. Never give the complete favour over to a woman, always leave some bits undone, so she can “pay you to complete the job”.

    Women will act as if they don’t know you (if she is using you or thinks you are a chump) after you have fully delivered on a favour.

    PROTIP: Most women think 80% of men are disposable/unattractive, AND most women only ask men they don’t think highly of, for help. For the guy she’s attracted to, women will pretend to be completely independent – only the chumps get asked to do favours for her.

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