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Why Escorts are Always a Better Deal than Relationships or Marriage: 1

September 16, 2018 64 comments

As long-time readers of this blog will recall, some of my oldest posts have been about how to use escorts (link 1, link 2, link 3, link 4), how I started using escorts (link 5) and why escorts are a better deal that ‘real’ women (link 6, link 7 and link 8 and link 9). I did not write on that subject again for a few years, but did answer those who asked me further questions about that topic. Some might wonder as to why I did not keep you guys updated about my continuing exploits with escorts over the last few years. Well.. it is kinda like why people who frequent restaurants (and are not food critics or social media whores) don’t keep writing about the joys of eating in them.

One can say the sky is blue and ice is cold only so many times before it becomes highly repetitive and boring- rather like those endless superhero movie sequels. I am not in the business of selling a lifestyle, seminars, books, supplements etc. My personal choice to use escorts and encourage their use by others is something which I believe in as a matter of principle. Having said that, I thought it would be a good idea to write something new on the subject, especially as it relates to the effects of using escorts for a decade and half, by now. You do remember that I first started using them when I was in my early 20s, right?

So, it has been a pretty long time since I first went down that path and still have no regrets whatsoever about taking it. Everything I wrote on this blog, years ago, was correct to a degree which continues to surprise me even today. My insights on, for example, how relationships and marriage are a shitty deal for most men turned out to be better projections of the evolution of relationship between the sexes in western countries since that time. I also was correct in pointing out that ‘game’ and ‘seduction’ were inherently flawed belief systems, since they did not address the fundamental dysfunction which resides at the heart of this problem.

In my opinion, the core disconnect between men and women in allegedly developed countries comes down to a gross misalignment of checks and incentives. To put it bluntly, there are no consequences for a woman if she decides to do anything from divorce her husband out of the blue, dump her boyfriend for no good reason, give sexual favors to advance her career and call it sexual assault later, force her male child to grow up as a tyranny and pretty much anything else along those lines. Contrast this to the public outrage and pillorying faced by a guy who attempts the male equivalent of those actions and behavior.

And let us not kid ourselves.. whatever is left of MRA-ism, conventional MGTOW-ism, most ‘game’ and ‘seduction’ communities is a big fucking joke as are the pathetic attempts to restore masculinity by alt-right idiots. Pretty much every supposedly “masculine” community is filled with captain save-a-hoes, delusional incels, shlubby white guys who end with Asian chicks, “reformed” players and other virtue pimps- not to mention all those greedy losers who want to sell you everything from bitcoin schemes, dietary supplements, books on positive thing and “perseverance porn”. In other words, there is not much real help from conventional sources for the average guy who wants to have sex with at least semi-attractive girl who can get him consistently hard.

There are a few good sources for advice on what to do once in a relationship, but they are not terribly helpful if you don’t have one in the first place. Sure.. you could try Tinder or some other dating/hook-up site/app and meet a few girls. Maybe you could even end up having have occasional sex or short-term relationships with some of them. But we keep coming back to the same problem, namely that most men can’t get a better deal than some sad relationship with a treacherous woman they can barely tolerate or a series of uncertain and irregular sexual encounters with women they would rather not be seen with. The key words being “most men”.

Which brings me the reason I started writing about using escorts in the first place. To quickly summarize: life is too short to endure a series of shitty relationships or quasi-relationships with women who don’t care about you and are nowhere as good-looking as you would like, in the hopes that you will one day have a pleasant relationship with some woman who is reasonably ok-looking and not likely to screw you over or financially exploit you for rest of life. I say.. just cut the middleman and make it explicitly transactional. Sure, you are not going to find a soul-mate that way- but how many people around you have found one, and not for the lack of trying!

To those who object to the financial exchange inherent in such interactions- it is way cheaper than divorce, child-support, alimony not to mention the costs of shitty dates and vacations. Face it- unless you are a famous, handsome, physically buff or financially successful guy, you are not getting it for free with anyone beyond an average-looking chick. And if you are fine with an average looker, that is your choice. I am just pointing out that there are far better options, if you are willing to think and act outside the prison of conventional feminized social conditioning.

In upcoming posts of this new series, I will explore (in some detail) about how using escorts for a pretty long time has changed the way I see women and the world in general. Yes, it does change your world view to the point where normie relationships usually appear sad, pathetic and meaningless. But it does more than that, you see. It changes your perspective on society, humanity and what you believe is possible or worthwhile in areas that are not even remotely connected to sex. It provides you the ultimate outsider perspective on human beings a species.

To be clear, I am not suggesting that you do it for reasons not connected to having sex with semi-attractive (or better) women.. but ya, it does change how you see the world in ways most of you would not ever imagine.

What do you think? Comments?