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How to Use Escorts: IV

January 7, 2010 55 comments

In a previous post on this subject, I had talked about using online resources to optimize your experience with escorts. I will answer the other half of the question today: agency or independent contractor?

Before I say anything more, remember this:

If you are a newbie, your best experience will probably with a well-researched escort from an established, but not too expensive agency.

Now there are some caveats about using agencies:

1. Never use an agency that boasts of an elite client base. They are just lazy, snobby ripoffs.
2. Never use agencies that require you to pay in advance.
3. Stop patronizing any agency that sides with a gal you had to send back. Trust me, that happens.
4. Anything above 300$/hr and without MSOG is not worth it, no exceptions!

If you perform enough background research and use common sense, you will have a very pleasurable experience with an agency escort. It also helps that many agencies have lots of new faces, and the owners appreciate good repeat customers.

The quality of independent contractors can vary greatly, however as long as you perform a skeptical review check and take common sense precautions- you will be fine. Indeed the true gems in the escort business are often independent contractors.

As many of you know, escorts can be either incalls or outcalls. While each type has its pros and cons, which I discuss in a future article- outcalls are often the safer option. Also note that established agencies do not send any man/ driver along with your outcall to your door, and that is one of the sure signs of a scam or shakedown. The usual pattern involves somebody or a cab to drop her off, a quick phone call that she has reached, and one after the hour (or more) is over when someone or a cab to pick her up. That is it! Anything more than that is a bad sign, and feel free to bailout of such a scenario.

Any man who accompanies escorts to your door, hangs around in your house, property, floor of hotel is a sign of a scam or amateurs. At most, the guy can sit in the lobby/ bar of the hotel. Also be very suspicious of more than one guy accompanying the escort.

I have more suggestions for things to watch out for when using incalls, in my next post in this series. After that I will talk about massage parlours etc..

And one more thing:

If an escort is significantly different from her online description (official or reviews), send her away. You should not have to pay 200-300$ for an inferior lay, that is what committed men do.. Every wonder why the same word is used for a man in a relationship and one in a mental asylum?

How to Use Escorts- III

January 3, 2010 13 comments

My last post on this topic yielded one very good question:

Do you have any online resources you would recommend? Also, does it make more sense to go through an agency or use an independent contractor?

The simple answer to the first question is- through escort review boards. The complex answer is below:

The internet is one of the two great revolutions in finding a good escort. As early as 1997, escort review boards and newsgroups for most major cities in the western world were already up. They have evolved over time, and become better and larger. While the earlier ones were yahoo and msn based, since 2000 most are hosted independently and have a more stable existence.

How do I find them:

1. Use your favorite search engine with no result filtering. You are looking for explicit content, not approved family-friendly content. I use google, though bing is just as good.

2. Use query strings such as “x escort review board”, “x escort review bulletin board”, “x escort bulletin board” where x= name of city. Such searches will often net you multiple good leads.

3. Make sure that you are using a secure browser (updated firefox, chrome, opera) with the appropriate browser security settings. I cannot stress this enough, because some fake (or legitimate sites) might try to install malware. Please use your personal computer for such research. Good quality non-work connectivity (outside your home) can be obtained from a number of sources- starbucks or tethering your smartphone.

4. Now browse each hit, carefully and methodically. Take notes if necessary. A genuine escort review board will have some advertisements, but is usually a very plain affair with a clear separation of advertisements and reviews. Most boards are powered by vBulletin.

5. Most boards, especially in the USA require you to become a member to read reviews. Outside the USA, membership is usually necessary only for commenting. Membership to genuine escort review boards is always free. The advertisements (often in a separate section) pay for the board. Do not use a throwaway e-mail address or your real name (yahoo and gmail pseudonym addresses are respectable).

6. BBs have an etiquette. Explicit language is discouraged for legal reasons, especially in the USA (land of the free). The FAQ, informal glossaries and common sense are the best guides to understanding reviews. If you read such boards for between 1-3 months, you will understand the ‘scene’ in that city very well. Do not expect long timers to give you explicit tips, and as always use multiple sources before you make a decision.

7. If multiple boards are available for a given city, use them! As always, keep notes- so you can track reviews and cross reference them. There are many fine addons in firefox (browser) to help you capture text and create rudimentary databases, as you are data-mining.

8. Craiglist is an interesting source of leads on local review boards, as many escorts mention their positive reviews on such boards- but beware of shills (both reviews and overtly positive boards). Shill reviews for escorts are similar to shill reviews on amazon/ ebay, and can be largely eliminated by cross-referencing and using your common sense.

9. Do not let your dick make decisions. I cannot stress that enough..

In the next post, I will answer the second part of the question: How to arrive at a decision and the relative merits/ perils of different types of service providers.

Part 4 is now up: How to Use Escorts- IV

How to Use Escorts- II

January 1, 2010 11 comments

In a previous post, I had mentioned some basic precautions about using escorts. In this post, I shall talk about how to optimize your experience, especially having multiple satisfying sessions in an hour.

As some of you know, most reasonable escorts are quite OK with MSOG (multiple shots on goal). If an escort is charging you extra for more than one turn, just walk away. There are many others who look just as good and will be willing. Many snobbish american-born escorts try to extract as much money from you for as little as possible, surprised?

In any case, once you are with a willing escort- the question is: How do you insure that you have satisfying MSOG?

My simple answer for a whole spectrum of issues from poor mood, anxiety, premature ejaculation is PDE5 inhibitor drugs. Yes, it is that simple. Not only do quarter- to half- maximal doses of these drugs cure anxiety-induced ED, but they also work great for premature ejaculation. My experience suggests that you can essentially convert a 1 hour session into two-three SOGs with almost no refractory phase. Indeed, the confidence caused by their effects make the session even better.

Some of you many say that such methods are artificial, and I agree. But so is game, driving cars, or living in a society with a good sewage system and a host of other things.

There is no evidence that long-term usage of such drugs by healthy men has any long-term adverse effect, quite the contrary- they seem to improve performance even when there is no drug in your system. Indeed, the last few years have uncovered many beneficial effects of such drugs. I will devote a post to references in statistically sound, peer-reviewed medical research that points to such benefits.

About obtaining them..

Please do not use internet pharmacies! You can easily get doctors to prescribe them to you.

While certain doctors, older and american-born women, might not prescribe it you easily many others will. Since treating premature ejaculation is a very popular and almost mainstream use of such drugs, many physicians will prescribe it if you word your need differently (do not lie, just word it differently). Please be upfront that have heard about the use of PDE5 inhibitors, as opposed to older antidepressants, for that condition.

In any case, the number of deaths per million prescriptions in the sub-65 age group are negligible. Certain older drugs with a larger pill size are more suited to splitting than some newer drugs with a smaller pill size.

If you decide to get a prescription and use PDE5 inhibitors, please read the next few sentences.

1. For the love of god, use protection! I cannot stress that enough.
2. Take them an hour or two before the encounter (not 15-30 minutes). Most have a plasma half-life of over 6 hours, so a late escort will not matter.
3. Make sure that you have no pre-existing medical condition that would make using them risky.
4. I am not responsible if you hurt yourself from using PDE5 inhibitors, it is your choice and decision.
5. A couple of beers or 2-3 glasses of wine will increase the vasodilatory effect (often a lot). This fact is one of the most poorly explained issues with using these drugs. But do not go overboard with the alcohol.
6. Do not combine them with potent dual dopamine-reuptake inhibitors/ dopamine releasers such as cocaine, methamphetamine, amphetamine. It will feel very good, but the long-term effects are not worth it.

Part 3 has now been posted here: How to Use Escorts- III