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Female Reaction to Confessions of Escort Use: 1

Many men believe that women will react adversely if they confess to escort use or buying sex. That is not true.. with one exception.

Women who are madly in love will react badly to such confessions. But most women will never really love you, so it doesn’t matter.

The real obstacle with acknowledging escort use is your own belief that buying sex is for ‘losers’. Most women seem to have a rather different view, as long as you hold your ground.

Paradoxically it is possible to use an acknowledgement of escort use to convert a hesitant girl into a naked gal. I have remarked on this phenomenon before, but I think it is easier to explain it with real examples.

So here is one..

One gal I met during the beginning of my hardcore escort use is a memorable example, and probably my first exposure to this phenomena. She was a cook in a restaurant near my apartment. In her early 30s, brunette, about 5′ 5″, nice tits/ass, not slim but very fuckable and with a good attitude.

First talked to her when she was on a smoke break. I had walked by that restaurant before and she recognized me. We started talking about the quality of restaurants in that area, night life and moved on to films. Exchanged phone numbers and decided to go for a drink later that week.

On that day, I asked her to come over and watch a movie with me instead. Curiously, she complied.. and arrived in a nice casual dress. We started watching the movie on my couch and within a short time the touching and kissing began. I started to undress her, and she resisted. Told me that she had a boyfriend.

I fired back with “If you really had a BF, whom you loved, why hang out with a guy you barely know on a Thursday night”. She protested and told me that she indeed had a BF.. My reply was something along the lines of “but you are here with me, aren’t you?” She then told me that she was not really into me and played along so as to not hurt my feelings. I then turned on my laptop and showed her the websites/ pictures of a few escorts I had fucked in the last 2 months. My next words were something along the lines of “I can get that type of girl to please me as I want, when I want” and told her to leave my apartment.

She hesitated and kept talking to me.. asking me about whether the sex with escorts was good etc.. I just told her the truth. Her body language changed and became flirty once again. I walked to the main door of my apartment, unlocked the bolt and told her that she was free to leave if and when she wanted. However staying in that apartment with me would be interpreted as willingness to have sex. I gave about half a minute for that to sink in, and resumed undressing her. She protested but this time her tone was very different. It was a token protest.. and she was almost smiling at the end. I stripped after undressing her completely. Took her hand and led her into the shower. Her facade cracked and I received an unprompted and very passionate make out in the shower. She then blew me in the bath for a few minutes, but I stopped her from finishing me there and took her to the bedroom. Got her on all fours and started fucking her to completion. After the first fuck, her attitude changed even further and she became an antithesis of the cold, manipulative tease from just half an hour ago.

Since she had a nice solid butt, thought a good spanking would not hurt her. Despite her protests about the pain and stinging, she never told me to stop. When I told her that the spanking was for being a pricktease in the beginning, she smiled and almost giggled. I fucked her a couple more times that night.. her butt, legs and torso were made for doggystyle. It helped that she a good BJ technique (something I see in older gals more often than younger ones).

As it turned out, she had a long-term BF.

But the curvy cook managed to find time for my cock at least twice a week for almost a year and even went on a few day trips with me. She was fully aware of my escort use and my activities with other ‘unpaid’ younger gals.

As you will read about in later parts of this series, such behavior is not unique. While this particular example is a bit extreme.. many gals seem to have no qualms about sex with men even if they know about their escort use and other girls.

Women interpret men fucking escorts and other women as a desirable sign of virility. As long as you are not defensive about it or repeatedly rub it in their faces, they don’t care. If anything, they tend to find it attractive and put out more easily. But you must back it with the right behavior and attitude.

Any questions?

  1. Joe
    June 3, 2010 at 5:46 pm

    I imagine it’s easy to get addicted to using escorts for the variety and instant gratification, so why even bother with normal girls if you’re not looking for an LTR?

    Yes, it is and I have gone for months at a time without ‘unpaid’ sex.. using only escorts and semi-pros. However I do not mind fucking a willing gal, especially if she is cute and flirty.

  2. kevin
    June 3, 2010 at 9:40 pm

    what movie where u watching that evening?

    Jeepers Creepers- the first one.

  3. June 4, 2010 at 5:10 am

    WOW. that is some ill change of scene. godfuckin’damn.

    only one girl i’ve dated, has known that i banged a hooker in mexico. she actually took it in stride. in retrospect, it kinds weirds me out she was so cool with it. like, what had she been told before that made that acceptable?

    escort vs whore in mexico are different shades of gray in my mind

  4. Y
    June 4, 2010 at 8:44 pm

    I believe women such as the one you wrote about get an ego trip will having sex with you. Its like this. They know you can have HB 8-10 girls “to please you as you want, and when you want” but the fact that you would still make time to have sex with them says something about their desirability. In reality its doesnt say anything about their desirability, only their willingness to have sex.

    Telling a woman she is too plain for paid sex is an unconventional way of insulting her.

    • Y
      June 6, 2010 at 10:14 am

      well, looking at the circumstantial evidence, chicks dig assholes

  5. Redpill
    June 6, 2010 at 12:56 pm

    Mongering is funny like that. Every girl you see on the street, you gauge her by how fun she would be to rent for the evening.

    A lot of times by looking at them you can easily tell if their performance would suck or if they are even cut out for the work. Some gals are just not cut out for escort work since it lays bare a lot of very stark truths that some people cannot fathom.

    On an aspie forum I frequent, there is no shortage of men who are not willing to do why they need to do to set themselves free. There are plenty of non-AS people who can’t set themselves free either.

    They watch the matrix, but do not understand it’s central message.

  6. Lily
    June 12, 2010 at 3:12 pm

    It’s partly an age thing, you mentioned she was in her early thirties.

    I remember a few years back a male friend told me (it just came up in conversation with other people over dinner) he had sex with escorts and I was so shocked by it and I did think less of him. Now I know that many men have had or do still have sex with escorts and the ones who do say are just being honest about it and I’m just generally more openminded now anyway.

    Y has a point too.

    Personally, I would be very careful of sleeping with someone I knew had sex with a lot of escorts (or had a lot of casual sex with lots of partners), particularly because of greater risk of STDs.

    It is easier to get a STD from a relationship than an escort.

  7. Lily
    June 12, 2010 at 4:47 pm

    “It is easier to get a STD from a relationship than an escort”
    I’d say most likely to get casual sex with lots of partners, then one of the other two (relationships or escorts). I don’t know which, I’ve never read any stats but no doubts escorts on the whole probably get tested more frequently.

    Nevertheless the more sexual partners someone is exposed to whether directly or indirectly the more likely they are to get an STD and some are not preventable by condoms such as herpes or some strains of HPV.

  8. Tom
    July 28, 2010 at 1:00 pm

    Interesting article. Have you done this more than once (shown a girl that you have used escorts)

    I do it all the time, and sadly- it works if there is pre-existing mutual attraction.

  9. Tom
    July 31, 2010 at 3:25 am

    Has a girl ever reacted adversely when you brought it up?

    Not really, as long as you say it casually, rationally AND stand your ground. Plus their reaction is inconsequential.

    • Knee
      August 6, 2012 at 11:22 pm

      So what then. Do you just say “hey I’m showing you something” whip out your laptop at the first sign of her rejecting your sex advances? When do you stop trying to convince her verbally/physically and just pull this out?

      • P Ray
        August 7, 2012 at 12:07 am

        Just say that you can buy better than her for less … and that you pity any man who has to pay for the privilege of being around her aged ass for life.
        P.S. Why do you care about satisfying the desires of a woman who wants you to compensate her for being around you … who does not meet your looks standards?

      • Knee
        August 7, 2012 at 4:08 pm

        You can expect some natural resistance from plenty of women. At what point of her resistance do you stop traditionally gaming her and just pull out the laptop w/ the escorts you’ve fucked like the blogwriter?

      • P Ray
        August 7, 2012 at 6:58 pm

        I would tell you not to bother: she is not worth counting the hairs on your head. Learning not to dance for stupid people is something that grows with time

  10. KNee How
    June 12, 2012 at 11:15 pm

    On STD’s, I’m wondering. How much do you decrase your risk by keeping your underpants on and sticking your condom’d dick out of your boxers? Seems like a better idea than that 200 dollar latex underwear that guy was mentioning earlier.

  11. punterthoughts
    June 29, 2014 at 11:37 pm

    An interesting post. I have never told any of my unpaid female partners about my escort use.

  12. LR
    July 1, 2014 at 5:14 pm

    My first reaction, I want to hate you for fucking over some guy you never met who was, in all probability, an alright dude. LOW. But honestly, you didn’t fuck anyone over besides this cheating ho, who in fact fucked over her BF by default. These stories and the women in them are fucking evil. Too bad they’re pretty common. This chick put up no resistance until right at the end. Hopefully the dude wasn’t too far into things w her.

    But you got through the resistance. If this teaches me anything it’s that you did it because 1. You were a man, 2. You drew the line and kept it, 3. You made her feel insufficient compared to what you COULD get, and 4. You weren’t ashamed of who you truly are.

  13. Nikki
    December 15, 2016 at 1:29 am

    You are sickening dude. And I’m betting a complete and total fucking liar. 100%. You write like you author soft porn novels for a living. Oh Fabio or some shit. Plleeeaseee.

    • P Ray
      December 17, 2016 at 12:00 am

      When women hit their 30s with no long-term relationship to show for their time on the cock carousel, they start to look for a man with money because they cannot afford a house and kids on a single salary.

      The only women who are “proud” to be single mothers, are those that got knocked up by Chad Thundercock. As regular guys become more aware, both sets of women (30s cock carousel rider, and single mom) …
      will not get commitment even from regular guys.

      Of course, by that time, women will try to make “men interacting with women younger than them”, a criminal offence. Good luck with your “White Civilization”, it’s not very effective against biological truths.

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