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Why I Don’t Date Women of My Race

One of the most frequent rhetorical questions I get in real life, and online, is:

Why don’t you stick to dating women of your race?

My answer always is:

Why should I? Do you restrict yourself to fucking women of your own race?

PS- Dating is for suckers, I prefer to fuck and chuck.

The implication that a non-white guy should not fuck “our” precious white princesses, exposes an interesting double standard. Why is the white boyfriend of almost every asian girl- obese, nerdy or old?

Having said that, I do actively avoid women of my race- whatever that is.

The reasons are listed below. Note that these reasons are far less of an issue in that country. Indeed, many girls I grew up with had much nicer attitudes than the crap I see here.

Parental Interference

This is an interesting one. In the country I grew up in, parental interference in the urban upper middle-class was not a biggie. Sure there were anal-retentive and traditional parents, but lots of shit happened behind their backs and many just looked the other way. As long as your kid did not knock up a girl, or did not get knocked up- nobody talked a lot about it. Furthermore, the ready availability, acceptability and access to abortion made that eventuality a minor issue. Plus the ease of getting condoms and birth-control pills without prescription allowed parents to pretend their kids were innocent.

It allowed them to ignore the possibility that their precious princess was riding a guy at his home when she was supposed to be meeting her GFs for shopping. Or that their shy daughter was gobbling her BFs cock and playing with his balls when they were supposed to be working on a school project. 🙂

However once they are in western countries, people from certain countries develop a fondness for their mythical culture and make up crap to justify their fucked up behavior. These delusions often pass on to their kids, who start believing that people in that culture are asexual. They mistake a lack of public display of affection for lack of action in private. It certainly does not help that they end up meeting a lot of shy nerds from that country who come to study in the west- and based their opinions about the rest on them.

Parental attitudes, pressures, previous psychological damage and other assorted BS is the single biggest reason I avoid them. I prefer to fuck and sleep with women- not their parents, relatives and family friends.

White Woman Attitudes

Many girls who grow up in the west imitate the attitudes of white women towards guys. Even those who come here will often become like them after a few years.

This factor creates two subtypes of problems:

1] They start disliking who they are as human beings. They become so hung up on being seen as white, that they forget that men want a nice looking and pleasant girl, not a bitch spouting the latest feminist crap. Their ratings for men are also colored by that attitude and while they do not reach the pathetic depths of east-asian women, they want a guy who looks like them to have much more stuff before putting out than an equivalent white guy.

The worse part is even if they end up with you, they never fail to remind you that you are either “trying to be white” or “being too traditional”. So why should a guy take that shit? What has he done to deserve such miserable cunts?

2] They also imitate the bitchiness and attitudes that come with western white women, so far as to exceed them. In addition they nag about money to an extent only east-asian women are supposedly capable of. And all this BS for a piece of ass that will age and fall apart just like any other?

Poor Value for Money

All of these ‘well-educated’ cunts want guys with lots of money, but if you are not white- they suddenly act conservative. They try to ration crappy, unenthusiastic sex and try to shame/guilt-trip you into accepting it.

Paradoxically, girls who live in that country are grateful for attention from any non-dorky guy. While they may pretend to be naive and circumspect, once the action starts they are as perverted as any other. While the older generation of carbohydrate addicted, fat and surly women often just lay there.. many of the newer generation are very active participants- I know that for a fact.

For all their purported shyness, women in that country are quite aggressive once you have slept with them. I will write about that in a future post 😉 Of course, once they are married.. it is downhill from there. Having said that, I am personally aware of couples married for a long time, where the wife took an active part in initiating things (won’t say who for obvious reasons.. LOL).

Why go for such a bad deal? Would you?

Comments?

  1. d
    July 24, 2010 at 6:28 pm

    Hmm, so when some women avoid you/refuse to date you because of your race, they are vile racist scum who deserve to be punished. When you avoid some women because of their race, it is because…?
    —-

    I reached my conclusions after considerable experience.

    It seems to me that you spend a lot of time going after white women, and then complaining about white women who reject you. Why bother? I think a part of you has internalized the myth that white women are better. Why such bitternes towards them otherwise?
    —-

    I find latinas to be hottest.

    Why not get a nice girl from the old country, for whom the shame of divorce would be too great to be even contemplated, have all the free sex you want with her, and when you get bored, go out with your escorts from time to time? You should probably save some money with that method, and you get a cook/housekeeper in the bargain, while allowing your money that would otherwise be taken up with escorts to gain some equity.
    —-

    Keep your ‘wise’ advice to yourself, cunt.

    • Black Rebel
      July 24, 2010 at 8:57 pm

      Black chicks; fun to fuck but otherwise entitled, spoiled, egotistical and combative, and moreso than their white sisters…I mean sistas.
      —-

      Ahem, I am not black.

      • Y
        July 24, 2010 at 9:53 pm

        mmm I don’t think you should date with in your race if you don’t want to. You say you find Latinas the hottest and you should date…er fuck them exclusively if you like. The white men(its usually white men in the PUA/Mansphere that ask people to ‘stick with their own’) that keep chatting this shit are the same ones that fetishize Asian women for being to feminine and will date them if given the chance.

        However I do see hypocrisy in ACTIVELY avoid women of your race but getting annoyed when women of different races(mainly white) actively avoid men of your race.
        —-

        If the women of my race who live in western countries want to be treated as princesses, they should find SUCKERS who will do so for them.

        Whats good for the goose is good for the gander I suppose. The same way you reached the conclusion that Americanized women of your ethnicity are not worth your efforts many white women(justified or not) can make the same claim about men that look like you.
        —-

        They can make any claims and behave as they chose to, as long as they understand the consequences. You see.. even 30 years ago there were no real consequences on the horizon. But demography and technology diffusion have changed the landscape to the point where there will be consequences.

  2. Nestorius
    July 25, 2010 at 7:56 am

    Concerning dating, I always considered it pointless. When I was a child, I could never conceive the idea of dating. The natural thing for me was to find an occasion to get together with the chick, then seduce her. That’s why I was never able to digest it later in life and still even now. I always wonder about guys who go on dates with girls, but obviously they do it because they have no previous experiences of seduction or attempts of seduction.

    If you look further, you will find that dating is the product of the same chivalrous culture. It didn’t originally exist where I live and where you were born. However, where I live now dating has become the norm with the obligation of spending lots of money on an undeserving bitch which will cheat on the provider with me at any time.

  3. Mr.M
    July 26, 2010 at 6:16 pm

    I avoid the women of your country too. Not sure why, the accent, the smell, the look, I don’t know. I have noticed that the ones I do find hot look Latina… In which case I should just go for Latinas… Duh.

  4. Ethnic Purist
    July 29, 2010 at 8:17 pm

    Y: . The same way you reached the conclusion that Americanized women of your ethnicity are not worth your efforts many white women(justified or not) can make the same claim about men that look like you.
    —-

    YOU: They can make any claims and behave as they chose to, as long as they understand the consequences.

    >>>>>>

    What exactly are the “consequences” that White women will face by not dating non-White men, or not dating you?
    —-

    Maybe you should have read some of my older posts.

  5. Ethnic Purist
    July 29, 2010 at 8:57 pm

    Care to link me up?

  6. Ethnic Purist
    July 29, 2010 at 8:59 pm

    Why not just share with us in a nut shell here what consequences White women are going to face by not dating Indian guys?
    —-

    https://dissention.wordpress.com/2010/06/07/on-bad-faith-5/

  7. Ethnic Purist
    July 30, 2010 at 6:39 pm

    Thanks for the link. I read it. There are a growing number of White women dating and marrying Indian men. But many of those relationships don’t last due to cultural differences as well as the same reason why you don’t like to date Indian women – family interference.

    You are one of those aging delusional white cunts, aren’t you?

  8. Ethnic Purist
    July 30, 2010 at 9:19 pm

    Yes. Because I want to fuck a MAN, not a boy and his entire family.

    I’m totally delusional.

    Lungi ke peeche kya hai? Ma hai! LOL!

  9. Ethnic Purist
    July 30, 2010 at 9:21 pm

    “I prefer to fuck and sleep with women- not their parents, relatives and family friends.”

    DITTO.

    Desi families are whack, yo.

  10. Wha Gwan?
    July 30, 2010 at 9:24 pm

    ”I prefer to fuck and sleep with women- not their parents, relatives and family friends.”

    Ditto.

    Desi families are whack, yo.

  11. P Ray
    February 6, 2015 at 7:14 am

    However once they are in western countries, people from certain countries develop a fondness for their mythical culture and make up crap to justify their fucked up behavior. These delusions often pass on to their kids, who start believing that people in that culture are asexual. They mistake a lack of public display of affection for lack of action in private. It certainly does not help that they end up meeting a lot of shy nerds from that country who come to study in the west- and based their opinions about the rest on them.

    Immigration policies of the west plus the (white) bureaucrats in charge means they very rarely allow in a confident guy from another ethnicity.
    They want whipped slaves — those guys are easier to steal from, and “me love you long time” girls.
    Asian girls are in demand in western countries, as long as they are young — and those females KNOW it.

    Many girls who grow up in the west imitate the attitudes of white women towards guys. Even those who come here will often become like them after a few years.

    This factor creates two subtypes of problems:

    1] They start disliking who they are as human beings. They become so hung up on being seen as white, that they forget that men want a nice looking and pleasant girl, not a bitch spouting the latest feminist crap. Their ratings for men are also colored by that attitude and while they do not reach the pathetic depths of east-asian women, they want a guy who looks like them to have much more stuff before putting out than an equivalent white guy.

    The worse part is even if they end up with you, they never fail to remind you that you are either “trying to be white” or “being too traditional”. So why should a guy take that shit? What has he done to deserve such miserable cunts?

    2] They also imitate the bitchiness and attitudes that come with western white women, so far as to exceed them. In addition they nag about money to an extent only east-asian women are supposedly capable of. And all this BS for a piece of ass that will age and fall apart just like any other?

    The so-called MILFs looking for Asian guys to date, want them to be some kind of cultural lexicon for their ethnicity BUT still clued-in enough to be “close to white”, but spineless and gentlemanly to the max.
    Asian girls keep Asian guys unbalanced by alternately wanting them to be just like that too.

    Women only respect (fear?) the guy who wisely understands that in the modern milieu of dating and relationships only a fool trusts them completely.

  12. P Ray
    September 16, 2018 at 1:10 am

    Somewhat related recent discussion on reddit:
    [–]vvvnew 1 point 56 minutes ago
    Ok let me break it down for you why some Indian men dont want indian women


    1.Too hairy : Indian women are pretty hairy. Some of them have more facial hair than me; big turnoff
    2.Most Indian women are unfit or blow up post wall. This is not me nitpicking, this is the general trend. Very few are able to keep their weights under control
    3.Most Indian women (even the ugly ones) are entitled and act like princesses.
    4.Indian women look horrible without makeup. This is generally true for asian women.
    5.They are gold diggers.
    6.As far as currywhores who grew up in the west, they are the most self-hating racist cunts on the planet. They will do anything to appeal to white men.

    • P Ray
      September 25, 2020 at 10:32 am

      Somewhat related, this hot take dropped today:

      Have seen it with mine own eyes, these Asian women are absolute horrors, I can understand why there are video clips of a guy just taking out a rifle/handgun and unloading just to end a histrionic tirade.

    • Jack Donovan
      September 25, 2020 at 7:53 pm

      We was doing “research” as only us white men can…

      http://www.vintage-nude.com/first-indian-pinup-model-ann-stephens/

      turns out AD came from an interesting lineage…

      (Trigger Warning if you click the link, you will need to cleanse the pallet with some white guy only gay prn, that’s what I did!!!!)

    • P Ray
      October 15, 2020 at 4:01 pm

      And something else to think about:

      Maybe a lot of Asian women are so stridently feminist and “dare” men to put her in her place … because she is going for the long con, just before the wedding pretending to be a virgin, and then later when discovered – pulling the “I was raped” or “My boyfriends abused me” card.

      In other words, the “tough” exterior is to hide the crap within, i.e. “If you can’t accept me at my worst, you don’t deserve me at my best”

      So here it is:
      My(26F) past is affecting My Husband (29M) self.Advice
      submitted 5 days ago by throwraarrangedhitch
      I’ll be paraphrasing his words so bear with me.
      My Backstory:
      I am an American Indian born in the USA, My parents are Indian, They were quite lenient about dating and romance.For everyoneelse My parents told hem I was a virgin. I had somewhat of a Wild Phase during College, I was different back then and so was everything… But When I turned 25 and I had broken up with my then boyfriend, I just wanted something real, Something that lasted like my Parents Marriage… So after their convincing I agreed to an Arranged Marriage. I had purged through so many profiles when I found my current husband’s and I was shocked, Why didn’t you bring him up first??!?!
      He is nice and spice and everything right. I love him to death
      His Backstory:
      He is a MD, He studied in India till he was 23 and then moved to USA for a Residency. Which ended 2 years ago. He is working in a Private hospital now. He had clearly mentioned that he was a virgin, and Asked If I was… I carried on the ruse that I was. He had never dated before.
      Situation:
      Our Marriage was great! It was perfect…until 2 weeks ago. Until now He never questioned me about I how managed what I did in bed, and Our Sex Life was vanilla. Missionary always did him. And I was happy. He paid attention to me and I was having a good time too! I taught him what I liked and he was happy to oblige…
      2 weeks he’s back from work and He takes a shower then suddenly he’s acting all cold to me. He isn’t letting me even touch him and completely ignoring when I was trying to talk to him.
      When I finally forcefully hugged him…
      He burst out in Anger
      “Why did you lie to me? Why did you fucking lie to me???”
      I was quite puzzled because I had not the slightest clue as to what he was talking about… I asked him what he meant and that only seemed to anger him further. I could hear his his voice trembling, on the brink of tearing up…
      “Do you have no shame You fucking whore? I am giving you a chance to come clean and you still won’t. What good is it gonna do lying to me. You lied. You fucking lied. You said you were a virgin. But you fucking weren’t. You’re just another one of those whores, You’re no angel, You’re no princess.”
      I wanted to keep my ruse up because there was no way, he could have found out, It just wasn’t possible… I wanted to keep him, I didn’t want to ruin what we had. So I decided to play along… I got angry at his ‘baseless’ allegations, How dare he toss mud on my image and character like that without any proof. He was absolutely wrong to do that and I tore into him for that.
      What he did next left me shellshocked…
      He went to his office bag and pulled out an envelope… He asked if I wanted to come clean and that it was my last chance…
      I didn’t.
      He pulled out a stack of photos.
      My nudes.
      Me giving a guy a fellatio.
      Some were from the Burning man.
      My chats with my besties and exes, and my college headed size queen comments…
      It was all there, a complete portfolio of my antics.
      Him: “You fucking bitch, what am I to you? A fucking pimp? I have been nothing but good to you this is what I get… I kept myself for you, but you… You jumped on them at any chance you got… You enthusiastically pleasure them even though you have known them only a moment and we have married for 2 years and it’s always the same with you. I haven’t felt one day that you lusted me, that you wanted me.
      I regret losing my virginity to you.
      I regret you.”
      I tried to convince him that HE was SPECIAL to me…
      Which did not go well…
      He said this to himself when he left through the door with his go-bag, “I should have fucked them, maybe I will”
      He has left and he hasn’t contacted me for 2 weeks…
      I don’t know what to do…
      Please help me.
      EDIT: Before he left, He threw his contact card at me and said: “Think what you wanna do”
      I was told by my cousins to not act slutty, So I threw away my lingerie and denied oral sex as they told me. And he got angry at me for that. I don’t understand, I acted just the way I was told that wouldn’t cause problems… Forgot that in the post..

      • P Ray
        October 15, 2020 at 4:22 pm

        The winning reply:

        [–]xxx 1 point 1 day ago
        Modern women ladies and gentlemen.

        They wanna whore out during their prime with “hot guys” and then settle with the virgin guy for their marriage.

        The fucking audacity.

        People think Indian arranged marriage will get you a loyal virgin wife?

        Think again idiots, this is what indian women are like now.

        Men need to take the fucking blackpill.

        It is the only way to survive in this fucking clown world.

      • P Ray
        October 28, 2020 at 2:55 am

        In picture format, save it for an album:

        Remember, the same women who talk about “wanting to escape patriarchal oppression” … also “want to be married to a guy in a respectable profession earning lots of money” … but also “only want to give him starfish sex” and “demand that he control his sexual urges”.

        Ya … that’s a lot of money he’s paying … for a woman who refuses to be his prostitute.

  13. P Ray
    October 16, 2018 at 1:12 am

    Related:
    From reddit r/AsianMasculinity, user AmazongKong:
    “Stop being so obsessed with white women, what’s wrong with girls of your own race?”.
    A major double standard no one talks about.

    I have always been bothered by this double standard because I feel that is has spread to a lot of Asian men.
    While white men are free to love and openly confess their attraction to girls of various race and ethnic backgrounds, men of minority groups are made to feel guilty for admitting that they want white girls.
    Now I get it, some of you think that white girls are not all that special and I can see that.
    A part of me also thinks that it isn’t really your preference but you feel this powerful guilt inside of you for liking white girls.
    You feel that you’re somehow being disloyal to your own race of women, who will turn their backs on you in a heartbeat (eg: esther ku), by somehow wanting to get with a white girl.

    So many times on various discussions across reddit and internet forums I see this double standard take place.
    A white guy will confess that he wants Asian girls or Latinas, everyone will tell him he can do it and talk about how he is so brave for wanting to go interracial.
    Now on the flip side, an Asian guy might confess his love for white girls but everyone will attack him for his preference and use the old “what’s wrong with women of your own race” card.

    The worst part is, minorities do this too out of guilt, it’s like they know they’re not supposed to anger their white masters by loving white girls.

    Even on this sub which I have lurked on, I see Asian guys occasionally attacking each other for wanting to be with white girls.
    I get that you should be proud of who you are but we need to admit some realities:

    1.For a lot of us who aren’t in ethnic enclaves, most of the dateable women we run across will be white.
    A lot of the western world is mostly white.

    2.White women in the western world, whether we want to admit it or not, hold some racial prejudice against Asian guys.

    On the other hand, I also feel that Asian men who fall victim to this double standard are subconsciously bowing to their white masters.
    In their heads, they are thinking “I better not try to go after white girls, don’t want to piss master off”.

    I just find it a bit odd that even on a site like reddit and to a lesser extent a sub like this, the powerful double standard is still present.
    Not only is white supremacy attempting to stop a lot of desirable white women from going interracial (they’re doing a damn good job at it too), it has got to the point where it is even stopping guys from sharing advice on how to date them.
    It is almost like as much as we try to show how superior and independent we are, a lot of guys on here feel that powerful guilt and fear of going after white women.
    At times guys will disguise it with the whole “they ain’t special” belief (and yes, it is true, they are not special) but I feel that the guys don’t actually believe that, they’re just coping.
    r/AsianMasculinity – Amazongkong – 3 years ago – 39 points – 146 comments

    • October 16, 2018 at 11:12 am

      @ P Ray

      I don’t agree with a lot of what you say, but this is very accurate in the black community also.

      I am right back writing again and I will touch on the topic of fake “pro-black afrocentrists” who say dumb shit like “You can’t be pro-black and sleep white”. Yet, their “heroes” are the main ones who fuck white girls and have white in-laws (most currently, Tariq Nasheed). Black women are applauded for “swirling” with white men and justify it by saying “black men don’t love me, they treat me bad”. Or they will say it’s OK for black women to travel abroad. When black men do it, they have shit to say. No different from white guys who wanna fuck everything in sight, but black (and other men of color) “must stay in their place”.

  14. P Ray
    November 16, 2018 at 5:56 am

    At around 11 seconds in the stupidity starts, with a woman hitting and pushing around a much larger man – that is the surest sign you are in a misandric society.
    Luckily, the man understands that men and women are equal, so he hits her back. Seems the woman wants “convenient equality” and not “real equality”. Again, women seem to live in another reality sometimes.

  15. P Ray
    October 23, 2020 at 3:47 am

    Actually a lot of guys can remember what type of woman to avoid … by a simple mnemonic.

    Remember, I don’t/won’t date ASIAN (Abusive, Stupid, Intolerant, Angry, Narcissistic) women.
    Any one of those Big5 (hehe, also a Chinese character encoding type) personality traits … will make you miserable.

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