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What is the Mechanics of Non-Consensual Oral Sex?

The escapades of Dominique Strauss-Kahn have become a topic of worldwide discussion in the last week. Apparently he forced a maid, Nafissatou Diallo, to perform oral sex on him.

While I am no expert in the field of rape or sexual assault, one has to wonder-

How can a 62 year old guy of average build FORCE a 30-something woman who is almost 6 feet tall to blow him? What is the mechanics of non-consensual blowjobs?

Forcible vaginal or anal penetration is possible. A forced titfuck or something similar between her buttcheeks is doabale. Even ejaculating on her without her consent is within the limits of my imagination. But how can a guy get a woman to blow him against her will, unless he has a weapon or could get her killed if she did not comply. If DSK had threatened her with a weapon, or something along those lines, we would have heard it by now.

Short of possessing a credible threat of lethal violence, why would any guy willing put his dick in the mouth of an unwilling woman?

I am not saying that there was no sexual contact or even an element of assault in whatever happened in that hotel room. However the whole idea that he willingly put his dick in the mouth of a scared, unwilling and likely angry woman appears somewhat bizzare. It is far more likely that it was aggressive flirting gone wrong than anything close to most people’s idea of sexual assault or rape.


  1. Webe
    May 20, 2011 at 10:15 am

    A whole row of those ivory white teeth would scare me off even at 18.
    I’m not yet 62, but how can the old guy find enough friction to get off?
    It’s not like he’s hard up or excited by his first encounter.

    > whatever happened in that hotel room
    We’ll never know, his word/her word

    Frankly, even with a little consent, very weak, knowing the stakes.
    What was he thinking? Spots a maid, boing (?!), at 62? Can’t postpone and if necessary pay? For a brilliant economist he doesn’t seem very cost-conscious: 74 years of jail time for 7.4 thrusts.
    Did the NYPD talk to her in French or English? How much of the narrative is suggestion?

    Makes no sense. Unless it’s defiling that pure African slave girl thing that’s hard-wired so bad it over-ruled his brain. But then he really is a sorry SOB.

  2. MeMyselfI
    May 20, 2011 at 12:21 pm

    From what I can tell the story changed to “he touched his dick to her mouth”, not that she actually opened up for him.

    This seems more plausible. However, given that the story keeps changing… well…

  3. Country Lawyer
    May 20, 2011 at 12:52 pm

    Forced oral cop happens more than you think.

    And when the woman decides to bite there are often two bodies on the slab: The rapist and the woman that choked to death.

  4. Marvelous White Male
    May 20, 2011 at 4:15 pm

    New World Order Globalist Agenda Baphomet Worshipper.

    They’re always doing disgusting shit.

    Lock ’em all up and throw away the key!

    The International Monetary Fund has financially raped the entire world.

    Not a surprise he’d try to rape a poor maid as well.

  5. L
    May 20, 2011 at 6:03 pm

    Maybe if he beat the hell out of her first?

  6. May 21, 2011 at 3:43 pm

    Old man was framed/set up caught in honeytrap. Plain and simple.

  7. I wasn't in the room
    October 9, 2011 at 9:56 am

    No, you guys are wrong. He hit her several times. That’s how most rapists do it, they get compliance that way.

    Which is one reason we should be killing convicted rapists (and I’m a guy.)

    That woman was raped. She may have lied to get into this country, she may have a lot of faults, but I think it’s pretty clear that she was raped.

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