Porn Replaces Relationship Sex

Many people wonder about the current direction of technology evolution wrt to porn. Some see it replacing all sex, some as just a substitute for ‘beta’ and ‘omega’ men.. In any case, preexisting ideological biases make most of such analysis suspect.

Here is my take based on my personal experience.

Porn replaces mediocre relationship sex. It does not replace the need for men to fuck enthusiastic, hot looking and skilled women.

I have used, and continue to use, hot and skilled escorts. However the need for me to get a non-paid mediocre booty call type relationship is considerably reduced by porn. That is not to say that I would shun an opportunity, however it is unlikely that there would be any extraordinary effort to get one.

Porn hurts women in a different way than escorts. Escorts compete with the best looking and skilled “non-paid” women or otherwise fun sex. Porn competes with the mediocre sex found in relationships after the passion dies out.

High quality and interactive porn is a viable alternative to lifeless, wallet-draining and soul-sucking marriages.

I think that we have barely seen the effects of high-end porn on human society and relationships. The very ubiquity of communications, technology and access to it makes porn an unstoppable force. So unless we have a total collapse of civilization, porn will only become better (if less profitable). Moreover, most of the younger generation of men today do not live in a world where they are rewarded for compliance with worthless traditions.

Comments?

  1. Hughman
    December 11, 2010 at 6:30 pm

    Sci-fi has predicted the end of mankind since the first concepts of Virtual/Simulated Reality was thought up.

    It has already reached that stage as far as mediocre sex is concerned

    Have you ever seen high resolution pictures of a naked woman on monitors with resolution above 1080p? They cost more than your average hd monitor, but are used in graphics and video related industries.

    It will have to be brutally regulated.

    To the point of needing kill-switches after an alloted time-use. And trying to custom-modify the equipment results in its automatic failure.

    Of course it will get to the point where a home user can set up their own VRs by mergin technologies. But I believe if we can get to that stage, we’ll have entered a form of a Singularity – mankind can operate mental thought incredibly fast, he is only limited by external forces.

    • Hughman
      December 11, 2010 at 7:18 pm

      I’ve seen pictures, no nakedness though – my hometown has a flagship technology superstore. It’s obscenely good. Combine that with the perfect CGI that can now be produced (still time consuming, 3 months to produce a 2 minute clip, but give it 10 years max , and it’ll be cheap)

      I don’t think it’s fully happening yet. Guys are still going out wasting money. They are still getting shafted by marriying, by not having pre-nups, by not checking paternity (or protecting against having kids) They still whiteknight, still believe in feminism.

      Because they are trying to keep up appearances.

      The problem is the Pareto Principle. 20% of people do 80% of the work. So many people can drop put of society, and it will not be noticed until it’s too late.

  2. opelika tech
    December 11, 2010 at 9:18 pm

    This sort of VR technology will most likely originate in Japan. Ordinary men have little to benefit from entering into marriages with women their own age and having kids. It would be to their advantage to get a vasectomy and have their medical records notorized. If they want children, they can get some foster children and the government will give them a nice monetary stipend for undertaking that responsibility. Health insurance will oftentimes pay for a vasectomy. It’s tough for an ordinary wage earner to compete with the DHR, food stamp, WIC, and Section 8 Housing entitlements that women receive for bailing on their marriages. If you lose the bet that she won’t leave you, you get to pay child support and possible alimony.

  3. December 12, 2010 at 5:35 am

    It all goes to the nature of sex itself. The result or goal of any sexual act is orgasm. The easiest way to achieve orgasm will always beat the hardest one.

    • Ted
      December 13, 2010 at 8:26 am

      This is why I always had trouble believing that the goal of sex since time immemorial is to “spread the seed” and have as many offspring as possible. In prehistoric & ancient times, few men had the ability to support numerous offspring, so early death was likely for them. Flash forward to today, and the wealthiest strata of society often have smaller families. Yet, shouldn’t it be that wealthier men have larger families? Such is not the case. In the modern world, the cost of child-rearing is such that having large families increases the liklihood of being stuck in poverty.

      For those wealthy men who wish to always have a young wife, the cost of divorce and child support are such that only a few men can afford it.

      So, instead of the idea that men look at an attractive woman and think, “She has good genes to be the mother of my children.”, it is more likely that the idea of children does not even enter into the equation at that time, he is thinking just about sex. That does not mean that he wants to marry her and start a family.

      “If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife. So, from my personal point of view, get an ugly girl to marry you.” – Jimmy Soul

      Or, as another one of my favorite sayings goes, “A woman marries a man, believing that she can change him, but he won’t. A man marries a woman believing that she won’t change, but she does.”

      • Luis
        June 15, 2015 at 10:46 pm

        It’s like food, when you eat you don’t think “oh! this hamburger has a great nutritional value, it has proteins, carbs, bla, bla, etc” you just think “hmmmm!! yummy burger” unless you’re a nutitionist which 99.99% of the world’s population isn’t, with sex, food and a thousand other things nature gives us pleasure to achieve one goal even when we think more on the pleasure than in the goal we’re still fulfilling the goal

    • Bill
      October 12, 2014 at 6:50 pm

      I don’t see the problem with porn. Since women find 80% of men unattractive (it’s true) what’s wrong with porn as a substitute. It is cheaper than an escort and chasing women is a waste of time.

  4. Knee
    August 6, 2012 at 9:59 pm

    medical records notorized” <<— so I understand notarizing certifies a document. What does this mean exactly and how does this benefit us?

    • P Ray
      August 7, 2012 at 1:04 am

      Certifies that you don’t carry any diseases, and you do not produce sperm.
      So you can’t be hit up for giving a woman a disease, or a child.
      There will be a lot more “Immaculate Conceptions” when men get around to not carrying the can for a woman who either cheated on him, or is planning to cheat him.

  5. Knee
    August 7, 2012 at 4:05 pm

    Hey thanks for the reply, just was wondering about a few things 1) How can a someone be punished for giving someone else an STD, 2) how does notarizing help you if you could have just gotten the STD after notarization, 3) why get a vasectomy and bear the potential discomfort? pregnancy unlikely w/ condom usage, only thing I can think of is bareback ejaculation into a LTR. Are those shots worth it?

  6. a
    January 17, 2015 at 9:16 am

    Yeah, but women eventually need it up the butt, and that promotes servitude. Also, seeing video of teens having painful sex is nothing compared to just talking to the Taco Bell girl and getting caught looking at her chest. You can tell she is nipping for YA, and that’s cheaper than a strip bar dungeon. Plus her daddy don’t know. When she hands you the taco you can touch her hand. And say “yummy”. Man, I think it’s time for 4th meal…

  7. cbmilne33
    June 13, 2015 at 5:42 pm

    Reblogged this on Cbmilne33’s Blog.

  8. Bill
    October 11, 2015 at 5:54 pm

    Porn is quick and easy..much easier than getting a date or a girlfriend. After the orgasm you are satisfied until you need to do it again..all free so who cares. I like escorts but they are very expensive and you are paying $300 for more for the same orgasm that you can get for free watching porn I think if you are going the escort route it should be 1-2 times per year or you will go broke.

  9. Anonymous
    January 11, 2016 at 11:51 am

    Pornography is boring and depressing. Who can say, after spending say even a few days viewing porn, that they will see anything new or interesting? People view porn for habit and boredom but it is a waste of time.
    Even stale sex is amazing by comparison to porn because it includes the feel and smell of a woman as well as someone reacting to you.
    The only people who think that porn can replace any but the most mediocre sex are people who have never had sex ever and have dissociated in their minds, the porn they view from having physical sex and who don’t know how good physical sex can be.
    A woman lying down and closing her eyes and asking you to get on with it will always be better than porn.
    When young boys view porn, it is with hope, that they will actually have sex with women, and the porn is just a filler until they get girlfriends and enjoy life to the full. As they get older, if they haven’t got lucky over the years, then they view porn out of habit but devoid of hope. It is actually quite depressing.
    I don’t blame men for using escorts to get sex. It is so much better than porn.
    Also, it can be seen that porn has negative psychological and neurological impacts and can even lead to sexual dysfunction. this has been reported elsewhere, for example at ReturnofKings.com.

    • January 11, 2016 at 12:16 pm

      I couldn’t agree more. Personally, I haven’t seen porn in 5 years and I don’t need it, thanks to the upgrading of my personal sex life and the increasing epidemic of “bad bitches” and “attention whores” on social media. You can always look at a chick who your JUST MIGHT smash if you can travel and play your cards right. Plus there’s escorts. However, porn IS better than relationship sex – though both are mundane, wallet draining, sad and depressing.

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