Don’t be a Tool : Dec 08, 2012

One of the common beliefs that unites almost all right-wing and left-wing minded men is that marriage (or some sort of LTR with a woman) is a goal one should aspire for. As usual, I have always been a skeptic of any such idea for one simple reason.

The institution of marriage and LTRs benefit women at the expense of men.

All long-term and non-professional relationships between men and women, especially those which can be enforced in a court of law, do disproportionately benefit women at the expense of the men. Even the traditional version of marriage did benefit wives at the expense of their husbands.

At best, men in marriages become a superficially respected beast of burden with no role or life beyond their role as a ‘provider’. Many are stupid enough to actually believe in that bullshit and define their self-worth based on their ability to ‘provide’ for ‘their’ family. Many were also stupid enough to believe that they will be somehow ‘rewarded’ for that role in their old age. But how many of you have seen that work out like that?

In traditional marriages, the superficial respect and deference shown to a husband disappeared as soon as his ability to ‘provide’ money was gone- either due to age or illness. The ugly old harpie, aka his wife, just shifted her attention to her kids so that she can live off some part of their income- obtained through kindness and guilt. The old husband quickly became an inconvenience who nobody cared about. I am therefore always amused to hear religious and traditional minded morons (men) pining for a return to ‘traditional marriage’ and ‘traditional society’.

Isn’t aspiring for indentured servitude rather stupid and pathetic?

Even the so-called ‘modern marriage’ and LTRs are no better, though the later choice is often less damaging than the former. Either way, I just don’t see the point of voluntarily enslaving yourself to a nagging and aging harpie who walks all over you just to get a few scarps of mediocre sex thrown at you- once in a while. Did I mention that social acceptance, which was useful in close communities, is now worse than useless in the atomized era we live in. Any guy with a half decent source of income can always buy better and more sex than this wife can provide- minus the attitude, drama, worthless expenditures, lies, scams, insults, threats and other assorted bullshit which constantly emanates from wives and long-term girlfriends.

Now, there are those who want to marry or have LTRs for the purpose of having kids. While that sounds like a noble plan, what is in it for the guy? Maybe you like slaving away for empty expressions of gratitude. Maybe you like paying child-support.. Who knows? You can run that thankless race and enslave yourself to provide your kids with the best home, education, toys etc. But if won’t matter as your kids won’t care once they grow up. If you don’t believe my cynical assessment- just look around you at the number of lonely old men who did everything right.

Today there is no significant difference between the old age experiences of a childless person and one who sacrificed their happiness for the sake of their kids. If anything, you are likely to suffer from useless and painful medical intervention to prolong your last few months on earth. Similarly, the future of humanity and civilization is irrelevant after you are dead. Do you think it would matter if every human being died the second after your died? Do you think the universe cares about the continued existence of human beings? Can it even care?

In my opinion, the best way to live is to maximize your gain from the system. While doing so might sound self-centered, it is hard to ignore that society is constantly trying to swindle you out of your fair share. Just stop playing by the rules of someone who is trying to exploit you and look out for your own gain- irrespective of what it might do to the rest of the dysfunctional system. After all, you live only once and nothing matters once you are dead.

What do you think? Comments?

  1. EvilOne
    December 8, 2012 at 3:28 pm

    Ah Diaboli, sneaky attempt to get us to destroy humanity for you eh?
    You just do your dirty work yourself!

    I have plan A, Plan B, Plan C, Plan D and Plan E etc. Have to try all to see which one/s works..

  2. P Ray
    December 8, 2012 at 4:41 pm

    You are an appreciating asset, while the wife quickly becomes a depreciating asset … especially if she has no skills beyond homemaking.
    Which is why both spouses have to work, whether in a home business or for others.
    On the other hand, it will allow you to also quickly see whether she is the type of woman to quickly divorce when around her husband at home
    And if you don’t answer to a boss, but yourself, you can always cut down the prices at which you provide services … versus a corporation.
    Remember that Hewlett-Packard and Apple began from garages, and the best time to get divorced is when she can claim the least.

  3. Hamsta
    December 8, 2012 at 6:02 pm

    This is the most sane post I have read in a long time.

  4. samseau
    December 8, 2012 at 7:22 pm

    It is through their selfish interest do men create the world for others. 99% of a all men’s actions are done for his own self-gain.

  5. knee
    December 8, 2012 at 10:14 pm

    >> Yes, the key to having a good experience with escorts is to stay away from anglo- women.

    1. I love British accents. Would you include girls with British accents but non ethnically British in this group to stay away from? Asking because Asian girls with American accents don’t seem that different from their white counterparts to me so I am wondering if the anology holds with British accent/eastern european ethnicity being bad escorts.

    Well.. the brits are not as bad the american-born.

    2. Have a little bit more than $1000. Half is currently in an account my parents can monitor, half is in cash. Think is enough? How do I make it so my parents cannot monitor how I spent the money?

    Trip to Montreal = paid by parents; cash = hookers.

    3. Basically need to avoid explaining to my parents why I would be in Montreal as a non-Canadian. Thoughts on this?

    It is an amazing city with lots of neat old buildings and architecture.

    I’m going home for Christmas. Some of my concerns are currency exchange, secretly booking the plane ride there, and being unfamiliar with the city, backup plan in case I miss my flight or get lost in Montreal.

    US currency is not an issue in Canada. Many places accept it at face value + banks will exchange it without any questions (as long as the amount is less than 1 or 2k).

    4. Do you think are some things I should do when I get home? Any travel related items or documents I should get or convince my parents to buy for me to reduce costs – obviously without telling them what my plans are?

    US citizens only require a passport to go to Canada for less than 6 months.

    5. Who else do you think would be good to get help on the logistics of this little secret sex tourism vacation?

    Become a member of (it is free) and read as many reviews as you can. Also use google earth + maps + panoramio to get any idea about the layout of the city.

    • knee
      December 8, 2012 at 10:41 pm

      0. Still it seems best if I could hide the travel bill from my parents entirely. How would I go about doing this if I wanted to?

      Overbearing Asian parents.. huh?

      1/2. I think I will probably withdraw all the cash from the account, claim I spent it on textbooks to convince my parents to partially refill some of the money on the account or say I need money for a tutor.

      I guess it is possible to book a plane ticket at the desk of an airport with a messy wad of cash? 🙂

      Hmm.. as long as it is a return ticket- though using a credit card is best. Or use a travel agency?

      1. Would PM’ing users on escort review boards be a good idea for real, non-trolling advice? How did you get advice?

      Don’t PM them straight away. First hang around and read what already exists.

      2. There is a Canadian in my fraternity and I have a French-Canadian teacher. What are some ways you think they could help me with the traveling/alibi?

      Just to see that city. Don’t make it more complicated than necessary.

      3. Have you gone to Montreal to fuck escorts and how did that go for you and were there unexpected problems?

      Nope.. It has worked out well.

      4. Out of curiosity what makes Montreal better than other Canadian cities for escorts if anything?

      It is nearer to Boston, especially by air, than any other major Canadian city.

      • Dude
        December 9, 2012 at 1:20 pm

        Just wait til you’re out of college, knee.

    • December 9, 2012 at 12:28 pm

      you should go here:

      even if you don’t get laid, you can stil get high….

  6. knee
    December 8, 2012 at 11:36 pm

    >>Overbearing Asian parents.. huh?

    My mother already suspects some things from a paper I wrote on prostitution for English class (got an A) and she knows I am not at all interested in old buildings/culture of a city.

    It will be difficult to say neat old buildings and architecture so I might say to have a fun trip w/ some friends from college if she finds out, though I might have to make the lies better.

    I believe she has my passport and may have lost it so I have to worry about 1) getting it again if she lost it and 2) saying why I need it when she not seeing any reason why I would ever be out of the country

    The only reason all this caution crosses my mind was she told me she knew that I paid for some porn websites using the credit card she gave me. Incidentally I’m curious about how to make porn consumption faster, more organized, and get to the good stuff faster and maybe some old timers have tips on this.

    If I can’t get my hands on some the PDF5E inhibitors by the time I go, what is your advice to get the most out of the session?

    Last longer before jacking off? Get the most out the time not only terms of sex but cuddly. sweet GF things that I need to try as a virgin and have no idea what would feel good?

    As a whole, even with the plane trip included is fucking escorts in Canada cheaper than in the USA for you?

    • doclove
      December 9, 2012 at 2:42 pm

      Why are you paying for porn when so much of it is free online because of the internet?

      Ya, I agree. Plus you can get a wider variety by searching for free porn.

    • December 10, 2012 at 2:08 pm

      knee :
      The only reason all this caution crosses my mind was she told me she knew that I paid for some porn websites using the credit card she gave me. Incidentally I’m curious about how to make porn consumption faster, more organized, and get to the good stuff faster and maybe some old timers have tips on this.

      I don’t know why the hell you pay for it. Just googling “free porn password” gives you working name:password pairs to well-known sites. Here is one I found within two minutes of googling: user:drunkn:pass:solosolo
      If you buy any porn you are thinking with your dick.

      Get the most out the time not only terms of sex but cuddly. sweet GF things that I need to try as a virgin and have no idea what would feel good?

      Cuddling is overrated. You are way overthinking everything.

    • anonymous
      December 11, 2012 at 8:27 am

      Escorts will cuddle with you, and almost always do after the actual sex is over. You’d be surprised at how affectionate some of them are, and how genuine they can make it seem. I think a lot of them do authentically enjoy their experiences with their clients. Just remember, despite any pleasure that you might sense them to take from the experience, commerce is still their motivation for participating in it. So don’t fall in love with any of them 😀

  7. EvilOne
    December 8, 2012 at 11:46 pm

    Hey knee…
    Have you considered going to The Dominican republic instead? For 2000-3000 USD, you can get all nighters for a week straight. The thing is not that Canada is bad, but at 180-250 an hour, you’ll probably be too nervous to enjoy it fully on your first go. If you go to a place like blackbeards, its $40 for 2-4 hours and $80 for all night for mulatto chicks.

    Granted, I prefer white girls myself (sowwy unka Diaboli ), but beggars cant be choosers, or put another way, you may need to make some tradeoffs.

    • P Ray
      December 9, 2012 at 2:00 am

      Assuming knee is Asian,
      how acceptable would it be for locals to see him buying sex from one of “their” women,
      and how seriously would crimes against him be investigated if he got cheated?
      Not so long ago in the US, a Korean man got run over (died shortly after) by a prostitute, who claimed he was “creepy”.

      • EvilOne
        December 9, 2012 at 2:29 am

        I haven’t been there. Im thinking of making my first trip in June. Ive seen ‘tutes where I am, and one hour is woefully inadequate for a newbie imo – you’d be spending all your time thinking about… time. I specifically mentioned blackbeards as its a closed environment – no need to leave the compound – they got hookers, food, rooms for rent, and a swimming pool. So that increases the safety factor. Head over to and look over the reviews of the place and ask questions of the regulars of the establishment.

      • P Ray
        December 9, 2012 at 2:52 am

        That one you mention is too famous, and has been blocked by certain countries, which the US calls “democratic” and “allies in the war against terror”.
        There are other “guides for such sex info, which are international”.

      • EvilOne
        December 9, 2012 at 4:54 am
  8. EvilOne
    December 9, 2012 at 1:51 am

    To get an idea of the caliber of the chicks…

  9. December 9, 2012 at 12:07 pm
  10. December 9, 2012 at 12:12 pm


    you’ve just been doxxed…

  11. December 9, 2012 at 12:20 pm

    online dating as recommended by roosh,,,,

  12. doclove
    December 10, 2012 at 8:32 am

    To be fair, I’m sure that the adult children didn’t want to support the old mother now grandmother any more than the aging father now grandfather in the past under traditional societies. The old were accorded some measure of respect due to enforced mores in the past which are no longer enforced. If I can find the link to the article or at least the website, I will provide an analysis the blogger, Free Northerner did. Basicly, he stated that GAMING women was financially the most expensive route, then came paying for whores while long term relationships or marriage were the cheapest routes to sex for men. However, he did note that divorce is the most outrageously expensive way for men to get sex because you are forced to pay through loss of at least half your assets and often child support and alimony for sex you are not getting. However, these days because of domestic violence laws, divorce laws and child support laws, It was better for men to get married before 1965 before no fault divorce laws came into effect in the USA. It was even better than that for men to marry before 1865 because of social mores were even more against divorce and if there was a divorce men usually got the house and children if he wanted them unless he was deemed an unfit parent or seriously at fault for the breakup of the marriage,and the wife got told to leave but she usually did not have to pay child support in the USA. Since 1865 women get the house and children unless she is deemed to be the unfit parent or seriously at fault for the breakup of the marriage in the USA. The No Ma’am blog by Robert Federer illustrates this. I can not reccomend to any man that he live a with a woman, marry her and sire children with her these days in the USA. The costs are too high, the benefits too low and the risk factor for men are too high.

    • P Ray
      December 10, 2012 at 9:45 am

      If another idea is to expat,
      think twice.
      MANY countries the world over, whether Arabia, Asia, Africa, the Americas or Australasia…
      do NOT recognise pre-nuptial agreements.

      • doclove
        December 11, 2012 at 6:23 am

        Yes, it’s best not to marry at all in the world because of the expansion of predatory evil feminism, but some countries are better than others for the time being.

    • doclove
      December 11, 2012 at 6:18 am

      Free Northerner did 4 articles about the economic costs of sex. It seemed plausible to me. I agreed with him, but others may disagree. He has it under the sexonomic heading.

  13. knee
    December 10, 2012 at 10:13 am

    If I can’t get my hands on some the PDF5E inhibitors by the time I go, what is your advice to get the most out of the session?

    Last longer before jacking off?

    Someone recommended a bus ride to Montreal (7hours) because its much cheaper and then get a cheap room for students. What would be your choice for travel? Foot/subway/cab? How was the city like for you? Any tips for travel there during the winter?

    • December 12, 2012 at 1:45 am

      Hey Advocatus, my comment (with several links in it) is stuck in the akismet spam moderation queue. Please unblock it and delete this comment.

    • December 13, 2012 at 6:24 am

      One more time, without links:

      knee :
      If I can’t get my hands on some the PDF5E inhibitors by the time I go, what is your advice to get the most out of the session?

      Google L-arginine powder supplementation. I’m surprised Advocatus has not mentioned this yet. L-arginine is an amino acid (constituent of protein) involved in the synthesis of nitric oxide (NO), which dilates your blood vessels. (PDE5 inhibitors also work by releasing NO.) There have been many studies regarding its effect on erectile dysfuntion; (google or search on PubMed). I recommend 2 full tablespoons per day. Be warned, though: it tastes more horrid than rat vomit and cunnilingus with one of Advocatus’ whores combined.

      Further, check your thyroid. Measure your temperature at various times in the afternoon, while resting still, at least half an hour after eating and drinking and motion, and wait 5-10 minutes or until the displayed temperature does not rise. If your highest oral temperature of the day is below 99.1F/37.3C, even if your thyroid lab results are normal, then you might have (subclinical) hypothyroidism, which is much more common than docTURDs will have you believe, and which can cause low testosterone and erectile dysfunction. In that case you can legally buy “natural dessicated thyroid extract” without prescription from the Interwebz. Ignore your lab results and just take it until your temperatures are optimal: Take the entire dose for the day just before bedtime, dissolve it under your tongue, starting with 1 grain, Increase your dose by 1/2 grain every 2 weeks until your highest afternoon temperature is 99.5F/37.5C, or whatever feels best. Warning: do not be tempted to increase the dose faster!!!

      Also consider a good general-purpose multimineral, and high-dose multivitamin. As Advocatus has recommended, I’d also eat a diet high in meat, high in animal fat, and low in carbs (or if you can zero carbs).

      On a side note, I’d also recommend this Übercondom (google “Latex Shorts & Jocks » Cycle Shorts w/ Front Sheath ‡ The Latex Store”). This is the best condom in the world:
      It’s protects against herpes and genital warts, is almost infinitely reusable, 10 times thicker than a regular condom, completely indestructible, cannot accidentaly slip off, does not have to be put on, can be lubricated inside and out, and is available in a semi-translucent beige/skin color. Try out other stores for slightly differently-shaped molds.

  14. knee
    December 10, 2012 at 11:05 am

    So I’m about to sign up on

    And I realize a few things. First it asks me for my date of birth.

    In Canada since this is legal, what then? Does my information on the forum matter and will being 19 be a problem when escorts screen you?

    Do I use a fake email for the forum but a real one for contacting the escorts or just real for everything straight across the board because its legal even though I’m 19?

    Of course I’m not using this email address, which sounds retarded and troll-ee.

    How much info is safe to give?

    • December 10, 2012 at 11:51 am

      knee :
      Do I use a fake email for the forum but a real one for contacting the escorts or just real for everything straight across the board because its legal even though I’m 19?

      What is a “fake” and “real” email address? You do realize an email is not an official document?

  15. knee
    December 11, 2012 at 9:27 pm

    Dude :
    Just wait til you’re out of college, knee.

    No. I am literally running out of time.

    Since you have mentioned something along these lines before- here is my question. Are you dying of some chronic disease?

    • December 12, 2012 at 2:43 am

      Better back up your blog before the Feds take it down after abetting the next spree killer.

      • LostLoser
        December 12, 2012 at 4:53 am

        Back up and store multiple copies in far flung places!

      • knee
        December 12, 2012 at 8:21 am

        No, I just want to have sex…

    • knee
      December 12, 2012 at 7:56 am

      I’m young, it’s not unheard of for people my age to still make it for some years more.

      So it is not as urgent as a few months, but when you realize that you have a time cap, it changes your perspective on things.

  16. survivingincel
    December 18, 2012 at 5:28 pm

    I would rather grow old and be surrounded by family, friends, and grandchildren, instead of rotting away in a old-folks home. However; as the day pass by I realize that is less likely.

    On another thought to Diaboli, what are your opinions on free one night stands? Have you ever gotten them? You ever wonder if your looks might be a factor?

    If you can get them, why not? But realistically, escorts are a much better deal than one-night stands.

    From what you blogged is mostly true. There is a reason why many women claim handsome/good looking men are poor husband material. Indeed, good looking men have options. If they refuse the men sex, these good looking guys would hit a nightclub and obtain a one night stand. Thus, good looking men cannot be manipulated by sex-refusal.

    At the same time, if the harpy is attracted to you physically, she will not start shit with you for stupid reasons. Check out my blog post about my father and step-mother:

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