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How to Use Escorts: IV

January 7, 2010 55 comments

In a previous post on this subject, I had talked about using online resources to optimize your experience with escorts. I will answer the other half of the question today: agency or independent contractor?

Before I say anything more, remember this:

If you are a newbie, your best experience will probably with a well-researched escort from an established, but not too expensive agency.

Now there are some caveats about using agencies:

1. Never use an agency that boasts of an elite client base. They are just lazy, snobby ripoffs.
2. Never use agencies that require you to pay in advance.
3. Stop patronizing any agency that sides with a gal you had to send back. Trust me, that happens.
4. Anything above 300$/hr and without MSOG is not worth it, no exceptions!

If you perform enough background research and use common sense, you will have a very pleasurable experience with an agency escort. It also helps that many agencies have lots of new faces, and the owners appreciate good repeat customers.

The quality of independent contractors can vary greatly, however as long as you perform a skeptical review check and take common sense precautions- you will be fine. Indeed the true gems in the escort business are often independent contractors.

As many of you know, escorts can be either incalls or outcalls. While each type has its pros and cons, which I discuss in a future article- outcalls are often the safer option. Also note that established agencies do not send any man/ driver along with your outcall to your door, and that is one of the sure signs of a scam or shakedown. The usual pattern involves somebody or a cab to drop her off, a quick phone call that she has reached, and one after the hour (or more) is over when someone or a cab to pick her up. That is it! Anything more than that is a bad sign, and feel free to bailout of such a scenario.

Any man who accompanies escorts to your door, hangs around in your house, property, floor of hotel is a sign of a scam or amateurs. At most, the guy can sit in the lobby/ bar of the hotel. Also be very suspicious of more than one guy accompanying the escort.

I have more suggestions for things to watch out for when using incalls, in my next post in this series. After that I will talk about massage parlours etc..

And one more thing:

If an escort is significantly different from her online description (official or reviews), send her away. You should not have to pay 200-300$ for an inferior lay, that is what committed men do.. Every wonder why the same word is used for a man in a relationship and one in a mental asylum?

How to Use Escorts- I

December 25, 2009 46 comments

I have been thinking about posting this series of articles for some time. So here is the first one..

Before we get into the how of using escorts, let me start with what you should avoid if you choose to use escorts.

1. Avoid streetwalkers! No exceptions… Streetwalkers are among the most desperate and screwed up women you will have the misfortune to meet.They are very likely to provide a suboptimal experience, try to scam you and might have serious untreated STDs. Moreover “law” enforcement likes to setup sting operations that involve streetwalkers at a much higher rate than for any other type of paid sex.

2. Avoid white escorts born in north-american countries. If you must, check out their reviews and show them the door at the first sign of significant ‘attitude’. You are paying, not her. Women from non-anglosphere countries are often much more professional and nicer than anglo-descent escorts. Escorts of east-european and south-american descent are the best.. the fond memories.

3. With regards to black escorts, caribbean born escorts have infinitely better attitudes than native-born ones. Black escorts (non native born) are great in bed, are often slender or curvy as opposed to fat, have good technique and often have a nice attitude. Once again, I have many good memories of such encounters.

4. East-asian women are not to my liking but often are very competent professionals. Steer away from native-born escorts in this group. Many half-asian escorts are very pretty, feminine and exotic looking. Once again, I have enjoyed half-asian escorts.

5. Use a reasonably well established agency, check local escort review boards and do your homework. I cannot stress this enough. Craiglist is a big hit-and-miss. Do some research on the local escort scene before diving in.. google and bing are your best entry point into this world. Beware of shill reviews and bait-and-switches.

6. Get a pay-and-talk cell phone for all escort related business. Escorts that demand a lot more personal info are not worth it.

7. If you are going to an incall, carry only enough money to pay for the encounter, a possible tip and the cab ride home. If you have to drive to the incall, always park some distance away from the location. Outcalls are best done in hotels.. you will be surprised how many “good” hotels will rent you a room for a few hours if you phrase your request differently.

8. If you live in a “law and order” infested part of north america, you might consider moving to more reasonable jurisdictions. Short vacations to mexico, canada, the caribbean, europe, south america is another great option. A plane ticket to many of these places costs less than your alimony/ child support check. If you use escorts in other countries, please do your research and do not try to find the cheapest ones. It is not worth it!

9. Remember that YOU are the customer. It is YOU who control the encounter. She is their to fulfill YOUR fantasies. Her pleasure does not matter nor is she is ever going to love you (rather like every other woman you have ever been with).. her feelings are material only to the extent of her performing the tasks at hand (or mouth, vagina etc).

10. If you feel that a particular person, situation or encounter is sketchy or feeling odd, trust your spidey senses and walk out. You can always buy another encounter, one hot escort is a lot like another hot escort. No woman is unique.

The next post in this series is now up: How to Use Escorts- II