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Why Escorts are Always a Better Deal than Relationships or Marriage: 5

In the previous post of this series, I wrote about how the combination of magical thinking and racism prevalent among women (especially in North America) makes it essentially pointless for someone like me to even consider pursuing anything approaching a “normal” relationship with them. After a certain point, I simply stopped seeing them as human beings because there is no point in treating somebody better than how you are treated by them. In my opinion, only suckers keep treating others better than they themselves are treated. And let me be clear.. this applies regardless of whether the other party is family, friends, roommates, co-workers, boss, employer or government. You have no obligation to be the ‘better’ person as it will lead to exploitation.

Some of you might see this position as inhumane, and there is some truth to that view since too many people still feel a need to be a ‘better’ person or whatever. A frequent commentator on this blog, stonerwithaboner, has wondered on numerous occasions whether I care about what escorts think about me. While I have sorta answered that, let me repeat- once you stop seeing them as human beings, their opinion about you carries as much weight as that of a neighbors dog or cat. You know that it exists, but you do not dwell on it or care about improving it. I should, however, point out that my opinion about escorts is significantly better than so-called “real” women and have written many posts about why the former are a better deal than the later.

And why not.. you know what you are getting, terms of service are clear, racism is functionally non-existent, there is not much bait-and-switch and you can purchase the service of your choice from the server of your choice. More importantly, you can switch service providers according to your needs and desires and there are no hidden fees and ‘gotcha’ clauses in the exchange. If all this sounds a bit too cold-blooded, let me ask you a short series of questions starting with- how exactly is a relationship or marriage in west different from using the services of escorts? Think about it a bit, would your girlfriend or wife stay if you were chronically unemployed or became poor? And in the off-chance that she did, would the quality of the relationshit remain the same?

My point is that all of these so-called “relationships” are completely subservient to the financial viability of the arrangement. Some of you might say that this is not completely true since guys with charisma, charm, looks, fame can get tons of free pussy even if they have little money. In fact, I have written a post about how the low-level drug dealer or guy in local music group will get far more pussy than a doctor or lawyer. Here is a newsflash.. I (and majority of you) do not have oodles of charisma, charm, looks and fame. Nor should it necessary to be the proverbial rockstar to get laid with non-ugly women. Moreover, it has been quite easy for the average guy to get laid with the average girl for the vast majority of human history. That is also why most human beings tend to look.. well.. average and mediocre.

So what has changed in the past few decades, especially the last two? This is where I have to go into an area which, at first sight, might not appear to have a connection with sex or relationships. Have you ever considered that the behavior of women, especially over the past 50 years, can be modeled quite well by capitalism- or more precisely, belief in that ideology. Think about it.. women (especially in western countries) are always looking for the bigger better deal, using laws to get large payouts and generally looking at relationships in the same way a careerist looks at jobs. More importantly, a lot of the relationshit stuff is almost exclusively for public display and monetization. Did I mention the part about how they gauge relationshits by proxy measures not unlike how dumbfuck MBAs look at management.

There is one more important reason to believe that this change has much to with internalization of a capitalist belief system. Look at the patterns of fertility, changes in age of giving birth and how women increasingly look at the children (if they have any) as assets which need to optimized for the highest possible returns on investment. Long story short, they have internalized the belief system of capitalism to the point where they are all behaving like little capitalist who are trying to maximize their profit according to proxy measurements which have little to no connection with reality. And here is the thing.. pointing out this fact is unlikely to have any effect on their behavior or thought process. Your best option, then, is to treat them like you are being treated

Are you now starting to see why my reasons for preferring escorts over “real” women sound a lot like somebody trying to get best package deal for some service rather than anything with any emotional connection? In case you did not, let me restate the obvious- there is no real emotional connection in the vast majority of relationshits and marriages. Note that this is not the same as relationships having their ups and downs. We are talking about the complete lack of something as opposed to temporal changes in the magnitude of that thing. What you think is “real” is just the facade of emotion, connection, loyalty etc. And this is also why you will often hear on blogs that women from other parts of the world (even reasonably rich countries) are not as screwed up as those in the anglosphere. The key words in that sentence is “not as screwed up as”.

In the next part of this series, I will (belatedly) go through specific experiences during the 2005-2009 timespan which finally made me decide to choose the escort-only path.

What do you think? Comments?

  1. P Ray
    December 27, 2018 at 7:32 pm

    I would say the “real reason” behind women being entitled, demanding and racist …
    is that she had already been with the guy she really wanted early on in her life,
    he managed to smash her heart, and ever after that you become the guy who has to compensate her for her smooshed emotions. I have a picture to go with that, will also include it later.

    I suppose that is why it’s so very important for a woman to remain a virgin:
    1. her pair-bonding has not been damaged
    2. she is not “pining for Chad Thundercock” which consequently
    3. means she can be very cold and greedy towards men she is not attracted to
    4. making men understand that the vast majority of women are going to treat men that way
    5. turning romance into a real transaction
    6. and making true the reality that (almost) everyone around you is just out for the better deal (witness the people turning up to air their grievances on the “Jerry Springer” show) … which has one thing in common namely
    7. almost all the people there used intoxicants prior to having their adultery

    • Conscience Constituent
      December 27, 2018 at 11:25 pm

      This is utter bullshit,only simps belive that shit.
      Trust me,i live in Italy and even when our society placed a high value on female virginity women,were constantly cheating on their hubands,they were just more discrete about it.
      Knowing a lot of women from the previous generation has allowed me to hear quiter a lot of really amusing stories about the adventures of women in the same generation as my grandmother.

      • P Ray
        December 27, 2018 at 11:31 pm

        Trust me,i live in Italy and even when our society placed a high value on female virginity women,were constantly cheating on their husbands,they were just more discrete about it.

        Well … looks like the husbands stupidly believed the wife without actually testing if she was telling the truth.

        If the husband is the same age as the wife, that’s just stupid.

        Ideally the husband should be ~30+. Wife, can try for 15+.
        Simple reason being, there’s … simply more virgins at that age.

        Any other arrangement towards marriage is also simply stupid, because a woman who is with you only because the better guys chucked her away, is going to act out her resentment in very creative ways.

      • P Ray
        January 1, 2019 at 10:08 pm

        Looks like someone else agrees with me:
        [–]sleepyweaselisawakeMod 80 points 8 hours ago
        “Feminists are taking the Red Pill.”
        Hell no they aren’t. Feminists are aging out of the CC and are suddenly realizing the decade they spent chasing cock and spending every penny on slutty clothes and girls’ nights out 6 days a week has left them with nothing.
        Meanwhile, their more conservative counterparts married good men young and are contributing to building a strong family unit.

        Any man who wife’s up a woman in her 30s is a fucking moron. You’ll never be the best anything she’s ever had. You’ll be the guy who’s good enough to support her throughout her golden years that start in her late 30s until she’s dead.

      • P Ray
        January 2, 2019 at 2:34 am

        Even my age range was close too:
        [–]BewareTheOldManEndorsed 1 point 1 day ago
        Mr. Cross – that link to PPD that states “marriage is exceedingly important to women” leads with the response from a married 24-year-old woman who goes on to relate the importance of marriage…yada, yada, yada.
        With the average marriage age as 27 for women (USA), 29 for men (USA) – assuming an average of two years of dating plus one year engagement (for a total of three years), that translates to meeting introduction age for the woman is 24. Assuming sexual activity since age 16, I don’t see that as a good deal for men…UNLESS she had TWO or less confirmed LTRs and no random orgies or one-night stands in between – none of which any sane woman will admit to any man she considers a prospective husband.

        I’ve had random online women accuse me of having some unhealthy obsession with virginity. I don’t – I’m at the point where virginity is not a necessity…mostly because there are no virgins past age 16, but I also would NOT recommend known sluts as candidates for marriage.

        https://www.womenshealthmag.com/relationships/a19567270/average-age-of-marriage/
        “This is the Average Age of Marriage Right Now”
        Knowing what I know about the average woman and their behavior, I’d recommend a 28 to 30-year old man going much younger when seeking marriage based on two reasons:
        -promiscuous past and the associated baggage
        -27-year-old women are at the end of their best prime attractive years and two-thirds into their most fertile years
        What’s your take on this assessment?

  2. December 27, 2018 at 8:54 pm

    And this is also why you will often hear on blogs that women from other parts of the world (even reasonably rich countries) are not as screwed up as those in the anglosphere. The key words in that sentence is “not as screwed up as”.

    [hope I used the italics code right this time, I forget at times… lol]

    I don’t doubt this at all. I don’t complain about American women, but I believe this is very true. Hell, women in third world countries (in the ghettos of Southeast Asia and the Caribbean Islands) are not as screwed up as American women – middle class or even in lower-class ghettos!

    there is no real emotional connection in the vast majority of relationshits and marriages. Note that this is not the same as relationships having their ups and downs. We are talking about the complete lack of something as opposed to temporal changes in the magnitude of that thing. What you think is “real” is just the facade of emotion, connection, loyalty etc.

    Even Alan Roger Currie said years ago that no woman is going to marry a man just for good sex. They’ll marry a man for financial support/assistance, emotional connectivity and/or to raise a family. But even then, you can fake love. You can never fake lust (sexual attraction). Emotions can be faked, whereas it’s almost impossible to fake biological and sexual attraction.

    • P Ray
      December 27, 2018 at 9:04 pm

      Hell, women in third world countries (in the ghettos of Southeast Asia and the Caribbean Islands) are not as screwed up as American women – middle class or even in lower-class ghettos!

      Maybe Southeast Asian or Caribbean women are less materialistic and screwed up than American women towards you because they think you will be their ticket to America – and they have to keep up the charade until they get the payoff … however, there is an academic study to cure that delusion:

      https://sg.news.yahoo.com/blogs/singaporescene/pore-girls-materialistic-smu-study-092109660.html
      S’pore girls are materialistic: SMU study

      kaifong
      SingaporeScene•June 15, 2011

      A new research has shown that Singaporean women are “significantly” more materialistic than their American peers. Published earlier this year, the study by Singapore Management University (SMU) psychology professor Norman Li surveyed about 400 psychology students aged between 19 and 21.

      The local females polled an average of 3.98, compared to the American women’s score of 3.74. The closer the score is to five, the more materialistic one is deemed to be.

  3. Jordan
    December 27, 2018 at 10:44 pm

    “Here is a newsflash.. I (and majority of you) do not have oodles of charisma, charm, looks and fame.”

    Since you admit it, stop claiming that the “real” women that you have encountered have all been “racist”. You’re an Indian (dot, not feather to incompetent readers of your blog), lacks any great looks, and quite possibly a beta schlub. Stop blaming your lack of looks on racism.

    Now I agree with you that marriage is a risky proposition, one that could put a man to bankruptcy thanks to the gynocentric control of the justice system. However, that doesn’t mean that marriage is ALWAYS a bad proposition for the ones that truly deserve it and know how to work the system. For example, if you want children and want to ensure their success, a marriage may seem beneficial. Your failure in terms of defining what exactly are the end goals here is the problem: are you trying to get constant pussy, or are you looking for companionship that leads to an offspring? If you are an ugly Joe (or Rajiv in your case), then yes, by all means, go throw your money at prostitutes (I like how you use the term escorts, as if it makes them seem any better). But if your goal is to create a family, then marriage is the goal but you have to be red pilled in ensuring that you don’t get taken advantage of in the marriage. The same ways an escort can take advantage of their client, it’s no different than a wife taking advantage of her husband. Hence, guides, advice, and red pill blogs are created for both scenarios.

    • P Ray
      December 27, 2018 at 11:36 pm

      Unless you have a very big cudgel – either in the form of laws that don’t allow a foreign spouse to work, require the foreign spouse to only be employed where their wages are very high (hence, very few job openings) or easily gain citizenship (opening you up to a 50% asset grab) –
      your marriage is doomed as after being naturalised she sees you as “a guy who could not do better”.

      Good thing Asia doesn’t give away citizenship so easily. For the Americans, sorry, but your laws have doomed you.

  4. Jay Fink
    December 28, 2018 at 12:50 am

    You mentioned how the low level drug dealer guy gets a lot of pussy. Congress recently passed a criminal justice reform bill that is going to release tons of these kinds of drug dealer guys, at least the ones that are in federal prisons. My guess is states will soon follow. Women are going to love having these bad boys out in circulation and they will be sexually rewarded.

    • P Ray
      December 28, 2018 at 1:06 am

      Ever notice how, with the rise of the black- and red-pill, along with economic collapse, exposure of corruption scandals and laws that are manifestly unjust, suddenly the governments of many Western countries are legalising hallucinogenic drugs?
      Almost as if they know a population blazed out of their minds, is better than one that blazes away at them with an AK-47 …

      The only hope for a turnaround is maybe a prominent official’s son or daughter gets murdered by the kid from a union of drug addict parents. Bullets change governments far surer than votes

      • Jay Fink
        December 28, 2018 at 12:37 pm

        Yes I have noticed. It really does seem like the government wants the population high on drugs now. They eliminated the stigma and are now taking away the legal penalties. They must have figured out people are easier to control when they are drugged up.

  5. Right wingers are sub humans
    December 28, 2018 at 2:24 am

    Right winger: the left/jews/communists have ruined with our women, this is why our women see us only as a means to an end.

    Left winger: capitalism has ruined our women, this is why they see us solely in a cold and utilitarian light.

    This post is a pretty pathetic attempt at justifying the shitty behavior that women exhibit across all cultures.

    • P Ray
      December 28, 2018 at 8:16 am

      If you have to fight to win the love of your life, maybe it’s not worth fighting for. You’re good enough to be loved by someone who doesn’t need convincing. At least you got to believe that – Jerry Springer.

      Also reminds me of this comic:
      Man: I’m trying to be the right guy for you.
      Woman: The right guy wouldn’t have to try.

      Women snicker while men wine and dine them, then insult them by saying they’re trying to buy love.
      That’s why you go to McDonald’s for your first date. If she wants effort, she can split the bill or give you sex after.

      • Right wingers are sub humans
        December 28, 2018 at 12:17 pm

        I never date, that is a waste of time, i would much rather pay for sex upfront and be on my way.

      • Jay Fink
        December 28, 2018 at 12:30 pm

        I used to be that guy when I was younger and dumber. There was a young woman I fell in love with that I wined and dined. She was pretty, feminine, charming…I loved every second I was with her. Not only wouldn’t she have sex with me what made it worse is she was having sex with everyone else and telling me all about it.

        The worst is after taking her shopping and out to an expensive restaurant she started flirting with some guy and left me to go home with him. I cut her off after that. She was very upset…not just because of the meals…she spent a lot of time with me and was genuinely connected with me emotionally…too bad for her and me that it wasn’t sexual as well.

        I realize how pathetic I was. Don’t judge me that was 20 years ago and I have learned a lot since then. She is on my Facebook now. She is a twice divorced single mother….she still looks good though.

      • P Ray
        December 28, 2018 at 6:10 pm

        I realize how pathetic I was.
        Nope, if you were able to cut her off, that is GREAT. Imagine the number of simps that kept her sustained with money and time.
        Twice divorced single mother? You can see examples of her and laugh at:
        https://old.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/

        A great site indeed!

      • P Ray
        December 29, 2018 at 10:36 am

        @Right wingers are sub humans
        I never date, that is a waste of time, i would much rather pay for sex upfront and be on my way.

        Someone else wrote a nice rebuttal:
        i was thinking the same thing when i looked into hookers near me. i need to submit to a background check, provide my LinkedIn profile and then write a personal message about why i want to see them JUST SO i can pay $300 to fuck them? it’s ridiculous, i’d rather buy a $50 fleshlight

        Another guy called MasterYoda in Australia has also stated that women actively turn down money from guys they don’t find attractive. Looks like they don’t need the money since the government is their sugar daddy.

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