The Problem with PUA Advice: 5

One of the unspoken fundamental assumptions of PUA advice is that a mans life is “meaningless” or “unsuccessful” if women don’t want to have ‘unpaid’ sex with him.

So here is a question:

What aspect of a womans willingness to have ‘unpaid’ sex makes it so meaningful?

It is the “having sex” part that makes everything else attached to it meaningful. So why keep on trying for ‘unpaid’ sex while denying yourself good sex.

Let me put it in another way.

How many of you will have sex with over 1,000 different women, all of whom are above average in looks?

Unless you are a famous guy or a very lucky PUA, it is unlikely you will ever reach 4 digits.

But if you are willing to buy sex… almost any guy with a decent job can suddenly bang over 1,000 different women in his life.

Think about it..

50 * 20 = 1,000

There are 52 weeks in a year..

Let’s say each woman costs you about 200$/hr.. Heck make that 300$/hr.. who cares?

Note- It is cheaper outside anglo-saxon countries.

Now even at 300$/hr, 1,000 women = 300 k, the price of a decent house in the suburbs in many parts of north america (principal + interest)

300k/ 20 = 15k/yr. So you could bang a different woman every week for the next 20 years with the same amount that will buy you a decent house. Think about it.. a different, and better than average, woman to suck your dick properly + ride you like a crazed cowgirl + taking a nice pounding for every week of your life.. for the next 20 years. The median income of a guy with a useful undergrad degree from a state university (or better) is around 50k, if you have a job.

Or you could buy a nice house to keep your ‘new’ wife happy.. the same one who banged tons of bad boys and would not give you the time of day in her 20s. Maybe you will get a year or two of decent sex till she pops out some kids (hopefully yours).. and then you will be lucky to get it once a week, if she does not divorce and make you pay for the kids (hopefully yours) while she is getting hammered by a parade of bad boy. But who knows.. she might even stay around and nag you to death..

You want to slave for an ungrateful and rapidly aging woman? want to slave for social approval? want to slave for ungrateful kids? want to slave for an ungrateful employer?

For what?

You cannot take anything with you after you die. In the end, the only thing that matters is whether you enjoyed your existence, the way you saw fit.

Your choice.. I made my years ago, and still have ‘unpaid’ pussy on the side.

  1. July 3, 2010 at 9:42 am

    An older friend told me that women are always rented. After his divorce last year, it seems more true than ever. Vasectomy and refusing to marry are two strategies men should consider to prevent divorce theft and monopolistic behavior. You are a truly wise man.

  2. Mike
    July 3, 2010 at 2:19 pm

    I love a thick steak that someone else butchered.

    I also enjoy the thrill of the hunt.

    Same thing with pussy. I use massage parlors/escorts and bar whores. Sometimes I want a waiter bringing me my stuff. Sometimes I need to hunt it.

    Precisely.. but there is no point in going hungry if the hunt is not successful, if you can buy the dish you want.

  3. Redpill
    July 4, 2010 at 12:01 pm

    PUA trainers also have an incentive to use shaming language to put down men who either cannot get “unpaid” sex or men who buy it.


    • Redpill
      July 5, 2010 at 1:07 pm

      I remember the Mystery method sales guy tried to use the same language on me once. I threw him off his script a bit though. He just resorted to his sales pitch and had nothing to fit my situation. Kinda funny your earlier matrix analogy about pua stuff. Their abilities are based on a world of rules.

      • Redpill
        July 7, 2010 at 1:07 pm

        Once you start mongering, it is really hard to ever want to go back…

        Why would you go back to an inferior deal?

    • Redpill
      December 6, 2010 at 9:49 pm

      I really hope that pulsotic’s new “friend” isn’t reading this. THat’s the problem with pussy-scrounging PUAs, they turn against each other in a zero-sum game.

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