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Why Escorts are Always a Better Deal than Relationships or Marriage: 5

December 27, 2018 27 comments

In the previous post of this series, I wrote about how the combination of magical thinking and racism prevalent among women (especially in North America) makes it essentially pointless for someone like me to even consider pursuing anything approaching a “normal” relationship with them. After a certain point, I simply stopped seeing them as human beings because there is no point in treating somebody better than how you are treated by them. In my opinion, only suckers keep treating others better than they themselves are treated. And let me be clear.. this applies regardless of whether the other party is family, friends, roommates, co-workers, boss, employer or government. You have no obligation to be the ‘better’ person as it will lead to exploitation.

Some of you might see this position as inhumane, and there is some truth to that view since too many people still feel a need to be a ‘better’ person or whatever. A frequent commentator on this blog, stonerwithaboner, has wondered on numerous occasions whether I care about what escorts think about me. While I have sorta answered that, let me repeat- once you stop seeing them as human beings, their opinion about you carries as much weight as that of a neighbors dog or cat. You know that it exists, but you do not dwell on it or care about improving it. I should, however, point out that my opinion about escorts is significantly better than so-called “real” women and have written many posts about why the former are a better deal than the later.

And why not.. you know what you are getting, terms of service are clear, racism is functionally non-existent, there is not much bait-and-switch and you can purchase the service of your choice from the server of your choice. More importantly, you can switch service providers according to your needs and desires and there are no hidden fees and ‘gotcha’ clauses in the exchange. If all this sounds a bit too cold-blooded, let me ask you a short series of questions starting with- how exactly is a relationship or marriage in west different from using the services of escorts? Think about it a bit, would your girlfriend or wife stay if you were chronically unemployed or became poor? And in the off-chance that she did, would the quality of the relationshit remain the same?

My point is that all of these so-called “relationships” are completely subservient to the financial viability of the arrangement. Some of you might say that this is not completely true since guys with charisma, charm, looks, fame can get tons of free pussy even if they have little money. In fact, I have written a post about how the low-level drug dealer or guy in local music group will get far more pussy than a doctor or lawyer. Here is a newsflash.. I (and majority of you) do not have oodles of charisma, charm, looks and fame. Nor should it necessary to be the proverbial rockstar to get laid with non-ugly women. Moreover, it has been quite easy for the average guy to get laid with the average girl for the vast majority of human history. That is also why most human beings tend to look.. well.. average and mediocre.

So what has changed in the past few decades, especially the last two? This is where I have to go into an area which, at first sight, might not appear to have a connection with sex or relationships. Have you ever considered that the behavior of women, especially over the past 50 years, can be modeled quite well by capitalism- or more precisely, belief in that ideology. Think about it.. women (especially in western countries) are always looking for the bigger better deal, using laws to get large payouts and generally looking at relationships in the same way a careerist looks at jobs. More importantly, a lot of the relationshit stuff is almost exclusively for public display and monetization. Did I mention the part about how they gauge relationshits by proxy measures not unlike how dumbfuck MBAs look at management.

There is one more important reason to believe that this change has much to with internalization of a capitalist belief system. Look at the patterns of fertility, changes in age of giving birth and how women increasingly look at the children (if they have any) as assets which need to optimized for the highest possible returns on investment. Long story short, they have internalized the belief system of capitalism to the point where they are all behaving like little capitalist who are trying to maximize their profit according to proxy measurements which have little to no connection with reality. And here is the thing.. pointing out this fact is unlikely to have any effect on their behavior or thought process. Your best option, then, is to treat them like you are being treated

Are you now starting to see why my reasons for preferring escorts over “real” women sound a lot like somebody trying to get best package deal for some service rather than anything with any emotional connection? In case you did not, let me restate the obvious- there is no real emotional connection in the vast majority of relationshits and marriages. Note that this is not the same as relationships having their ups and downs. We are talking about the complete lack of something as opposed to temporal changes in the magnitude of that thing. What you think is “real” is just the facade of emotion, connection, loyalty etc. And this is also why you will often hear on blogs that women from other parts of the world (even reasonably rich countries) are not as screwed up as those in the anglosphere. The key words in that sentence is “not as screwed up as”.

In the next part of this series, I will (belatedly) go through specific experiences during the 2005-2009 timespan which finally made me decide to choose the escort-only path.

What do you think? Comments?