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Why Escorts are Always a Better Deal than Relationships or Marriage: 4

In the previous post of this series, I mentioned that my escort use increased a lot after starting at a new job near a large cosmopolitan city. FYI, this was not my original plan and I would have preferred something approaching normie relationships. However it quickly became obvious to me that all the ‘unpaid’ chicks I could get were.. to put it mildly.. lacking in the looks department in addition to displaying an attitude derived from their racist mindset. My point is that just because you end up fucking a chick on a regular basis does not mean she is not racist. I am also aware that some of you might see this as an example of me being too demanding.

So why care about a moderately racist mindset in some girl you are regularly banging? And aren’t most escorts also a bit racist? Let me tackle the later issue first. See.. an escort showing a racist worldview is problematic only if her beliefs negatively affects the services she provides. As long as the quality and range of services provided are identical irrespective of race and ethnicity of client, her beliefs are largely irrelevant. This is analogous to a moderately anti-semitic waitress having to regularly serve groups of Jewish customers. As long as she does her job well, keeps her fat mouth shut and fake-smiles often, nobody gives a fuck.

In other words, escorts displaying ambient levels of racism are not as problematic as ‘unpaid’ chicks with a similarly racist mindset. But why is that so, and what makes ‘unpaid’ chicks having a racist mindset problematic in the first place? Well.. it comes down to racism being just one manifestation of a far deeper problem known as systemic ‘magical thinking‘. To be fair, the problem lies not so much with magical thinking as it does with not recognizing it as such. We all engage in some level of magical thinking on a daily basis, but most of the time we recognize and treat it that way. Let me explain this concept with a couple of relatable examples.

Over the years I have purchased a few lottery tickets, even though I was always aware that my chances of winning a large prize or the jackpot were infinitesimally small. Similarly, there have been times when I used to frequently check newspaper horoscopes- even though I didn’t believe in astrology. Without going into much detail, I did both things during a couple of periods in my life when things did not look particularly positive. One might ask.. what is the real difference between a person who buys lottery tickets once in a while and woman with a racist mindset, if both are examples of magical thinking?

In my opinion, it comes down to self-awareness. While I used to buy lottery tickets and check horoscopes, it never occurred to me to build my life around winning a jackpot or some newspaper horoscope coming true. As far as I was concerned, both were nothing more than entertainment. Now contrast this with how a racist mindset distorts a woman’s grasp on reality. As I mentioned in an older post, a number of very average and mediocre women who rejected me have had sex with some real ‘winners’ in the past. Have you wondered how all those average, mediocre and below-average chicks were able to justify their life choices and decisions?

It comes down to one variant of magical thinking aka racism. You see.. they believed that despite their utter mediocrity and general patheticness, they were somehow intrinsically “better” than and or “superior” to non-whites. Furthermore, this belief cannot be changed since it part of their self-identity and they will keep believing in it till their death. While it is possible to find individuals who are less fucked up in the head, they are the minority. But why is this such a problem for having anything approaching a normie relationship. Well.. it comes down to them deluding themselves into believing that they have leverage over you when they do not have any.

I have seen tons of women with no career prospects, no independent source of money, extremely mediocre looks and making barely enough to keep a roof over their heads behave as if they were destined for greatness. Then there are younger chicks with almost minimum wage jobs who firmly believe that their dream guy is right around the corner. Even those whom I “helped” in exchange for services many years ago never stopped believing that they were somehow destined for greatness or at least an upper-middle class lifestyle. More problematically, this does not change even after hitting ‘the wall’. If anything, their solipsism goes into overdrive.

But it gets worse.. if that is possible. Even the ones you end up fucking never stop believing that they deserve better, regardless of how pathetic and mediocre they really are. And we have not even touched the issue of how the high rate of rejection from utterly mediocre chicks alters your own perception of them. To make a long story short, you stop seeing them as even sub-human, let alone human. Now combine this with the fact that they are average to below-average in looks and mediocre (at best) in bed. And let me be clear about one thing.. I did not arrive at this conclusion based on a few isolated incidents or a small sample size.

In the next part of this series, I will tell you about how specific experiences during the 2005-2009 timespan finally made me decide to choose the escort-only path.

What do you think? Comments?

  1. November 4, 2018 at 12:05 pm

    “I have seen tons of women with no career prospects, no independent source of money, extremely mediocre looks and making barely enough to keep a roof over their heads behave as if they were destined for greatness.”

    This should be on the billboards of every Western country on earth LOL

  2. P Ray
    November 4, 2018 at 12:10 pm

    I have seen tons of women with no career prospects, no independent source of money, extremely mediocre looks and making barely enough to keep a roof over their heads behave as if they were destined for greatness. Then there are younger chicks with almost minimum wage jobs who firmly believe that their dream guy is right around the corner. Even those I “helped” in exchange for services many years ago never stopped believing that they were destined for greatness or at least an upper-middle class lifestyle. But perhaps more problematically, this delusional belief does not change even after hitting ‘the wall’. If anything, their solipsism goes into overdrive.

    Actually, a lot of these women with solipsism going into overdrive, seem in public to be all that, are super-willing to say “fuck you” to a guy if he just brushes past them, and loudly proclaim “women are the ones who are the only victims of domestic violence, if you don’t agree show me your stats, and the only valid stats are my feminist-sourced stats” …
    consume a lot of pills that then get peed out into the water and then gives men estrogen poisoning + turns fish transgender. That’s why you always boil your water.

    It’s the attitude of thinking men have to compensate them, which is usually a result of getting pumped and dumped by a Chad, that turns these women into shrews. Will write more later.

  3. November 4, 2018 at 12:51 pm

    What exactly did they say to you that was racist? Did they say it before or after you blew a load in the vags?

    The general attitude + specific stuff they said. Most before, a few after.

  4. Indian Fraud
    November 4, 2018 at 2:31 pm

    Folks, don’t buy into this crock of shit. If the OP, who’s really a Beta Indian dude with a low Sexual Market Value, found women “racist”, then why not settle for a woman his own race? The truth of the matter is the OP has an obsession with White women, and that too with high SMV ones than his SMV. They are obviously not attracted to him, so he blames racism.

    This is the same idiot who actually believed Kavanaugh committed rapes of women because he was a White frat boy douche. The latest news is that 2/3 women who accused Kavanaugh of rape have retracted their stories and admitted they made all of it up. But the OP was the one writing articles on here hating on Kavanaugh. The OP hates white men, hates his own Indian people, but at the same time, wished he was white and had access to white women easily. You’re just a fraud mate!

    Sad! LOL

    • P Ray
      November 4, 2018 at 3:39 pm

      Do you have the same words for black men who want white women,
      or white men who want asian women?

      Otherwise it’s just an example of “I want to say other men are excluded from the choices I have, because I am “superior”” … which makes you a racist …

      • Khoshan
        November 5, 2018 at 2:19 pm

        Black men who have scored White women don’t scream racism. You and I know both that the Black men we see with White women, their white chick truly desires them and will do anything for them. They will even have his baby. What the OP is doing on the other hand is trying to find an excuse of why chicks don’t want him, and blames racism for it. I don’t care what race you date. If you’re a beta schlub with a low SMV, it doesn’t matter about race – you’re just not attractive to women. Don’t blame racism for that. And if you want to see the blatant racism of the OP, just type in “Indian” on the search bar here and see how much crap he talks about his own people. I mean, he has a dedicated blog post recently about the the whole Jain BS and recently commented on the Apu thing from The Simpsons. The OP hates the fact that he was born Indian plain and simple. I’ve met his types before.

      • Khoshan
        November 5, 2018 at 2:34 pm

        Here’s an interesting observation: ever notice why the OP never reveals what his race is? He talks a lot about him being a “colored” man, and talks about women being racist against him, so why does he not mention what race he is? I mean, that would provide us with some context to understand his articles. But he never does. It’s pretty easy to deduce he’s Indian:
        1) He’s educated in the UK. Indians are the 2nd most populous race in the UK.
        2) He talks a lot about the whole Indian caste system. Like, a lot.
        3) If you do a search for “Indian” on the search bar here, he has countless articles bashing Indian folks and why he doesn’t like hanging out with other Indians. It’s a typical behavior I’ve seen before of other Indians. They hate their own kind, and want to be more like “white”.
        4) He can’t attract regular women and has to pay for them.
        5) He hates elite White men. I mean, look at the series of articles he did on the Kavanaugh debacle. The OP has a backlink to the Rational Male on his blog, but yet seemed to support all the SJW feminist harpies into believing that Kavanaugh was a serial rapist in high school/college.

      • P Ray
        November 5, 2018 at 3:33 pm

        Context to understand articles based on race means that there is a definitive experience based on race, which means you can generalise how people will get treated based on race … so you’re saying he’s right and the West is racist? All the more reason why these “promoters of democracy” need to have their agendas exposed.
        1) based on what I read, nope, you’re wrong
        2) people who have varied interests – shocker – write on varied things
        3) he bashes folks who ingratiate themselves towards those who will never reciprocate … in other words, those with no self-dignity
        4) only the top 10% of men can attract attractive women. Because women from the West always expect someone else to subsidise their lifestyle, their mercenary nature is quite evident
        5) you do know you can “rape without violence” right? That’s why there’s alcohol … a connected guy can invite a girl, take full advantage of her awe of him, and do the nasty. On the flip side, if women didn’t want those type of interactions, they could always leave. Remember, Weinstein only got accused much later, if he was such a problem, why did it take so long for his removal? Because he was making money for people.

    • November 4, 2018 at 3:50 pm

      The OP bangs a variety of escort women of different races (black, latina, east european, white). So your thesis is bullshit. Kavanaugh didn’t violently rape but he probably forced chicks to do some frat boy shit.

      Scientific Fact: White American frat boys do crazy like stick a carrot up your ass or force recruits to rim them if they wanna join the fraternity or force chicks to suck 20 guys dicks in one night. I’ve been to those “parties” myself.
      P.S. The only way to get a long term relationship with an Indian woman is an retarded arranged marriage. And the OP is too American to get involved with that backwards shit.

      • P Ray
        November 4, 2018 at 8:00 pm

        Repost:
        Somewhat related recent discussion on reddit:
        [–]vvvnew 1 point 56 minutes ago
        Ok let me break it down for you why some Indian men dont want indian women


        1.Too hairy : Indian women are pretty hairy. Some of them have more facial hair than me; big turnoff
        2.Most Indian women are unfit or blow up post wall. This is not me nitpicking, this is the general trend. Very few are able to keep their weights under control
        3.Most Indian women (even the ugly ones) are entitled and act like princesses.
        4.Indian women look horrible without makeup. This is generally true for asian women.
        5.They are gold diggers.
        6.As far as currywhores who grew up in the west, they are the most self-hating racist cunts on the planet. They will do anything to appeal to white men.

      • Gp
        November 5, 2018 at 1:51 am

        Lol. Ray, share the link to that Reddit post

      • P Ray
        November 5, 2018 at 4:08 am

        old.reddit.com/r/Braincels/comments/9g6g2h/alt_right_cels_want_to_murder_this_curry_so_bad/
        “Alt Right Cels want to murder this curry so bad.”


        I’m a great fan of miscegenation, hope to carry it off someday (UK PR will definitely help in that regard)

      • Khoshan
        November 5, 2018 at 2:14 pm

        “The OP is too American”. The OP is an Indian educated in the UK. If he was “too American”, he wouldn’t be crying “oh look, they are racist since they don’t want me”. One has to look into more who the OP is, what does he look like, and where he ranks on the SMV scale. Any beta low SMV schlub can bang a perfect 10 escort. The OP is obviously sexually frustrated that he can’t score a Western gal (due to his low SMV and physical attributes), but blames racism as the main cause. Cry me a river.

      • Khoshan
        November 5, 2018 at 2:22 pm

        It doesn’t matter what race the OP bangs – after all, he’s the one crying “they’re all racist to me”. So your thesis fails automatically Sherlock. The question to ask is what the OP looks like, what’s his SMV value, and is he the type to make serious women wet for him. Otherwise, looking like the doofus Raj from the Big Bang Theory, and then complaining that women don’t come to him because they’re racist fails this whole thesis on its own.
        Your jumping to conclusions about Kavanaugh pretty much sums it all up.

      • Shiningtime
        November 5, 2018 at 3:49 pm

        Indians and Pakistani don’t have to be beta dad bod schlubs as so many are. I worked with a Pakistani guy who was a legit player. He dressed well, and lifted. You have to put in the work. So many guys are full of so much negativity and defeatism. If you want the best high quality girls, you have elevate yourself. Period.

      • GeorgeT
        November 9, 2018 at 7:43 pm

        I am a white male, Russian herritage living in Sydney, Australia and I agree with OP 100%. Being a 6’1″ white male with home gym (emphasis added) education and resources, I would be the first one to tell you that, to quote OP – ‘Marriage/girlfriend’ paradigm has devolved into a Secular Religion. I never had trouble attracting white women since I was in primary school, yet for the last 10 years (in my 40’s now) I had taken the escort route big time. My resources afford me to hire international escirts on a weekly arrangement – an actual girlfriend experience. Thai escots are by far the best, as well as South American girls. As a White man of high status I am the first to point out the toxic stench of their entitled, feminazi philosophy (in part manipulation by the Rockefeller funded NWO think tanks) that has ravaged once more or less civilized, down to earth male-female interaction. In the dating world white women have become toxic by all measures of basic standards of civilized society. Feminazi mindset has accentuated natural female predilection for entitlement (steeped in biology – women must mate with top 10% men) by which they had descarded any effort on their part to self improvement. Post wall crisis is a sight to see here in Sydney. I can only label the whole darting pool of 35 – 50 females as Mental Asylum run amok. Just browse dating apps and feast your eyes on the post wall, wrinkled, shrivelled up hags with princess syndromes stocking up on cat food (for emphasis) As Henry Makow said, feminism was the most evils social experiment ever imposed on unwitting participants of 50% of global population. OP’s essays on escorts are a self evident antidote to this malign disease called feminism. As for me, I am having a ball.
        PS Must read OP essay on Why Escorts are Better Deal Than Real Women part, 3 especially where he takes dowb PUI culture a peg or two.

  5. Shiningtime
    November 5, 2018 at 4:39 am

    The mating game is a numbers game. Most guys don’t have what it takes to go out, and grind through the rejections. That’s why most guys settle down with the first decent female they are compatible with.

    Unless you are famous or wealthy, you’re going to have to work to bang quality women. That’s the reality…. white black or other. Also know your target. White women have that superiority mindset so it may be good to switch up and go after a different kind of woman every now and then. And yes, even utterly mediocre white women have been told they are God’s gift to earth

    Happy hunting.

    • P Ray
      November 5, 2018 at 6:31 am

      Most guys don’t have what it takes to go out, and grind through the rejections.

      Lel, it’s not just that, the longer you spend circulating as a male, the higher your chances of having a violent confrontation with another guy or girl who thinks you’re driving outside your lane. Or even getting the age-old insult “creepy” hurled against you.
      Get outta here with your “you only need confidence” spiel.

      • Shiningtime
        November 5, 2018 at 9:14 am

        The word ‘confidence’ does not appear in my comment. I said it’s a numbers game, meaning it will take work.

      • P Ray
        November 5, 2018 at 11:42 am

        You either need a lot of confidence, to go from rejection to rejection,
        or you are training yourself for psychopathy as you become outcome-independent.
        P.S. Is it “true love” if it keeps happening so many times in your life?

      • P Ray
        June 26, 2019 at 5:09 am

        The word ‘confidence’ does not appear in my comment. I said it’s a numbers game, meaning it will take work.

        What happened to a very confident guy who … strayed outside his lane (and this is also another reason you don’t date a girl with previous partners … so this actually means you have to go young):
        https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7179455/Crazy-psycho-20-harassed-ex-days-murdered-18-year-old-new-lover.html
        ‘Crazy psycho’, 20, murdered love rival, 18, with the help of his mother, father and brother in horrific attack using baseball bats and fireman’s axe, court hears
        Jay Sewell, 18, was going out with Daniel Grogan’s ex-girlfriend Gemma Hodder
        Grogan, 20, and five members of his family accused of stabbing him to death
        They and three others ‘drove to see Mr Sewell in Lee, south London to kill him’
        All nine, including six members of Grogan family, denied murder at Old Bailey
        By ALEXANDER ROBERTSON FOR MAILONLINE
        PUBLISHED: 15:30 BST, 25 June 2019 | UPDATED: 17:00 BST, 25 June 2019

    • P Ray
      November 5, 2018 at 7:08 am

      • GeorgeT
        November 16, 2018 at 8:45 am

        They actually did experiments on women and the results were rather disturbing. Say you were to dress the handsome hunk in overolls with McDonald cap on and minimum wage next to his name, while dress the geek in expensive suit and put 8 figure income next to his name – guess who women chose 99% of the time?!!!!! Yup, the geek! Women are dishonest prostitutes.

      • P Ray
        November 16, 2018 at 9:32 am

        Ya, there was also another experiment where the results were:

        The women only wanted the taller guy, and would only consider the shorter guy “if the taller guy was discovered to be a pedophile”.

        The golden rule is:
        If she isn’t picking you when she’s at her most attractive, YOU ARE BEING SETTLED FOR.

        The slogan is: “If the kitten didn’t want me, I DON’T WANT THE CAT.”

    • November 6, 2018 at 4:44 am

      It is NOT a numbers game. It is NOT a formula and it is NOT a mathematical thing.

      I knew a English professor that was 5 foot nothing. He was bald. He was white. He had a weak chin. But every chick in his class was in love with him. Why?

      Because he was witty, funny and extremely charming. He was the Most Interesting Man in the World.

      He fucked roughly 50 to 150 young hot chicks every year. (I’m not exaggerating). Mostly students and ex-students and college age chicks. Over a lifetime, he banged over 3,000 women. He was never accused of sexual assault or rape. Now he’s retired.

      Charisma goes a loooonnnnnggggg way. Some guys have it. Many guys do not have it.

      • P Ray
        November 6, 2018 at 5:12 am

        Hugo Schwyzer also has that “brand” of charisma.
        It’s called having authority over your students …

        Your “long time ago had power” business – which most certainly happened YEARS if not DECADES ago, will not last long in this era of #MeToo … do show a more recent example

      • P Ray
        November 16, 2018 at 4:18 am

        tomjones:I knew a English professor that was 5 foot nothing. He was bald. He was white. He had a weak chin. But every chick in his class was in love with him. Why?
        Because he was witty, funny and extremely charming. He was the Most Interesting Man in the World.
        He fucked roughly 50 to 150 young hot chicks every year. (I’m not exaggerating). Mostly students and ex-students and college age chicks. Over a lifetime, he banged over 3,000 women. He was never accused of sexual assault or rape. Now he’s retired.

        Well, this just came up:

        By Anemona Hartocollis
        Nov. 15, 2018

        Seven women are suing Dartmouth College for sexual assault, harassment and discrimination that they say they experienced from three prominent professors who, according to the suit, turned a human behavior research department “into a 21st-century Animal House.”

        For over a decade, the professors — Todd Heatherton, William Kelley and Paul Whalen — “leered at, groped, sexted, intoxicated and even raped female students,” according to the court papers, which were filed Thursday in federal court in New Hampshire.

        I guess “having power over your students” gives you “charisma”, amirite?

    • GeorgeT
      November 9, 2018 at 7:56 pm

      It comes down to what a man can offord. If a man can offord $3000 to $10 000 / a week (cheaper than divorce) he can have access to international escorts (Eastern Europe, South East Asia – best) – hire by weekly and thus create an actual GF experience. If he cannot afford it he has to settle for less and by less I mean participating in Secular Religion (words of OP) known as ‘dating’ + girlfriend/wife paradigm. As OP so wisely pointed out, evolution is driven by number of possibilities as opposed to some intrinsic design. At one point in time we had to hunt for food, now we go to supermarkets (hardly an alpha behaviour), we simply exend it to sex.

      • P Ray
        November 16, 2018 at 4:26 am

        Not quite … at a supermarket the prices are fixed.
        When it comes to sex, most men hunt for it, and others are given it for free

  6. Conscience Constituent
    November 5, 2018 at 4:17 pm

    You mentioned indian women blowing up when they hit the wall,well the women that look the worst after the wall and whose looks degrade the fastest are definitely russian and slavic women.

    Also coming from Italy i can attest that women of italian descent get fat pretty early in life even if they never got pregnant.

    • P Ray
      November 5, 2018 at 4:22 pm

      I think the important thing over-riding “blowing up when they hit the wall” – regardless of ethnicity …
      is whether the women are not spared reality and get told their time in the sun has an expiry date.

      The recent decriminalisation of domestic violence in Russia is quite heartening, especially since both women and men do things that deserve smackings … but women get away with more of it because neoteny.

    • GeorgeT
      November 9, 2018 at 7:59 pm

      You haven’t seen Australian women. Australian sun is a killer!!!! They hit the wall at 28. It’s bad!

      • P Ray
        November 9, 2018 at 11:00 pm

        New Zealand and Australian women regularly exchange the title of most promiscuous women in the world.

        Of course, there’s a caveat to that: Most promiscuous for Chad Thundercock. I figure it’s the endless WINZ or Centrelink (or EBT… depending on where in the world you are) plus free food and drink from men that allow women in the West to carry their entitled attitude very far into adulthood.

        Of course the immediate reaction to that is: “You want women in bondage to men” … nope, I want women in bondage to a SINGLE MAN. Plus a woman who knows she’s up shit creek if the guy she’s with ends up in difficulty, is one who usually helps and supports her partner.

        Funnily enough, the guys who get that type of loyalty … are precisely the kind of guys that she/they claims to loathe. As someone put it about the Borderline Bar:
        [–]144iqcel 18 points 15 hours ago
        A “dance club”, judging from photos, you got a buncha thots in skimpy clothing trying to jump on Chad’s dick.
        Ladies vote with their twats what kind of future they want.
        This is the future they voted for. It’s only going to get worse.
        permalinksavereportreply
        [–]df6s4af6 8 points 13 hours ago
        They can’t complain about being called sluts if they behave as sluts. They can’t complain about toxic masculinity when they only reward the most toxic of males.

    • GeorgeT
      November 16, 2018 at 8:49 am

      Russian Women age best. They really look after themselves. Always imaculately groomed even when going out for groceries. They are something.

      • P Ray
        November 16, 2018 at 9:30 am

        I suspect the beatings that they hear other women get … with little chance of conviction …
        make them want to stay in shape … so they can get the guy that won’t practice boxing with them.
        It seems female misery creates women that are easy to be around and look their best, whodathunk?

  7. Neo
    November 6, 2018 at 12:08 am

    All women pick up the attitude that they deserve the best from men as they grow up. I watched my sisters learn this. I watched my daughters be taught this by their mother – literally.. I see my granddaughter picking this up as she grows.

    My son quickly ran away from a girl who let it slip that she had plans for him that involved her getting married, and then he was going to support her all her life. She was desperate to get out from under her mother, and he was the key to that escape. There was no other alternative in her life plan. He broke up with her rather than get caught like that. He must have learned something watching my sorry experiences.

    We men fail our sons when we don’t educate them as to these attitudes all women have no matter their genuine worth. We are conditioned to only see the exterior package, which is how some guys score their prowess. Some guys manage to learn how to make the panties drop – at least until one of them shows up with a pregnancy test and a paternity suit. Few guys know how to rate women for things which really matter if you expect to have a real relationship where you don’t give up everything and get nothing in return. You can’t marry them and put the law on their side and have an equal balance.

    My wife doesn’t cook, clean, or do laundry. I put her through grad school only for her to find a part-time job. If I was to grade her sexual abilities, i’d have to be feeling generous for her to earn a D-. I even have a short list of topics I’m allowed to raise should I deign to converse with her. I bring home 80% of the income, yet she gets to spend it. She must be entertained at all times, eat out often, and have her every whim catered.

    For all of the money she’s cost me over the years, I could have had a very good time once a month minimum with an escort, and maybe even come out ahead economically in the long run. It’s better than watching her get more excited when I bring home extra than she would ever get if I offered her a great time in bed. To steal one of Randy Newman’s hit song titles, It’s Money That Matters. It is thus with all American women regardless of ethnicity or race. I have no experience with women from other continents, so I will allow others to comment on them.

    So I conclude with this: once she starts hinting for a ring, it’s time to move along and do without women for a while until you can again think clearly. And don’t look back.

    • NoWhiteKnight
      November 9, 2018 at 12:54 pm

      This rings true for me. You said it went for all American women, regardless of ethnicity or race; this suggests, and I would agree, that it’s an innate trait of all women. The American culture, and law, and man, just enables it. Or worse, we encourage it.
      When the deal is so bad that you can’t get or keep what you want, you have to walk or away. Or better yet, go MGTOW.

  8. Salty Nutz
    November 6, 2018 at 5:50 am

    OP is Asian, if you really want to know.

    • P Ray
      November 14, 2018 at 4:03 am

      If you really want to know the vast majorities of populations that happen to have lots of single men – who coincidentally are the ones making up the militaries of the world – that outnumber combatants in the West, plus they also have nukes … happen to be Asian.
      It won’t take much for a nuclear war to knock out a developed country versus a developing country (developed country has a more efficient, thus more vulnerable infrastructure) … so your choices for the future are either:
      1. accept getting steamrolled by Asians (especially male ones, who are slowly refusing to play second fiddle to underqualified Westerners) or
      2. start a nuclear war to show “muh authority”.

      Really, it’s your move … but you can’t control the consequences.

  9. November 10, 2018 at 3:31 pm

    AD, I don’t get you at all. If you said you were undesirable but prostitutes were a way you could enjoy you fantasies and you decided to accept that is just how the world is and go with it, that would be one thing. But, you demonize someone like Harvey Weinstein and say how your way is “more ethical.” It seems to me that you should respect Weinstein as a guy who was ugly but manipulated the system to get what he wanted. And that the womyn he “vicitmized” would look at you as absolute trash, so why not laugh at their “degredation” and be happy an ugly dude got some if not a dude from your race? Then you give lazy women who don’t want a 9-to-5 (“sex workers”) large sums of cash and say that their racism doesn’t matter much just like a waitresses racism doesn’t matter much because you are of to the next one…

    The fact that you are so obviously hard selling your ideology on prostitution makes me think you aren’t fully sold yourself. It seems like you really, really, really want some fast approaching 30 and slightly overweight white woman to “give you a chance” and “accept you as you are.” This comes from your finger wagging at people who you think are morally beneath you and the fact you seem to think prostitution is an ethical choice. I personally am neither here nor there. I would support legalization of prostitution if it meant legalization of drugs also. But, as I said to a coworker when he mentioned going to strip clubs, “Fuck that shit. And not because I respect women or some shit. It is because I respect money and don’t like working. If they played good shit like Anthrax and Pantera AND the the broads gave me cash, I’d hang out there all day and all night. But giving some broad cash for nothing, that’s a scam.”

    So, yeah, I thought a guy like you would think Harvey Weinstein and the like were G’s. But your constant whining about them makes me think you just want to impress white chicks. Because it is white chicks who claim they are “monsters.”

    • P Ray
      November 10, 2018 at 7:37 pm

      “Fuck that shit. And not because I respect women or some shit. It is because I respect money and don’t like working. If they played good shit like Anthrax and Pantera AND the the broads gave me cash, I’d hang out there all day and all night. But giving some broad cash for nothing, that’s a scam.”

      No money unless there is honey. Women like the sugar daddy, except when it’s time to give up that sugar

      Also consider another way of thinking:
      “I’ve excelled in my career so that I can afford to purchase sex from the most beautiful escorts in all parts world. It has been the most liberating experience of my life. I can now live my life with peace and happiness knowing that I too can be as shallow as women without any guilt.”

      Another person:
      “I think sex work should be legalized and normalized so that men who don’t measure up to women’s requirements can also obtain sex and intimacy.
      You see a woman can be obese, a midget, broke, basement dwelling loser and still attract a lot of men. Us men have to excel in every aspect to stand a chance.
      When I started hiring sex workers at 25 it was the most liberating experience for me. It was a huge ego boost. It felt like I was sticking a big middle finger in the face of all the standards and requirements that women hold us against.”

      And
      “Very good answer! Couldn’t have said it better myself!
      I would highly advise you to be as picky as possible. Get exactly who you pay for and never ever settle for anyone less. Not when choosing an escort that’s for sure. More women, young and middle-aged, with less than stellar looks are getting into the hooker trade. It makes more sense for these not-so-attractive ladies to dive right into the sex trade business if they want some action. Tall guys don’t want them and settling down with a short guy is a no-no. Her solution? Sacrifice her ego and pride while taking a job getting paid to have sex with the guys that society deems inferior. Trust me, she has no problems taking money from the short guy as long as he’s not courting her for a real relationship. At the same time, she has no problems spreading her legs for free if the guy is tall and good looking. Heck, she’ll take her price tag down, close shop and pose normally if there’s the possibility of a legitimate date with the tall guy. She might even pay for the date herself.
      The good-looking girls who are escorts are high quality, high caliber, high society hookers. You won’t get remotely close to those kind unless you shell out serious dollars. A lot of them have a high price tag just for the most minimal of services to begin with. Some won’t even take your money if you don’t physically appeal to them. Yes, heightism is alive and well, even in the sex trade business.
      You do make a very good point. There’s no reason to feel guilty or shallow about paying for a service if it means you’re getting exactly what you want with your money.
      Remember, getting paid to have sex that sometimes includes a free dinner, free drinks with free hotel fees is a ridiculously easy job for women.”

  10. Neo
    November 13, 2018 at 6:12 am

    If guys ever stopped to examine just how much time, effort, and money they put out to get very little of value in return from women, would they stop chasing them? Or would their lower head continue to rule and keep them from seeing that renting women is a much better prospect than is buying?

    • November 13, 2018 at 10:50 am

      The problem is that Christianity persists as a Secular Religion. Think about it.
      In the 19th century, Christians became missionaries and they traveled to Africa. Today’s young people act as missionaries when they work for non-governmental organizations in Africa (Save the Children, Unicef, Amnesty). Basically, they repeat the activities of the ancestors.

      Nothing has changed.

      Same with how men view women (buying versus renting). Most guys still think in terms of you grow up, you get married, you have a kid etc.

      And that’s why guys still buy women. They don’t rent because they still obey the Secular Religion.

      People are fucking sheep. They follow the herd.

  11. November 19, 2018 at 12:05 am

    I doubt you are dating racist women, the contempt that women show you is not due to race, it is natural female contempt that women have for men.

    Women consider themselves higher status than men, because they are.

    • GeorgeT
      November 19, 2018 at 4:13 am

      Only when they are very young and very pretty!

      • November 19, 2018 at 4:21 am

        nope, women have contempt for men no matter their age, or how good looking they are.

        Married women work extra hours, married women work less.

        Figure out what is going on.

      • GeorgeT
        November 21, 2018 at 5:14 am

        ‘It’s a man’s world and women own part of it when they are young and pretty’ it was a quote from Gino – character from Jackie Sussan’s Valley of The Dolls. No one knows better than Jackie. And this is coming from a woman. Feminism has pushed to the surface the worst of female nature, and as a result it has met with a backclash from MGTOW. Two can play at the game. Contempt that women have for men pales in comparison to the contempt men (like me) have for women. It’s straight out of the pages of American Psycho (without the gore of course) Just to give you an example, these days (when I am not in the sack with international escorts) I browse dating apps, perousing through females (35 to 50) for my sheer personal amusement – rating these washed up over the wall matrons who are delusional enough to even think that they can get a quality men under 70!!!! Yup 70, for a successful 60+ year old men is too buisy banging 19 year old hotties in Thailand. It all comes down to what is attainable. For men 40+ with money it’s sex with hotties – no problem, for women 40+ relationship with hot young studs – only in their dreams. Women can only thank feminism for bringing out the worst in women and to a larger extent worse in men – men like me.

        Don’t waste your time arguing with a guy who is a feminist in all but name.

      • November 21, 2018 at 5:20 am

        ” rating these washed up over the wall matrons who are delusional enough to even think that they can get a quality men under 70!!!! ”

        Except they can.

        I am not sure which alternate reality you live in.. but have fun living in it.

        “Yup 70, for a successful 60+ year old men is too buisy banging 19 year old hotties in Thailand. It all comes down to what is attainable. For men 40+ with money it’s sex with hotties – no problem, for women 40+ relationship with hot young studs – only in their dreams. Women can only thank feminism for bringing out the worst in women and to a larger extent worse in men – men like me.”

        except they are not. Countless rich men settle for one long term partner. Most men do not want to go aboard and fuck whores, the vast majority of men never pay sex, even in countries where it is legal.

        You are strong man posturing

      • GeorgeT
        November 22, 2018 at 6:44 am

        Never pay for sex??? What planet are you living on? Any idea what revenue divorce courts rake in? Honestly?!
        Or how how about child support (even if it the child is not his!!!!!!!) Alimony?!
        Or how about a false rape accusation thrown in for good measure?

      • P Ray
        November 22, 2018 at 4:16 am

        ” rating these washed up over the wall matrons who are delusional enough to even think that they can get a quality men under 70!!!! ”
        Except they can.

        Lol keep dreaming. Older women are just getting ploughed by young men with their eyes on her money or to get their dicks wet.

        https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-6417829/British-woman-60-spent-90-000-life-savings-Sri-Lankan-toyboy-returns-UK.html
        ‘I thought he loved me… but he didn’t’: British woman, 60, who spent her £90,000 life savings on Sri Lankan toyboy says ‘I feel stupid’ as she returns to UK thousands of pounds in debt
        British woman, 60, who spent her £90,000 life savings on Sri Lankan toyboy returns to UK
        NEW Diane De Zoysa, 60, has returned to the UK (pictured left at Edinburgh Airport) after she spent her entire £90,000 life savings on her husband Priyanjana De Zoysa, 26, in Sri Lanka. She now admits he ‘obviously didn’t love her’ (couple pictured together right). Diane sold her home in Musselburgh, East Lothian, two years ago, using the cash to build a house in Sri Lanka and buy her husband a minibus in Ahungalla, south of the capital Colombo. Priyanjana was killed by gangsters last year, leaving Diane stranded in the country and she finally landed at Edinburgh Airport on Tuesday night after a 20-hour journey.

  12. November 20, 2018 at 3:03 am

    “I have seen tons of women with no career prospects, no independent source of money, extremely mediocre looks and making barely enough to keep a roof over their heads behave as if they were destined for greatness. Then there are younger chicks with almost minimum wage jobs who firmly believe that their dream guy is right around the corner. Even those whom I “helped” in exchange for services many years ago never stopped believing that they were somehow destined for greatness or at least an upper-middle class lifestyle. More problematically, this does not change even after hitting ‘the wall’. If anything, their solipsism goes into overdrive.”

    The wall doesn’t exist for women that is why. The wall is a concept made up by deselected men, to make them feel better about getting deselected, it is a revenge fantasy..

    A feminist pretending to be something else, I see..

    Female sexuality does decline, but it is so much more greater than male sexuality, it doesn’t really matter anyway.

    80 year old grannies can go on tinder and get 100 hook ups a year no effort.

    Good looking guys will struggle to get 10 hook ups a year, if they are lucky.

    Also I do not see how it is problematic anyway, if women do not respect men, why would you want a desperate used up women who only wants you because she hit the wall?

    • November 20, 2018 at 9:23 am

      The wall doesn’t exist for women that is why. The wall is a concept made up by deselected men, to make them feel better about getting deselected, it is a revenge fantasy..

      Yes.

      These “manosphere”, “game” and “PUA” bastards are living in an indoctrinated traditional fantasy world and are no longer worthy or my attention, nor respect, in real life NOR online. The manosphere is a very embarrassing and contradictory place. They fail to understand something…

      I remember when I was 14, some “street thugs” who had game with women always told me “Man, talk to older hoes. Young hoes are full of shit.” And guess what? They were right. Buy the time I reached 20, not only did I discover that women cheat a lot on their impotent beta provider husbands, but I also found out that women’s sexual peak doesn’t hit until they are in their late 20s and well into their 30s, 40s and early 50s – hence America’s dating game being ran by MILFs, Cougars, single mothers and even BBW-types. Older women are seasoned players, they know their time is limited and they won’t make you jump through enormous hoops to get sex, unless they have a lot of options or are just flat-out conceited. Me? I prefer older females. If I want younger females in their 20s, chances are going overseas is the best route.

      Advocatus Diaboli DID say in a topic he wrote that MILFs and Cougars may not look good naked in comparison to young twenty-somethings. This depends on a woman’s diet, gym activity and stress level. I’ve seen a handful of Cougars in their late 40s who look better than some chicks in their 20s who are hooked on alcohol, cigarettes, dope and fast food.

      • November 20, 2018 at 1:11 pm

        The “manosphere” and “PUA” is bullshit. What contradictory shit. They want us to return to Victorian England where there was no sex outside of marriage, people or women were restricted, women had no options. At the same time, they think they are going to be “alphas” that have a harem of hoes on the side.

        Agree on the idea that those making money of “Game” are snake-oil salesman and those buying it are delusional.

        Wife at home (traditional) AND hoes living under your pimp hand (harem). And a traditional family life with three kids at the same time. Fat chance!

        Yeah, it is a lot of easier to bang an American housewife, MILF or thirty something, especially if she has weak-ass husband. Most guys don’t experience it because they never hit on a married chick. Especially if her husband works long hours. Or he travels for work. That shit is easy. She is alone, at home, bored. Fucking easy.

        The worst shit is smoking, stress and tanning. Fast food is ok if you limit the amount you eat (pepsi will kill you). Smoking destroys a woman’s looks. Alcohol is bad but smoking is horrendous. Staying out in the sun the worst of all. There are some horrible older wrinkled women in the South and the Southwest and Texas/Mexico or anywhere people stay out in the hot sun.

      • November 20, 2018 at 1:58 pm

        you are full of nonsense as well.

        There is no such thing as a beta provider, that is pua manosphere nonsense. No such thing as a beta male, that is pseudo science designed to create male anxiety. Anxiety is used to market bullshit to men.

        All men pander and provide to women, or they are not in a relationship. The concept is the beta provider, is just the “bad weak man” concept used to scapegoat men.

        There are no strong alpha men who avoid providing for women.

        Criminal thugs “alphas” provide for women that is why they commit crimes.

        “Advocatus Diaboli DID say in a topic he wrote that MILFs and Cougars may not look good naked in comparison to young twenty-somethings. This depends on a woman’s diet, gym activity and stress level. I’ve seen a handful of Cougars in their late 40s who look better than some chicks in their 20s who are hooked on alcohol, cigarettes, dope and fast food.”

        Talking about settling for older women is just coping and looking for a bail out.

        It doesn’t matter what the age of the woman is, the power dynamic in the relationship is the same.

        Men are far more emotionally needy than women. Women find relationships more interchangeable. Men have a higher sex . drive.

        “s. Older women are seasoned players, they know their time is limited and they won’t make you jump through enormous hoops to get sex,”

        LOLOLOL okay.

        Damn men are obsessed with women.

      • Orson
        November 21, 2018 at 1:36 am

        “Fist In the Face Of Misandry ” The name sounds like MRA bullshit.

        Bingo! Any guy who claims that 80 year old women are getting laid by 30 year old guys is peddling feminist bullshit.

        These MRA guys are the most blue pilled in the manosphere. The alpha/beta is related to the dichotomy of female sexual strategy. She will make a guy jump through hoops, make him wait for sex meanwhile at the same night she might give head in the toilets of the club to a guy she met just few minutes ago. So the alpha/beta is contextual and usually interchangable. I don’t think she is always looking for provider in the first instance, as is the rational explanation given in the manosphere, but rather it’s for deriving sadistic pleasure from rejecting men and see them jump through hoops for her. Would a sensible man waste his time or a her time by continuing a series of sexless dates with a woman he is not intending to fuck?

  13. Don
    December 4, 2018 at 8:01 pm

    How do I explain to my brother that escorts don’t necessarily dislike you if they have sex with your for money while his girlfriend may actually dislike him even though she has sex with him for zero direct payment?

    • P Ray
      December 4, 2018 at 8:17 pm

      Sounds like a familiar question, to be answered by … A REPOST!

      How much do you spend to keep your ‘relationship’ and ‘family’ intact, and how much sex do you get per 1000 $/ you spend on it?
      For every other guy who is not a male model,
      unless you are holding something over her,
      these are the hoops you will be going through to be paid in sex:
      (Would ladies be angry if Sean O’ Pry said this? Or it’s just anger-inducing because a regular guy points it out, lol 🙂 )
      Scoured from the Internet archives, Cost of Sex with a Girlfriend AND Cost of Sex with a Wife: (the website at costofsex.com and its interactive Javascript calculator are now offline)

      Cost of Sex with a Girlfriend:
      =======================
      Time you waste on your GF
      How many hours do you spend having stupid conversations with your GF (per week):
      How many hours do you spend watching TV shows with her you would rather not watch (per week):
      How many hours do you spend doing other stupid things with her you would rather not do (per week):
      How many hours do you spend commuting to/from your GF per week:
      Money you spend on your GF
      How much do you spend on taking her out to dinners/drinks per week:
      How much do you spend on other entertainment and buying things for your GF per week:
      How much you spend on everything else for her – vacations, shopping, gifts, etc…(per year):
      Other
      How much do you earn per hour:
      How often do you have sex with your GF per week (on average):
      Results
      Hours you waste on your GF per week:
      Money you spend on your GF per week:
      Financial cost of sex (one time), not including the cost of time you waste:
      Real cost of having sex (one time) with your GF (your time + money):

      Cost of Sex with a Wife:
      ===================
      Emotional cost
      How many hours do you spend having pointless conversations with your wife per week (conversations you would rather not have):
      How many hours does your wife spend either nagging at you, or being upset with you (per week, only include hours you are in the same location):
      How many hours do you spend watching TV shows with your wife you don’t really want to watch (per week):
      How many hours do you spend doing other things with your wife you would rather not do (per week):
      Money you spend on your wife
      How much do you spend on housing per month:
      How much would you spend on housing if you were single (per month – make your best guess):
      How much do you spend on your wife (besides housing) per month:
      Big ticket items (not included above), such as a car, vacations, etc you buy your wife – per year:
      Other
      How many times do you have sex with your wife per year:
      Results
      Hours of your time your wife sucks out of you per week:
      Money you spend on your wife per week:
      Emotional cost of sex – hours of your free time you waste to have sex (one time) with your wife:
      Financial cost of having sex (one time) with your wife:

      And a handy, helpful comic to let you know the woman … hates the guy she intends to get to marry her:

      • Don
        December 4, 2018 at 8:42 pm

        I want to thank you for the above post. It’s really eye opening. But there is a problem.

        Do you mean that women can only like Chads and will never like other men even if they have sex with them for money? On that same note, is it true that men can’t have sex with women who seem disinterested like an escort?

        What am I missing here?

      • P Ray
        December 4, 2018 at 9:03 pm

        Most women, only like the men who have better(lookswise) women to choose from than her, but picked her alone.

        Also the women who are most dissatisfied with men, are the ones that got the fucking but not the commitment from high-status men.

        And women don’t value commitment from men that are not attractive to other women.

        And for the escorts, since you are paying the money, get your value for money.

        As somebody else said:
        I would highly advise you to be as picky as possible. Get exactly who you pay for and never ever settle for anyone less. Not when choosing an escort that’s for sure. More women, young and middle-aged, with less than stellar looks are getting into the hooker trade. It makes more sense for these not-so-attractive ladies to dive right into the sex trade business if they want some action. Tall guys don’t want them and settling down with a short guy is a no-no. Her solution? Sacrifice her ego and pride while taking a job getting paid to have sex with the guys that society deems inferior. Trust me, she has no problems taking money from the short guy as long as he’s not courting her for a real relationship. At the same time, she has no problems spreading her legs for free if the guy is tall and good looking. Heck, she’ll take her price tag down, close shop and pose normally if there’s the possibility of a legitimate date with the tall guy. She might even pay for the date herself.
        The good-looking girls who are escorts are high quality, high caliber, high society hookers. You won’t get remotely close to those kind unless you shell out serious dollars. A lot of them have a high price tag just for the most minimal of services to begin with. Some won’t even take your money if you don’t physically appeal to them. Yes, heightism is alive and well, even in the sex trade business.
        You do make a very good point. There’s no reason to feel guilty or shallow about paying for a service if it means you’re getting exactly what you want with your money.
        Remember, getting paid to have sex that sometimes includes a free dinner, free drinks with free hotel fees is a ridiculously easy job for women.

      • Don
        December 4, 2018 at 9:45 pm

        Thanks P Ray. I guess trying to impress people who doesn’t like you is generally a bad thing let alone trying to impress women who doesn’t like you.

        Thank you very much for this clarification.

  14. P Ray
    December 25, 2018 at 8:08 pm

    The one thing people forget when they say “White women not wanting interracial relationships is OK, all other women wanting relationships with white men is also OK” …

    could it also be that the white women in this situation …
    are actually putting together a wonderful false paternity setup?

    Step 1. Say men of all other races are inferior
    Step 2. Get a clueless white guy to marry you
    Step 3. Get pregnant by a high status white guy
    Step 4. Profit!

    An interesting thing is that people who are racist, many do not have sterling qualities of character with the exception of the racism … the racism is just one of a spectrum of flaws, like … not wanting to work harder, expecting unearned rewards, the right to behave loutishly without consequence, and covertly undermining those of a different race.

    I suspect the “Muh White Supremacy” gang hasn’t figured out the downside, that their “loyal women” may simply be “the woman you are married to, while she takes dick from a “superior” white guy” … in reality, that is probably what would have happened at the end if Hitler had taken over. Loads of white guys, (unknowingly) fostering an Übermensch’s kids.

    • P Ray
      December 27, 2018 at 10:23 am

      Lel, nobody replying to the above comment … I must have struck a nerve! 🙂
      Feel free to use the above comment, Advocatus 🙂

    • P Ray
      January 13, 2019 at 6:58 am

      More proof of this (I call it)”White Genocide carried out by Ubermensch and their female enablers i.e. married women who want to practice Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks):
      https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-6585595/Thousands-dads-left-shock-DIY-paternity-tests-soar.html
      -Thousands of UK dads are left in shock as DIY paternity tests soar
      -Up to 30,000 tests are being performed every year, says Alphabiolabs
      -The DNA tests can be carried out with just a simple cheek swab
      -20 per cent of men will learn they are not the father of the child they are testing

      And the money shot / vinegar stroke:
      In some US states, concern over this has led to a recent ban on DIY home DNA testing, with all tests now having to be ordered by a doctor or court official and conducted under their supervision. In Britain, there is no such legislation currently being considered.

      Paternity testing is already very illegal in France. Civilisation works until powerful men say “women must be totally free” … then the regular/ugly men pay for that choice.

      Sounds like subsidising the rich.

  15. P Ray
    January 25, 2019 at 7:07 pm

    Earliest blackpill sighting,
    (February 1842) Fraser’s Magazine, Volume 25, Page 152

    https://books.google.com/books?id=CcURAAAAYAAJ
    On Manners, Fashion and Things in General by Captain Orlando Sabertash
    “In fact, if a man is but handsome, they will forgive him almost every thing, except cowardice and acknowledged stupidity; and it is as much their pride, as any innate admiration of valour and talents, that makes them sticklers on these points: the finger of scorn must not be pointed at the object of their admiration”
    (The guy she likes – even if worthless, has no flaws … if you are NOT the guy she likes, your virtues don’t matter)

    “I do not mean to say that women are insensible to merit in our sex, the reverse is the case; they are very sensible of such merit, and are often gained by it. But then they are often gained by those who have no merit, – a circumstance I have always found it difficult to understand, considering how shrewd they naturally are, and how much insight into character they possess when not biassed by some of their fancies or capricios”
    (Women are very calculating, except when their personality detectors go faulty because of a handsome face)

    “Unless, indeed, you are known as something or somebody, your good things will hardly be even listened to when not introduced by good looks”
    (If you do not have good looks, you have to “compensate” for her spending time on you, in other ways)

  16. P Ray
    January 25, 2019 at 10:34 pm

    And from the “Nichomachean Ethics” by Aristotle:
    “Still it is clear that happiness requires the addition of external goods; for it is impossible, or at least difficult, to do noble deeds with no outside means.
    For many things can be done only through the aid of friends or wealth or political power; and there are some things the lack of which spoils our felicity, such as good birth, wholesome children, and personal beauty.
    For a man who is extremely ugly in appearance or low born or solitary and childless can hardly be happy; perhaps still less so, if he has exceedingly bad children or friends, or has good children or friends and lost them by death.
    As we said, then, happiness seems to need prosperity of this kind in addition to virtue.
    For this reason some persons identify happiness with good fortune, though others do so with virtue…”

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