Show No Mercy: Aug 23, 2010

The “advice” in a recent post by Assanova titled “What Can Asian Guys Do?” is a good example of why I prefer escorts over “unpaid” sex.

The gist of that post can be summed up as- “your life sucks, eat the scraps”.

My three-step answer to this issue is based on a cost-benefit analysis:

1] Use your earning power to buy good-quality sex with hot and compliant girls.

2] Treat any woman who rejects your advances as a non-entity, but don’t waste too much of your mental capacity on dissing cunts- because that is what they really are.

3] Since you are not treated fairly, you have no reason to treat people fairly.

If your sense of fairness and basic human decency is not reciprocated, you have every right to screw and fuck over anybody who fits the profile of such non-reciprocators and their progeny. Feel free to abuse, scam, mock, insult and con them, preferably in a manner that is profitable to you (more money= more escorts).

One bad turn deserves many, in a manner that is satisfying and profitable to you.

You cannot make others treat you as an equal, but you fuck them (and their progeny) over. What do you really have to lose? Their respect? Another chance at decent treatment? Any opportunity? Their friendship?

You cannot lose what you never had! Show NO mercy, release your inner scheming sadist.


  1. Redpill
    August 23, 2010 at 1:04 pm

    The direct game approach he suggests is correct. Frankly being as aggressive and blunt helps especially when you’re not tall or buff.

    I agree, but why settle for scraps. If you can assfuck an 8-9 for 300/hr, why restrict yourself to opinionated 4-5s?

    • Redpill
      August 23, 2010 at 6:01 pm

      I totally agree. Game is far too big of an investment for little payout.

  2. August 23, 2010 at 9:28 pm

    I agree with the third point wholeheartedly. But being a poor college student, I don’t have the “paid” option so getting unreliable “unpaid” women is what I’m stuck with.

    I have written about this before-

  3. August 24, 2010 at 7:56 am

    When you sleep with an escort or prostitute, you have the following disadvantages:

    -A much higher risk of contracting an STD (not all STDs can be prevented by using a condom).

    -Loose, lower quality pussy because said girl is constantly fucking all kinds of men.

    -It doesn’t help you get a companion if that is what you want (a girlfriend to hang out with and talk to on a regular day-to-day basis).

    -No sex on a day-to-day basis unless you can afford to pay the escorts fees every day.

    -No raw sex, and we all know that is the best sex.

    -No woman who fulfills your emotional needs on a day-to-day basis.

    • Joe
      August 24, 2010 at 9:05 am

      -Hot bar stars that guys want to game probably have as many STDs as high end escorts. Shy, quiet girls are good, but they can turn into a two month long project to hook up with them. Many guys don’t have the patience for this.

      -The amount of mind games involved in getting female activity companions is high vs the return on investment. A guy would be better off with male friends that more closely share his particular interests. In regards to sex buddies, the sex on a day to day basis always comes with an invoice, albeit slighlty delayed. There is no free lunch with women, ever, either paid or “unpaid.” The easy access to sex may not be worth the drama.

      -Some women fill a guy’s emotional needs, others chew him up and spit him out. He’s spinning the roulette wheel.

      • August 24, 2010 at 12:31 pm

        Joe, that is what happens when the guy puts too much work into trying to pick up women, and not enough work into himself so that women naturally come to him.

        Also, my girlfriend spends waaaaaaaaaay more money on me than I do on her. And she is far from a drama queen. In fact, she hates drama queens.

    • Nestorius
      August 24, 2010 at 12:49 pm

      emotional needs? does a man need emotional fulfillment?

      and female companionship? is that also necessary?

    • Awake
      August 24, 2010 at 2:14 pm

      The problem with “real women” is that you are not guaranteed anything and the longer she is around, the less you get out of her. I can spend 4 hours a night at the bars or I can study for my profession to make more money and rent what I want.

      Also escorts make a TON more sense for the guys with high functioning aspergers syndrome since those oh so wonderful little shit tests fly right by us.

  4. The Plague Doctor
    August 24, 2010 at 8:45 am

    – No-one who will buy Assanova’s e-books.

  5. P Ray
    January 17, 2016 at 6:38 pm

    Since assanova deleted his blog, here is what he said in that article:

    The Stories | The Game
    MONDAY, AUGUST 23, 2010

    What Can Asian Guys Do?
    If you’re Asian, then you probably feel like you’ve been cheated when it comes to women. We all know that women perceive you to be at the bottom of the totem pole when it comes to men. Knowing this, is there anything that you can do to have a successful dating life? Yes. However, I’m not going to sugar coat anything. As always, I’m going to tell it like it is.

    To start out, you can move away from cold approaching, and move closer towards social game. We all know that cold approaching is all about “speed” attraction, and to be straight up, unless you are one of the few really buff Asian guys, you really don’t stand much of a chance against your competition. Keep in mind that I’m referring to non-Asian girls.

    Speaking of Asian girls, these are the girls that you need to be targeting, at least initially. Why? Because Asian girls are the only girls that are going to make themselves easily available to Asian guys. You may not want an Asian girl, but there are many ways that they benefit Asian men.

    The first benefit is that you actually get experience with women. Most PUAs suck with women because they have no real experience dating them, so they really don’t have a first hand account of how they think and operate. First hand experience dating and getting into relationships with women is CRUCIAL for understanding women, and it’s why naturals like me are so good with women.

    The next benefit is that having a woman and having experience with women helps to get rid of neediness. Once you are able to pull Asian girls, you at least know that you have women that you can fall back on if you really need sex or a relationship. Knowing that you have women to fall back on helps with keeping you calm and relaxed. Once you go after Asian girls and you know that you can always have them, it will eliminate a lot of anxiety and frustration.

    Continuing, Asian girls can work for social proof. My first women in middle and early high school were Asian girls, and I believe that they set me on a trajectory to be popular with women. For one reason or another, Asian girls liked me a lot, and I was one of the few guys that had girls on his nuts. In turn, women of other races saw how much these Asian girls were on my nuts, and they wanted me for themselves. So, in essence, you can use those easy Asian girls to get other women to think you are hot shit.

    Getting to attraction, if you want an easier time, stick to girls that are around your height or shorter. Almost all women will not date a guy that they are taller than, so you need to keep that in mind when picking your targets. Also, stay away from indirect game. The biggest issue that women have with Asian men is that they are too feminine. You need to show these women that you are not the stereotypical feminine Asian guy by being a little more direct and masculine. Indirect games works best for guys that already have masculine traits such as height, muscle mass, and masculine type personalities.

    I also understand that most Asian guys are really smart, and in turn have good-paying jobs. Use that to your advantage. You need to show women that you have money and can afford the things that the typical guy can’t. Use some of that cash to buy a few pieces of expensive jewelry and clothing that shows that you are making bank. Yes, it may attract gold diggers, but you can always use those gold diggers as social proof or as a mere pump and dump without actually spending money on them. You have a cash advantage. Use it.

    Moving back to why you shouldn’t focus so much on cold approaching and more on social game. We all know that a lot of women are going to initially dismiss you because you’re Asian. However, you can benefit from the same thing that benefits all men that women aren’t initially attracted to. You can play the social game, hang out with the same group of friends as she does over time, and let her become attracted to your personality over time, assuming that you have an attractive personality. That is how some of the Asian guys I know got the hot women that they dated.
    Posted by Assanova at 1:50 PM

    “Social game” = allowing your time and money to be wasted on people with 0 guarantee of return. It’s like gambling.

    If someone has the money, it is really quite unproductive to spend that time trying to win over a former cockhopper. Just see some disadvantaged young 18-year old and have at it.

    Because the type of women that talk about “patriarchy” and “equality” are precisely the same women that want the man to pay for everything without the guarantee of having his tip wet.

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