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Why Escorts are Always a Better Deal than Relationships or Marriage: 1

As long-time readers of this blog will recall, some of my oldest posts have been about how to use escorts (link 1, link 2, link 3, link 4), how I started using escorts (link 5) and why escorts are a better deal that ‘real’ women (link 6, link 7 and link 8 and link 9). I did not write on that subject again for a few years, but did answer those who asked me further questions about that topic. Some might wonder as to why I did not keep you guys updated about my continuing exploits with escorts over the last few years. Well.. it is kinda like why people who frequent restaurants (and are not food critics or social media whores) don’t keep writing about the joys of eating in them.

One can say the sky is blue and ice is cold only so many times before it becomes highly repetitive and boring- rather like those endless superhero movie sequels. I am not in the business of selling a lifestyle, seminars, books, supplements etc. My personal choice to use escorts and encourage their use by others is something which I believe in as a matter of principle. Having said that, I thought it would be a good idea to write something new on the subject, especially as it relates to the effects of using escorts for a decade and half, by now. You do remember that I first started using them when I was in my early 20s, right?

So, it has been a pretty long time since I first went down that path and still have no regrets whatsoever about taking it. Everything I wrote on this blog, years ago, was correct to a degree which continues to surprise me even today. My insights on, for example, how relationships and marriage are a shitty deal for most men turned out to be better projections of the evolution of relationship between the sexes in western countries since that time. I also was correct in pointing out that ‘game’ and ‘seduction’ were inherently flawed belief systems, since they did not address the fundamental dysfunction which resides at the heart of this problem.

In my opinion, the core disconnect between men and women in allegedly developed countries comes down to a gross misalignment of checks and incentives. To put it bluntly, there are no consequences for a woman if she decides to do anything from divorce her husband out of the blue, dump her boyfriend for no good reason, give sexual favors to advance her career and call it sexual assault later, force her male child to grow up as a tyranny and pretty much anything else along those lines. Contrast this to the public outrage and pillorying faced by a guy who attempts the male equivalent of those actions and behavior.

And let us not kid ourselves.. whatever is left of MRA-ism, conventional MGTOW-ism, most ‘game’ and ‘seduction’ communities is a big fucking joke as are the pathetic attempts to restore masculinity by alt-right idiots. Pretty much every supposedly “masculine” community is filled with captain save-a-hoes, delusional incels, shlubby white guys who end with Asian chicks, “reformed” players and other virtue pimps- not to mention all those greedy losers who want to sell you everything from bitcoin schemes, dietary supplements, books on positive thing and “perseverance porn”. In other words, there is not much real help from conventional sources for the average guy who wants to have sex with at least semi-attractive girl who can get him consistently hard.

There are a few good sources for advice on what to do once in a relationship, but they are not terribly helpful if you don’t have one in the first place. Sure.. you could try Tinder or some other dating/hook-up site/app and meet a few girls. Maybe you could even end up having have occasional sex or short-term relationships with some of them. But we keep coming back to the same problem, namely that most men can’t get a better deal than some sad relationship with a treacherous woman they can barely tolerate or a series of uncertain and irregular sexual encounters with women they would rather not be seen with. The key words being “most men”.

Which brings me the reason I started writing about using escorts in the first place. To quickly summarize: life is too short to endure a series of shitty relationships or quasi-relationships with women who don’t care about you and are nowhere as good-looking as you would like, in the hopes that you will one day have a pleasant relationship with some woman who is reasonably ok-looking and not likely to screw you over or financially exploit you for rest of life. I say.. just cut the middleman and make it explicitly transactional. Sure, you are not going to find a soul-mate that way- but how many people around you have found one, and not for the lack of trying!

To those who object to the financial exchange inherent in such interactions- it is way cheaper than divorce, child-support, alimony not to mention the costs of shitty dates and vacations. Face it- unless you are a famous, handsome, physically buff or financially successful guy, you are not getting it for free with anyone beyond an average-looking chick. And if you are fine with an average looker, that is your choice. I am just pointing out that there are far better options, if you are willing to think and act outside the prison of conventional feminized social conditioning.

In upcoming posts of this new series, I will explore (in some detail) about how using escorts for a pretty long time has changed the way I see women and the world in general. Yes, it does change your world view to the point where normie relationships usually appear sad, pathetic and meaningless. But it does more than that, you see. It changes your perspective on society, humanity and what you believe is possible or worthwhile in areas that are not even remotely connected to sex. It provides you the ultimate outsider perspective on human beings a species.

To be clear, I am not suggesting that you do it for reasons not connected to having sex with semi-attractive (or better) women.. but ya, it does change how you see the world in ways most of you would not ever imagine.

What do you think? Comments?

  1. September 16, 2018 at 6:55 pm

    Hello AD!

    First time reader here. Stumbled upon you from comments on Heartiste.

    You make many valid points. I saw a variety of wonderful Korean escorts for a couple years before deciding to unplug from America and start traveling the world. The biggest upside was I no longer cared what females at work or social circles thought. Most small talk was incredibly boring, so I started focusing on travel and listening to standup comics for entertainment.

    Once you get out of the Western post-consumer culture and start experiencing Asia and Eastern Europe, it really opens your eyes. Sure, here the hookers are cheaper and better, but more importantly in traditional cultures a lot of the feminist incentives don’t exist the way they do in the West. Civilian women will actually support you and do nice things for you because they want you to stick around.

    While social media cancer is spreading everywhere, in the East you can still find beautiful women who love sex and want real relationships. A little game goes a LOT further, and you can free up your time to actually pursue your interests. And as a bonus, you meet many global expats from all over the world. It’s amazing really.

    This weekend I hung out with guys from Hong Kong, Columbia, USA, and New Zealand. We chartered a boat and saw some islands. My total cost for the whole weekend? About $200 USD. And I got laid four times enthusiastically by a fun-loving woman with a great body. All it takes is a little bit of money, some keto, a positive ZFG attitude, and a willingness to approach anyone to see what happens.

    Go forth and own your shit friends. This is a great time to be alive. Stop feeding the globocuntocracy in the USA. Namasteeznuts. >=)

  2. hoipolloi
    September 16, 2018 at 7:57 pm

    How does one take protective measures from undercover cops in the U.S. while pursuing escorts? Thanks in advance.

    I plan to write about that too.. hopefully soon.

    • AnonFreeman
      September 16, 2018 at 9:18 pm

      1)Read the online reviews!
      2)Do a “surveillance sweep” on foot two times through the hotel parking lot at least an hour or so before you meet at the incall location. Look for any unmarked vehicles like a Ford Interceptor or Chevy Tahoe or Suburban. Look for any males in the parking lot with short cropped hair, plaid looking shirts or tan/earth tone colored sneakers, they may also be wearing jackets with pockets on the sleeves. If you’re feeling saucy, go up to the suspected cop and chat him up with an “awkward friendliness”, asking him what brings him to town, etc, it’ll fuck with him because his dumb ass likely didnt think about it beforehand.

      Of course if you see any people in the parking lot that match the description, go ahead and text message cancel the appointment and then watch the hilarious reaction from the pigs in the parking lot!

      • hoipolloi
        September 17, 2018 at 12:11 pm

        Doing a sweep of the parking lot could be irksome and futile. In NY, the prostitutes protect themselves from busting by asking the customer to disrobe completely. A police man would never do it because a cop on duty is prohibited from disrobing. Any thing like that for the client to the escort? Also, the question arises what are the penalties if you are caught by the cops? Any hints for the DC tristate area?

    • six figures earning plumbers are not part of the bourgeoisie
      September 17, 2018 at 3:39 am

      What in america cops go after the clients of prostitustes…?

      • P Ray
        September 17, 2018 at 3:56 am

        Found in 5 minutes, you’d better improve your Google-Fu or (((they))) will find it easy to manipulate you

      • six figures earning plumbers are not part of the bourgeoisie
        September 17, 2018 at 5:29 am

        I see,i suppose anglosaxon societies are THAT scummy.
        I live in Italy where prostitution is legal,but diseases are a risk,the better solution for Italian lads is to go to Germany where brothels are closely regulated by the government and all the prostitutes always do checkups for diseases.

    • Don
      September 28, 2018 at 8:21 am

      May I suggest you travel. For instance, escorting is legal and regulated here. There are many areas like that around the world.

    • November 13, 2018 at 5:00 pm

      It might be cheaper to fly to a Canadian city. Escorts are 100% legal in Canada. As long as your escort is over 18. Or nicer parts of Mexico. Consider Brazil if you like exotic women. If you travel to Europe often, consider Germany or Holland. They have good clean brothels. 100% legal.

  3. Gp
    September 17, 2018 at 12:21 am

    What about kids AD, I live in India and really want sons tho. I am reasonably well off too

    Kids are not worth it, unless you care about that sort of stuff. Even in India, having kids is no longer a path to a happy or secure retirement.

    • six figures earning plumbers are not part of the bourgeoisie
      September 17, 2018 at 9:45 am

      Dude,your grandchildren will have one fourth of your DNA,their children one eight of it and so on,also for all you know you are leaving them your worst traits.
      Who the fucking cares about having offspring,adult men should be able to manage their fear of mortality without having to attach themselves to such bullshit.

      • P Ray
        September 17, 2018 at 9:48 am

        He wants kids to help care and not screw him over in his old age.
        Female kids are more likely to screw around with Chad, develop feminism or other mental problems and basically be a liability to the family.
        Not caring about how your life is in advanced age means you are pretty ok with putting a shotgun under your chin, personally I’d rather go with a bunch of people then alone. It’s a lot more festive.

      • Gp
        September 17, 2018 at 11:35 am

        I don’t care bout DNA. Want to pass down my ideology

      • hoipolloi
        September 17, 2018 at 1:14 pm

        @Gp: “Want to pass down my ideology”

        It is a monumental task to make your kids accept your view of life. There is a chance that they end up on the opposite side. If you want to propagate an ideology network with like minded people. My two cents.

      • P Ray
        September 17, 2018 at 7:26 pm

        It is a monumental task to make your kids accept your view of life. There is a chance that they end up on the opposite side. If you want to propagate an ideology network with like minded people. My two cents.

        80% of men are chasing after the bottom 22% of women. It’s no longer a monumental task to convince young men that women are BS-ing when they talk about true love.

        Did you know there is TGTOW now? Teenagers Going Their Own Way? That is how bad and apparent sluttery from females are towards MANY, MANY males.

      • Jason
        September 18, 2018 at 8:33 pm

        He’s Indian. He has Beta principles thanks to his mommy and daddy upbringing.

    • September 19, 2018 at 5:56 am

      I’m 62, married 39 years, first-and-only marriage…I have six kids, all adults themselves now.

      GP —

      1) You have no way to guarantee any of your children will be sons. You could end up with several daughters and no sons. Are you willing to risk that real possibility?

      2) You have no way, even if you have sons, to guarantee they will adopt your ideologies and beliefs. People who are confident they’re able to instill their values and philosophies into their children “even if other parents are unable to do that” are naive, idealistic, and unrealistic, to say the least. Are you willing to risk ending up with sons who reject or even OPPOSE your worldviews?

      • Don
        September 28, 2018 at 8:22 am

        Best argument I’ve seen against having kids. Thanks. Me personally want to have children for the same purpose but stopped after hearing a version of the same logic.

  4. P Ray
    September 17, 2018 at 3:07 am

    Men need to be either resident or citizens of countries that make it difficult for either local or foreign women to gain citizenship and thus equal measure in divorces, because women initiate most of the divorces in men, indicating they either don’t know how to choose a good man (meaning woman = stupid) … or they want him for the payoff (meaning woman = greedy).
    To avoid them getting spurred on by stupid or greedy impulses women have to find it difficult to get ahold of his assets.
    There are some pre- and even during marriage red flags to look at:
    1. she likes buying lots of shoes, bags and clothes – the branded kind like Hermes, Birkin, Louboutin – which both appreciate in value AND the court cannot say “this is a man’s property”
    2. refuses to sign a pre-nup (if she loved you, she would not want your money in any way, since your love would be enough, amirite?)
    3. has any background at all (even via her education) that you can find through google or social media where she participated in the feminist cause, e.g. writing about “theories of origins of woman’s connections to water, love and death, and biological functions and roles in society, with examination of gender roles and identity constructs and gender relations” (paraphrased from an actual Master’s thesis).

    May write more later but those are the building blocks. Am fortunate to have permanent residency overseas so can barter my access to that into compliant women (when I have the time later to be away + stop with the vidya).
    Always remember that the 80-20 rule is true, right now 80% of women are competing for the attention of 20% of men, and society doesn’t want you to know that. Use your advantages where you can, and remember morality is the way the strong control the weak.

    • Jason
      September 18, 2018 at 8:45 pm

      Saudi Arabia is where this is possible. It’s a sin to get a divorce there, and women are punished for trying to go astray. The CONservatives keep using examples from Saudi Arabia to target western feminists and ordering them to retaliate against Middle Eastern principles. Little do they realize, the Middle Easterners keep their system in check.

      • P Ray
        September 18, 2018 at 8:55 pm

        Yeah nah, the system in Saudi Arabia is crumbling.

        Saudi divorce rates rise by 50%
        Counsellors cite a variety of reasons for this including parental inference and the prevalence of social media
        Image Credit: Supplied
        Published: 13:29 October 19, 2017 Gulf News
        Sadiya A Nadeem, Special to Gulf News

        Jeddah: The number of divorce cases in Saudi Arabia has exponentially increased in recent years.
        According to Saudi Open Data, 35,000 divorce cases were reported in 2015, and 40,000 in 2016.

        Experts believe that divorce rates have gone up by around 50 per cent this year from last year.
        According to the General Authority of Statistics, currently one in five marriages end in divorce.
        On an average around 127 divorce cases take place in a day.

        They were only able to hold their own until mass messaging came along and women were able to pick and choose.

  5. P Ray
    September 17, 2018 at 5:13 am

    Anyway since I’m all about handing advantages to the 80% guys, since I like my peaceful societies and respectful differences without social justice warriors, here is another good set of tips:

    September 14, 2018
    1. Create a seeking arrangement profile
    2. Take pictures of yourself at the Lamborghini or Audi dealership
    3. Your net worth is a fake $2mill
    4 . Your salary is a believable $300k per year
    5 . You target 18 to 21 year old female students. They are the most desperate .
    6 . You tell them you are time limited so you prefer sex at their place or in your car .
    7 . You’ll get 50 messages per day on SA
    8 you fuck them
    9. Pay them on fake money that you buy on amazon or you throw them out of the car .
    10. You wake up he next day text them and ask the bitch if she had a good time
    11. Youll be satisfied that you didn’t spend a dime and pissed them off
    12. If you think I’m trolling there’s at least one guy on RoK who can substantiate this method
    13 . Good luck out There fellas , don’t lose hope !

    At the very least remember to also have recording around you, just in case you’d like to entertain the world with a Warriena-Wright-alike re-enactment.

  6. September 17, 2018 at 8:05 am

    AD, AD, AD….

    (LMFAO) Man, I never thought you’d be writing articles like this ever again. I am also happy that you don’t attack women with as much venom as you did in the past and focused on a lot of pathetic, weak men whom as you said before will vent their “cognitive dissonances online and call it the manosphere”. And that shit has actually worsened over the years. I have distanced myself from MFs like this online and in real life – and these same effeminate bastards take it personal when you block them and cut ties with them.

    Oh.. believe me, I have just as much contempt for them as in the past. It is just that now I also talk about the other side of that problem, namely the men whose behavior facilitates that attitude by women.

    Over the past 2 years, I have been travelling abroad and will continue to do so. But not every time I feel horny, though. That sad to me. I personally prefer to deal with women who like me for who I am – not because I paid her. However, I have no problems dealing with “real women”; even though they flake. Once they do that, I move on to the next bitch. As you’ve said, “pussy is fungible”. While women in Asia or Latin America looks better than the average American woman, the only downside is that as far as escorts, one would be an idiot to rawdog them. No, I’m not saying that rawdogging is better in the USA, but once the chemistry is great, it can go far. I have my own methods on how to avoid STDs, even with civilians. I have no tolerance dealing with women in their 20s in the USA. If I want younger females, I go abroad. In America, MILFs and Cougars dominate the dating scene and while some may feel they can’t compete in the physical arena as their younger counterparts, they have been around and know what they want. No games, no BS – unless they are too narcissistic – hence why Single Mothers, MILFS and Cougars (and even fatties) are the easiest women to score with here.

    While I am no heavy practitioner of game, I have natural chemistry. But I have no tolerance for bitches to act iffy. HOWEVER… I agree certainly that escorts are superior to marriage and the boredom of domestic routine. I also don’t like it when females play “hard to get” (too grown for that shit) or try to tame me into letting her be my “only one” (as all it does it cater to her ego – of course, she calls it “security”, when it’s a blasphemy against human nature).

    But yes, this lifestyle does change your outlook, save you time and money and can cause you to take yourself more seriously (becoming more cynical or rigid) than to engage in massive hula-hoops for pussy. On the other hand, Alan Roger Currie and other “street alphas” believe men who pay for sex truly have no bragging rights. I can agree with that, but then again………..

  7. six figures earning plumbers are not part of the bourgeoisie and yet they vote right wing,what chumps
    September 17, 2018 at 9:52 am

    Good post, however considering the grammar on this blog i find it a tad hard to believe you have a PHD.

  8. hoipolloi
    September 17, 2018 at 2:51 pm

    Heading reads: “Why Escorts are Always a Better Deal than Relationships or Marriage”

    It sounds like an either or proposition. How about escorts to supplement sex in different stages of marriage? Like you visit a restaurant once in a while without abandoning your hearth.

    • six figures earning plumbers are not part of the bourgeoisie and yet they vote right wing,what chumps
      September 17, 2018 at 5:28 pm

      Please spare me that garbage.
      No wife will ever allow it, it did not happen one hundred years ago in more male-friendly countries such as Italy(there were hookers but the client were only either military men or young unmarried men),it certainly will not happen now, even one hundred years ago and in a non anglo country, men had to keep their affairs with other women or hookers a secret.
      Old and old-fashioned retards wanting to cling to a shitty tradition will pay the high price for their stupidity during the divorce or the shitty marriage they will have to suffer through.
      And all at the hand of their wives gotta love the irony lol.

      • hoipolloi
        September 17, 2018 at 5:51 pm

        “No wife will ever allow it”

        So Hillary Clinton didn’t allow it?

        “men had to keep their affairs with other women or hookers a secret.”

        Did anyone said you visit escorts and come home to tell your wife a blow by blow account? 🙂

      • P Ray
        September 17, 2018 at 7:07 pm

        A wife who has more to lose than you in a divorce will have to.
        Do you think the wives of rich Asian businessmen really dare to divorce on account of “husband slept around?”
        Remember, he wouldn’t have had to if she had kept his balls drained in exchange of him bringing the money.

        Funny thing about a lot of wives, they think the guy is supposed to provide the money for 0 returns from her. Maybe it’s because the wives think “I married this guy when I could have had Chad Thundercock, therefore he has to compensate me for life”.

        Thinking about it from that angle, a “loyal” wife who doesn’t do any wifely duties … is more like a parasite expecting half (or more) when the divorce comes up

      • September 19, 2018 at 6:17 am

        Wrong absolutely but correct generally, actually.

        My wife and I, married 39 years, are mutually, consensually, sexually non-exclusive for the past fifteen years. I’ve had an extra-marital lover for the past four years, and have had other sexual playmates besides that lover. My wife is fine with it; in fact, she has said and even told other women for decades, “If a wife can’t or won’t give her husband the sex he wants and needs, then she doesn’t love him if she denies him getting that sex from other women.” She has always viewed sex very differently than most women do, reasoning more the way that men do about sex.

        My wife isn’t with me for my money (I have none, and am considered in poverty by official US financial standards; and in fact she is the one who works since I retired from builder work a few years ago). We enjoy an excellent sex life with each other (she regularly solicits sex from me; I almost never ask her for sex, cuz, she takes the initiative and asks me for it).

        So, exceptions do exist. However, I do agree with you — don’t expect to find the rare exceptions. Most women are as you described and won’t accept their guy having extra-marital sex partners or paying for extra-marital sex.

      • September 19, 2018 at 6:24 am

        …oooopppssss…a clarification…my wife has said, “If a wife can’t or won’t give her husband the sex he wants and needs, then she doesn’t love him if she denies him HER SINCERE CONSENT FOR getting that sex from other women.”

      • P Ray
        September 19, 2018 at 7:05 am

        ^ That parts always gets peoples’ underwear in a bunch:
        1. you’re supposed to be married to get sex (unless you’re a chad)
        2. the only married guys who get sex outside the marriage are deceitful liars

        any other possibility is ignored AND if you are getting it outside the marriage with the permission of the wife, she’s feeble-minded or “hypnotised by the patriarchy”. lel.

  9. Shiningtime
    September 17, 2018 at 6:48 pm

    The older I get, the less dogmatic I’ve become about all sorts of things. This is certainly a topic I’m interested in. I won’t write a book.

    I started using pros while in the military. Traveling overseas as a 20 years old young buck and plowing foreign puszy was an amazing experience.

    The best sex I’ve ever had was with an escort in Bahrain. She was a young Russian with an out of this world body. She rocked my world. A real demon sex kitten.

    With that said, sex with someone you have an emotional connection with is by far superior to most sex you’ll have with a pro. Of course the sex gets stale after a few years. That’s why monogamy is so hard.

    Pros have their purpose. To give you an outlet to your sexual desires. Are they better than sex with a woman you have a genuine connection with? I’m not convinced.

    • P Ray
      September 17, 2018 at 7:09 pm

      The woman who you have an “emotional connection” with, has to have a “frequent physical connection with your dick” … otherwise you are the “gay best friend” that she tells all her emotional details to.

      Nobody wants to say some men cheat because their wives didn’t find them sexually attractive.

    • P Ray
      September 17, 2018 at 7:18 pm

      In pictures:

    • September 18, 2018 at 3:54 pm

      With that said, sex with someone you have an emotional connection with is by far superior to most sex you’ll have with a pro. Of course the sex gets stale after a few years. That’s why monogamy is so hard.

      Pros have their purpose. To give you an outlet to your sexual desires. Are they better than sex with a woman you have a genuine connection with? I’m not convinced.

      I agree.

      Not to brag or disclose TMI about my sex life, but I am a BDSM Dom and while sex workers won’t mind you spanking on them and tying them up, it IS better when you have not just an emotional connection, but when you have consistency with one or more civilian women. True, many females in the Caribbean Islands, Asia and Latin America look so much better than the average American chick and won’t play stupid psychological chess games, it’s better to me to know that I can rawdog civilian women who I deal with (I see to it that we both exchange test results before we decide to rawdog – I DO NOT recommend rawdogging sex workers) and have a consistent and stable harem of sex partners closer to my neck of the woods… so that I don’t have to spend thousands and endure 12+ hour flights just to get laid. Most men don’t have it that good and while I’m not rubbing it in, it’s kindasorta unpleasant – although sometimes, there isn’t much of a choice.

      There’s nothing like being with women who you know desire you because the vibe is there, rather than paying her). However, only FEW men have it that good in America’s dating scene and those FEW men are mostly alphas, street thugs and “bad boys” who get the best pick of the litter by saying “fuck society” and being mysterious, yet hypermasculine and working on their own self-improvement daily, unlike those 9-to-5 wage slave “peasants” who have been lied to all their lives (but even alphas are becoming fed up with women’s shenanigans).

      This also explains why “nice guys” get no love and why women cheat on them. Because white CONservatism said “a woman’s place is in the home”, guess what else comes with that? Female infidelity and male slavery. After all, a slave is supposed to be working, not spending his energy on intercourse.

      So for me, too, as much as I love bar girls and tropical foreign travel flings (I also travel to escape “The Matrix, USA”), it still can’t beat genuine connections with women, especially if they are willing to be your BDSM “subs” or “sex slaves”. That dynamic is an aphrodisiac!

      • Shiningtime
        September 18, 2018 at 6:04 pm

        In today’s America, sex has been weaponized. That’s why guys like Elliot Rodgers get so fckd in the head.

        As an average guy, you’ll have to work hard to get laid consistently. Most average Joe’s find one woman they vibe with and cash out. I’ve read majority of men have had less than 5 sex partners.

      • September 18, 2018 at 6:09 pm

        America has a thing against P4P. But most men feel as if they are too good for that. Unless they take that route, that number will change. However, there are upsides and downsides to that lifestyle. While most Americans have HPV, it’s possible you have a higher chance of catching that and other STDs by that lifestyle.

        My mother told me that people are like cars. They can wreck your shit and keep going and they don’t care, especially if their shit is wrecked already. A sex worker won’t tell you if she got something and she’ll be offended if you ask her to swap test results with you. Even if you swap results, she’s fucking way too many others for money and some of their clients may be bisexual fucking punk ladyboys too. So there’s no telling what THEY may have.

        Regardless of which lifestyle you choose, you must take the good with the bad.

        PS, sex has ALWAYS been used as a weapon in America. Even in plantation era, where some men had the privilege to fuck everything in sight, while others were told by religion, CONservative ideology and religion to keep their tails tucked between their legs, like “good god-fearing Christian family men”.

      • Michael Ross
        September 20, 2018 at 11:33 pm

        It’s funny, migrants from the Middle East, India, and Pakistan are specifically trying to come here to fuck our White American women, but Americans here are claiming the women are ugly.

  10. Jason
    September 18, 2018 at 9:34 pm

    You know what’s the most expensive thing about escorts? STDs! Not to say you can’t get STDs from random hookups from regular chicks, but with an escort, you know for a fact that she sleeps with strangers on a regular basis. With a relationship, there is at least some level of trust between the two of you to the extent you can both have passionate oral sex and deep tonguing kissing. Good luck doing that with an escort.

    Syphilis is very rare in developed countries in addition to being easily treatable. HSV is too common among general population to avoid, unless you are lucky with your partners. For everything else, there are condoms. Also most escorts in developed countries get themselves tested frequently- like once a month.

    As far as unprotected BJs go, there is a small risk of gonorrhea and chlamydia- but many tens of times smaller than unprotected intercourse. As long as you stay away from trannies, reject offers of unprotected intercourse and walk away from chicks with suspected genital lesions, you should be fine.

    • P Ray
      September 19, 2018 at 2:27 am

      The fun part about syphilis, while easily treatable …
      is how fatal it is towards newborns.

      Choices always have consequences.

    • Shiningtime
      September 19, 2018 at 12:55 pm

      Wrap your tool and don’t go down on a sex worker….EVER. People get STDs because they go raw or are too drunk to see the lesions a girl may have. Regardless, you can get an STD from a regular girl. Lots of them have one. Wrap your tool and the chances of catching something decrease dramatically

      • September 20, 2018 at 10:16 am

        I’ve actually gone down on bar-girls. (sighs lol)

      • Michael Ross
        September 20, 2018 at 11:36 pm

        Well that’s the issue! I like having RAW passionate sex with fluids exchanging and both of us going down on each other. You’ll NEVER have that type of sex with a sex worker. NEVER!

  11. Don
    September 27, 2018 at 10:59 pm

    I have a pressing question to ask related to this post and will be truly grateful for someone who answers it.

    What do you think is the appeal of whores (escorts) as opposed to pursuing sluts (i.e. from Night Clubs and etc.) from your point of view as a customer of escorts?

    Escorts are a sure thing and won’t flake, unlike nightclub sluts. Also the cost per lay is cheaper for an escort- unless you are a super handsome or famous guy. Also the chance of getting STDs (other than Herpes) from escorts is very small, unlike nighclub sluts (who are also more likely to give you Herpes).

    • Don
      September 27, 2018 at 11:03 pm

      Please understand that I am asking this because I am trying to convince myself. I do also understand that you have written about this on the links in the first paragraph. Thanks in advance for any reply.

    • Don
      September 27, 2018 at 11:06 pm

      For me at least, club sluts have this massive aura while escorts are plan B sex. When you say escorts are better, in what way?

      Better technique, better looking and you don’t have to pretend to like them.

      • Don
        September 28, 2018 at 8:17 am

        Okay point taken. But one more thing.

        Why would a woman have sex for money if she isn’t in trouble? Isn’t fucking an escort who’s doing it only for money a type of exploitation especially if she’s a human trafficking victim.

        What is the real difference between one woman marrying for money and another having sex for money? Answer- the later one is far more honest about her profession. You can always stick to indie escorts or those from well known (and reputable) agencies if you want quality.

        Also the alleged ‘human trafficking problem’ is gross exaggeration- especially in developed countries other than USA. Ya.. the USA is a pretty shitty place to live-, unless you are already rich. Then again, people often get to live in the society they truly deserve.

        I don’t believe the above statements but I need some logical arguments against them.

    • P Ray
      September 29, 2018 at 4:35 am

      A long time ago (~5 years) someone conducted an experiment about “sex for rent” and managed to tabulate that 70% of the women entering his rental property were very open to the idea of having regular sex with a guy for free rent, or if they thought they could “get into a relationship with him and stay for free and have popular nights out”.

      It makes for very interesting reading, but remember: the women regular guys get for that, are the women either with very few orbiters (because they’re picky) or irregular jobs (because they’re lazy) or singlemoms or alchies.

      However, since as the property owner you get to choose the tenant, that filter system allows you to get the best/most bangs for your buck.

  12. Doge of Venice
    September 29, 2018 at 1:43 am

    Aren’t you going to be lonely (especially when you are older) if just fuck escorts? Do you have a lot of friends?

    • hoipolloi
      September 29, 2018 at 12:06 pm

      The idea that you are going to be lonely in old age and your spouse and children will take good care of you is mostly an illusion and does not stand scrutiny.

      • Don
        September 29, 2018 at 9:58 pm

        Care to elaborate on the part where it doesn’t stand scrutiny? I personally can’t see anything other than one person dying early for you to be lonely in a marriage. Isn’t that one of the last bastions of good for people who argue for marriage. Please explain?

      • Hmic
        November 2, 2018 at 5:13 pm

        Chekhov wrote: avoid marriage, if you can’t stand loneness.

  13. September 29, 2018 at 4:39 pm

    …”force her male child to grow up as a tyranny…

    Uhm, where is THIS going on? Don’t you mean force her FEMALE child to grow up as a tyranny (bully) and get away with acting like a bitch or a bully in public and get away with it because she’s a female? Not to attack single mothers as a whole, but in the black community, it’s the opposite. They teach their sons the importance of “education, Church, morals” and teaching them how to cater a woman. Because they (and female teachers in public schools) tell these punk bastards to be the kind of men who they want their daughters to date or marry… Guys who they wouldn’t have given any respect or pussy in the first place!

  14. Orson
    November 15, 2018 at 9:36 am

    “And let us not kid ourselves.. whatever is left of MRA-ism, conventional MGTOW-ism, most ‘game’ and ‘seduction’ communities is a big fucking joke as are the pathetic attempts to restore masculinity by alt-right idiots. Pretty much every supposedly “masculine” community is filled with captain save-a-hoes, delusional incels, shlubby white guys who end with Asian chicks, “reformed” players and other virtue pimps- not to mention all those greedy losers who want to sell you everything from bitcoin schemes, dietary supplements, books on positive thing and “perseverance porn”. In other words, there is not much real help from conventional sources for the average guy who wants to have sex with at least semi-attractive girl who can get him consistently hard.”

    This was funny…a bit like rounding all the men in the manosphere facing towards a wall before machine gunning them. lol

  15. Kevin5902
    February 12, 2019 at 7:08 am

    What do you think of the legal situation in Canada or US these days?

    Canada has not changed much (in real life) and number of women in profession has gone up. USA has gotten worse and will likely become even more so- which is what should happen to a bunch of delusional and puritan losers living in a dying empire.

    • Kevin5902
      February 12, 2019 at 9:09 am

      Yes I was reading about the US, not looking good. Realistically, how risky are things in large cities in Canada these days? The problem is that it is hard to know when things can change.

      Stick to agencies and indies with a good and long line of reasonable reviews across multiple boards, and you should be fine. Same as in almost every other developed country.

      • Kevin5902
        February 12, 2019 at 10:00 am

        The agencies are probably best, but there is still some risk. There was a large agency in Canada shut down in 2015, however only the owners were charged. I feel that any agency and their clients could easily be targeted. (Consequences for future employment are very high..) Its still hard to feel confident about it. Should talking and setting appointments be in a particular way?

      • Don
        February 12, 2019 at 9:52 pm

        Why won’t you consider traveling?

      • Kevin5902
        February 13, 2019 at 7:32 am

        Various reasons (to not do it continuously), including the cost of flying (which makes the advantage of traveling to cheaper countries null), time of travel arrive tired from flight), limited vacation days (0-10 usually) per year so very little time – let alone regularly. It just doesn’t provide enough regularity.

      • Don
        February 15, 2019 at 1:46 am

        I don’t see the point in what you said. You can in fact travel for continues sexual escapades. Cost of flying is way cheaper than a cost of a single escort.

        It doesn’t make the advantage of traveling to other countries null as you won’t get arrested.

        If you get tired to have sex after a flight, you have stamina problems beyond escorts and you should look into that. Sex is a great motivator and the tiredness goes away quickly.

        The point of limited vacation time is nonsense as well as there is a country with legalized escorting near every country with the same being criminalized.

        If you are in the US, the Dominican Republic may be a great option. But I am not sure. You seem strange in your approach to this.

      • Kevin5902
        February 15, 2019 at 2:24 am

        Well, you can’t travel like that every week or even every month. However, using them in your own country, it is possible to use them any time you want (without arranging a vacation many days apart).

      • Don
        February 15, 2019 at 3:58 am

        If you are that poor, it’s hard to justify using escorts at all within or outside your own country. By the way, it is better to have few days in the Dominican Republic every now and then than to get arrested in your own country.

  16. P Ray
    October 23, 2019 at 6:28 pm

    Nowadays escorts use Tinder as a deniable source of income.

    From what I read, very similar to regular women, they say things like “Don’t message me if you don’t have money” and “If you send me a dick pic I will hurt you” and “No games”.

    Men should be aware that Tinder is a ponzi scheme, and women gain the most from it while leaving most guys with blue balls … remember, women will fuck the guy they like very quickly, only the guys they extract money from are told “I’m a classy lady and won’t do that”:

    Journalists from the French newspaper Le Monde performed a dating experiment on Tinder using an average looking man and woman, finding that the average match rate for women was 50% and for men only 2%. Thus women in this experiment had a 25x greater match rate than men.

    This provides evidence for women generally being far more sexually selective than men, and shows that most men are never given consideration. However, they also raise the important point that Tinder manipulates male profile visibility such that the only ways a man’s profile is shown to women at all is if many other women also like that man (i.e. proving he is very attractive) or the man is paying for Boosts or other monetized solutions. They even go so far as to suggest Tinder is intentionally targeting men who can most easily pay for these services to maximize their frustration and thus revenue potential from them.

    On the world’s number one dating app, the average match rate in the quest for a heterosexual relationship is 50% for a woman, and that of a man of… 2%.
    “Tinder is working with video game specialists to learn how to activate the frustration mechanisms in men’s brains. When they have identified a profile that can pay—a certain level of income, a certain level of education, etc.—they put it in a category where its profile appears less. Once he buys the option, his profile is, depending on his level of attractiveness, either shown normally or shown much more,” explains Jean Meyer, CEO of the Once app, which Match—Tinder’s parent company—tried to swallow.
    “Yes, that’s how it works!” confirms a former employee of a dating app who wishes to remain anonymous to the two investigators. There are more men on the app, and the majority of them are simply not shown to users.

    The HuffPost. 2019. On Tinder, women are 25 times more likely to match than men. Huffington Post.

    Carman A. 2019. Tinder explains how its algorithm works. The Verge.

  17. P Ray
    December 22, 2020 at 6:57 am

    But also remember: The escort doesn’t want to be reminded she’s an escort, and wants to trick you into becoming her “boyfriend” (who pays for everything, while she fucks someone else), e.g.:

    I’m make no secret that I’m an escortcell in a shitty third word country. I have experience two time already escorts trying to cuck me to give them more money, curious how every time is a single mother.

    WTF those bitches are sneaky, my theory is that they can see I am a fucking incel and think I am an easy prey, they always follow the exact pattern

    1. ask me if I have a gf, as a idiot I always tell the truth and I tell them that never have a gf

    2. they try to elevate my ego, faking surprise

    3. Then they try to paint themselves as victims, how they irresponsible BF left them also how they are basically forced in prostitution by the economic situation

    4. And finally they make a pitch of how they would be excellent gf and I should date them :feelskek::feelskek::feelskek::feelskek::feelskek:

    This enraged me
    First I am not a fucking cuck, never gonna date a fucking prostitute, second THEY ARE FUCKING SINGLE MOTHERS., third Chad always fuck them for FREE and RAW and YOUNG, they never think of the “economy” when Chad is fucking them

    I am a fucking incel not a cuck but I am too high inhib to tell this to their faces and I don’t like to be cruel but I hate when they try to do this

    The correct reply to her “generous” offer is:
    And finally they make a pitch of how they would be excellent gf and I should date them
    You should reply with “i can think about it after some free trial sessions 😉

    Remember, women are unpaid whores for Chad.

    Don’t keep her wallet full, while she is not emptying your balls.

  18. P Ray
    February 18, 2021 at 8:46 pm

    Speaking about another facet of “Why Escorts are Always a Better Deal than Relationships or Marriage”

    The girl you are wining and dining and not fucking … is being fucked by the guy who is not wining and dining her … while laughing at you.

    This is the “classical Three-body problem” … where there is Mr. Bux, The Woman, and Mr. Fux.

    Just like men, women have emotional and physical needs.

    They would like the same guy to satisfy both … but if the guy they’re attracted to is not willing to satisfy her emotional needs, they don’t mind victimising another guy to satisfy her emotional needs.

    So here is how it goes:

    1)a woman with an attractive man who won’t simp towards her, feels dejected …

    2)puts up a profile on Tinder or PoF … the magic words are of course “No hookups!” “Want a traditional relationship” “Not interested in one night stands”

    3)a suitable simp replies, and she arranges their “Foodie Call”

    4)she has a good night out, putting some food into her mouth, then leaves the simp, and puts Mr. Fux into her mouth.

    So she got fed, Mr. Fux got sex, Mr. Bux got cheated.

    That’s why a relationship that is not physical within the first date – and remember, women date around so get plenty of subsidies from men – is usually a con job.

    Women can talk about how “men must trust me” … but when there is so much resistance to revealing her dating history, don’t want to go for virginity tests, demands a certain level of height, education, ethnicity and income … well

    The reply from Shakespeare in the modern day, says it: “I think that ho protests too much.”

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